I wear to work all the time (OAB) it's no big deal any more I just make sure I wear a longer shirt to help hide the bulk and when an bend over. When you have no choice but to wear you quickly learn to just carry on with your normal life and not to worry about what you can't change.
I'm in the Appleton area, I'd love to meet up but a bit of travel might have to happen on your side because I share a vehicle with my mom and coordinating would be next to impossible.