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Hi thanks for your reply. I don’t need to specify what I would like made. What’s more important is whether there is a UK based seamstress that is ABDL aware. cheers

Anyone know of an alternative lifestyle (ABDL) aware seamstress in the UK I would like to have something made Thanks in advance👍

I haven’t posted often in the past but hope to be more active in 2024. Some may already know that I met a wonderful lady who has made me feel so at ease with this quirk of mine. That aside, she has suggested that we have a play date on Christmas Eve and I’m so excited about it. I did mention to her in the past that I’d love to be babied for a day but don’t want to push it onto her. ( I would hate to lose her because of my liking for nappies etc.) I don’t know what the day will pan out like and I’ll leave it up to her but some of the things I wouldn’t be upset to do include; 1. Waking up in her loving arms 2. Making love as a big boy before the day begins. 3. Being bathed 4. Having no control of what she decides to dress me in 5. Being fed lots of bottles 6. Dry nursing (I love this !) 7. Trip to the pub with my nappy and onesie on under my big boy clothes 8. Watching a film whilst snuggling 9. Lots of nappy changes (I haven’t had this done to me since my teen years so I’m not sure how I would feel) 10. Lots more snuggles, touching and full on affection 11. Maybe even put down for a nap (but I’d want to snuggling her rather than being on my own) 12. All in all, just being shown unconditional love if that’s at all possible) I love her so so much and can’t wait to be with her. Anyone else spending time as a little person together with the love of their lives over Christmas?

I had a fab experience last night. My girlfriend took me upstairs and undressed me. I asked if I could suck my thumb but was denied. Instead, she put my dummy in my mouth and told me softly I should suck on it instead. I was then lotioned up had my nappy fastened followed by my baby pants being pulled up to cover my disposable. She then put me in a snap up tee shirt. I felt nervous but also euphoric. Once settled in bed she produced a bottle of milk and proceeded to feed me. This was a first and I absolutely loved it. I almost fell asleep but it felt so natural and the feeling of love was second to none. suffice to say that I woke up with an expanded bulk between my legs. My girlfriend woke up a few minutes later and just pulled me towards her so we could embrace. I did change out of the wet nappy myself but do hope that she may take that role on in the future. I can’t wait to see her for our next date….

Off to see my girlfriend this evening and I’m really looking forward to it. She has told me that I am going to be taken care of which excites me no end. Most importantly is that she likes to mother me and I’m more than happy for her to dictate what happens rather than me leading. Here’s to a fun filled evening!!

Yes it was really tough. It still feels strange sharing this part of me with someone I love. My way of dealing with it is to not make any demands or have any pre conceived ideas as to how she should be involved. My feelings won’t go away (I know that by now) I’m just glad that she is being so supportive. Thanks for your input, it is greatly appreciated

How did I meet her? Online is the answer. Just a normal dating site. I had no expectations of meeting someone special but she and I clicked the first time we spoke. I didn’t speak about my baby side at first as that was not the reason I went on the site. Once I felt that we may get serious I resolved to tell her about this part of me. And it is only a part of me. I find her very attractive and am proud to have her on my arm when we are out together. I am a very lucky man / boyfriend / baby Cheers to you too

I have been dating my gorgeous girlfriend for just over 3 months and I’d like to share my experience. Early on I was determined to tell her about my desire to wear a nappy as it makes me feel relaxed and safe and I wanted to give her the opportunity to walk away if she wasn’t comfortable with this side of me. I’ll tackle my journey so far in 4 parts. 1. Revealing this part of me honestly 2. Her initial response 3. Where we are now Here goes…. 1. Revealing my baby / little side This was by far the hardest thing I have ever undertaken, telling someone you really care for that you are (in some peoples eyes) very odd. It was one evening after she had told me about some of the turbulence that she had experienced in her own past. What she told me made me want her even more (not age play or fetish related) so after listening to her story I felt I just had to be fully transparent with her regarding my own issues. (All true) I don’t wet every night but it’s not too often that I wake up dry. As with most people, I had lived with a feeling of shame about this part of me but I knew that if we were to have a chance together I would have to tell her everything. The conversation started by me explaining about my bed wetting, how I deal with it (by wearing a nappy) and how it made me feel (relaxed, safe and yes, also quite excited) As a foot note, whilst having therapy for an unrelated issue my bed wetting and nappy wearing came out in the open and the therapist who was amazing helped me to realise that I wasn’t evil or a freak for the way I was. As with most accounts I’ve read, I didn’t do the best job in explaining as there was still confusion in my own understanding of this part of me. However because of my therapy I was able to explain how as a bed wetting child I wore nappies for the most part until the age of 14 and yes, I derived comfort and pleasure from wearing a nappy to bed. I think that I even had my first orgasm whilst wearing a nappy and I definitely became aroused at bedtime so the sexual link was there early on. Once I had explained as much as I could I sat in front of her waiting for her response / reaction. 2. Her response I have to say that I was floored by her response (which has taken me some time to fully believe) when she just held me and more or less said “so what” My revelation made no difference in her eyes, she still thought the world of me and my expose hadn’t changed that. Wow!! I didn’t expect her unconditional acceptance of my revelation but then all I really had to go on was what I’ve read from other people in a similar situation to mine. From that moment on I have worn a nappy to bed with her on many occasions. Sometimes I put it on myself and sometimes she has done the honours (you can guess which I prefer!!) I can say from the bottom of my heart that this woman has made me more whole than I could have ever imagined I’d feel. 3. Where we are now To start with I’m enjoying spending time with an amazing woman first and foremost. Our relationship is so strong that I still pinch myself to make sure I’m not dreaming!! As far as it relates to this post, I’m just so happy that she is accepting of all of me. How the relationship develops is anyone’s guess but it couldn’t be built on stronger foundations of honesty and openness towards each other and on that basis I am happily confident that we have as good a chance as any couple in having an amazing life together. Yes, I’d love to be nurtured and babied as much as she feels comfortable with. We even looked for nappies online together which felt surreal yet thrilling. I’d love to be bathed, dressed, fed, changed and all the other things that contributors have mentioned in various posts I’ve read on here. Most importantly however is that I want to make sure that I can make this love of mine as happy as she has certainly made me. I had never before felt I could be open with a loved one because of this part of me but she has proved me wrong in so many ways. So thank you my gorgeous girl (you know who you are) and I love you so so much Xxx

I can understand your point and agree that it can be a scary prospect which is why I thought long and hard about my proposal. The house is self contained and very spacious. Just hope people can find a happy outlet for themselves. Good luck all

I have been an observer on this and other sites for some time and have found it sad that there seems to be a lack of places where our community can go and be themselves for a day or two without breaking the bank or worry about how they might be viewed. As someone who has been in the same boat, I would like to offer a potential solution. I have a couple of holiday properties in Dorset that I would be happy to let go either groups or individuals. One sleeps up to 6 and the other 16 Just putting it out there. Have a great day?