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1. You need to not put your teddy in the washing machine anymore, yikes. 2. How To Sew ~ moogle

as i said, all i had to go on was what you had told us here... and based on that it sounded like you were only talking with her to feel ok about wearing diapers. So i apologize that i responded to the information given, but thats all i had to respond to.

maybe now that she shared her feelings with you, you could do something in return, like wear a little more discretely, or a little less often around her.. let her know you have heard what she said, and wantto make her as comfortable as possible, but *gasp* giving them up for a little bit.... you know... making the sacrifice she clearly made for you. this may sound harsh, but from what you've said here, and thts all i have to go on, everything you do is centered around being able to wear diapers around your wife and getting your wife to wear diapres. Even when you 'communicate' with her, its so you can wear diapers around her. Honestly, thats completely one sided and selfish and no wonder she was feeling ignored by you. YOU ARE IGNORING HER. everything you do with her, every interaction, diapers are still your main focus.

Let's say you do go through your test. Let's say she is relieved that you are moving on. What then? Do you actually give up diapers, fight your inner desires for the rest of your life? Or do you wear them behind her back, trying desperately to keep them a secret? Secrets don't stay secrets long in a marriage. Just a couple possibilities to consider. I recommend the open communication option. Straight up, we gotta talk and explain your side of the deal, and why you seem confused about it. Take it from there. Not easy to do if you're not used to it.

ok from what you've said you consider communication, you telling her you want to wear diapres and want her to wear diapers. thats not what i'm talking i'm saying ASK HER WHAT SHE IS FEELING! not what you want, not if she needs a diaper change.. but say straight up Are you just wearing diapers because i want you to? or do you actually enjoy them sometimes? true actual communication where you ask her what she wants, what she is feeling. it could just be, she's not that into it all the time, she doesn't mind engaging in it now and then, but not to the extent that you want to engage in it. we all have things we enjoy, but not all the time, things we like to do once in a while, but thats all.... ask her about her feelings.. and then listen to her feelings. and then respect what she wants. Maybe you just need to back off the diaper thing for a while in regards to her participation.

I think your plan would probably be a bad idea. Would it be such a bad thing if she was just doing all this to make you happy, after all, marriage IS all about compromise right? I think you would be better off to just ask her. It's not so obscure in my relationship. My wife doesn't like it, she tolerates it on rare occasions, but I know that it is something that REALLY turns her off. I was able to talk her into wearing a couple times, but I don't bother with that anymore, it's not worth the trouble and she hates it. If she is pretending to like it for you, I think you have a loving wife that is trying to make you happy. Why else would somebody do that?

I think she is already communicating pretty well with you right now. I feel ashamed when I wear a diaper under my jeans around her or in bed, she gets distant with me. If she's distant when you wear and not when you don't wear she's just using non verbal communication. Playing this game will probably just make matters worse. Maybe you should respect her enough to just sit down and talk with her. Hugs, Freta

I think this is sorta a lame way to find out what your wife is thinking... HOw about just asking her straight up. Say i have gotten the feeling recently that you do not want me to wear diapers any more. I want us to be able to talk about this. Is it bothering you? you know that whole communication thing? it really does work.

So, I'm on AIM and minding my own business when all of a sudden I get the new message screen. Someone I didn't know trying to contact me. The following is the conversation copied verbatim, but first, a few notes to avoid confusion. Jesse isn't my lover, He's a friend of mine, and I thought it was him, later I realized he was in class while this was going on. Chez is my best friend, and while he knows about lovebug and the whole furry thing, he doesn't know a thing (hopefully) about the videos mentioned. He's also computer stupid, so no way he could do that. Speaking of, I was going for a time without internet, and I made some videos of me doing some naughty things but I deleted them when I got the internet back and I sure as HELL did not put them on the internet. I started shaking and got sick in my stomach when he mentioned those videos. Lovebug is a plush my mother gave me before she died, and me being a furry isn't really a secret. While different people know different things about me, no one knows all of this, or at least I never told them. I'm really scared, and was thinking of calling the police, but I wouldn't know what to say... "some guy watched some nasty videos I made that weren't on the internet!" I'm a pretty solid guy, and can take care of myself physically, but this has really gotten to me. *I changed my AIM name so it wouldn't come up in google on this site, and I changed his name so no one could add his S/N* **also, if I seem cavalier in my messages, I sure as hell wasn't going to let this guy know he had me by the balls** slick (10:12:41 PM): hey Diseased88 (10:12:48 PM): sup? slick (10:12:59 PM): Not a whole lot, you? Diseased88 (10:13:14 PM): notta much, whos this? slick (10:13:28 PM): Someone who knows alot about you. Diseased88 (10:13:43 PM): oh, ok. Diseased88 (10:13:55 PM): guarantee you don't know the important stuff =D slick (10:14:06 PM): Would you like to bet? Diseased88 (10:14:10 PM): sure slick (10:14:24 PM): Than, ask and i will answer. Diseased88 (10:14:38 PM): what's my most terrible secret? slick (10:14:53 PM): Hmm..... slick (10:15:48 PM): Your and the rest of those people, looking at those pictures of animated "furries"....Shameful Diseased88 (10:16:11 PM): haha, Jesse? slick (10:16:19 PM): Whos Jesse? Diseased88 (10:16:37 PM): my secret lover, that was my terrible secret =P slick (10:16:53 PM): Sure, *MY FULL NAME*..... Diseased88 (10:16:53 PM): no, you must be one of them thar jokers haha Diseased88 (10:17:01 PM): oh noez! Diseased88 (10:17:08 PM): or Chez, with a new SN slick (10:17:18 PM): Chez? Diseased88 (10:17:18 PM): I like this game slick (10:17:39 PM): Perhaps you wouldn't find it a game, if we took, "Lovebug"...... Diseased88 (10:17:47 PM): chez... Diseased88 (10:17:53 PM): just gave yourself away slick (10:17:56 PM): Who is chez? Diseased88 (10:18:27 PM): it's you, no one knows about lovebug except chez Diseased88 (10:18:42 PM): what's up man? slick7678 (10:18:46 PM): That is what you think.......we know alot about you. Diseased88 (10:18:52 PM): we? Diseased88 (10:18:58 PM): a coalition of the willing haha slick (10:18:58 PM): Yes, we. Diseased88 (10:19:16 PM): well, i suppose I am volatile enough to warrant a coalition against me slick (10:19:27 PM): We seen the acts you do when you are alone..... Diseased88 (10:19:36 PM): oh, like what? Diseased88 (10:19:46 PM): you really wanna freak me out, do it now slick (10:20:37 PM): Hint....You should consider getting a better firewall......We seen the videos you have made while you were away..... Diseased88 (10:21:04 PM): nice shot in the psychological dark... what videos Diseased88 (10:21:16 PM): and away where? slick (10:22:14 PM): The one of you standing in the restroom, with the jeans on, and the ones where you "change yourself" Diseased88 (10:22:42 PM): I don't know what your talking about, weirdo Diseased88 (10:22:55 PM): what else do you "know" slick (10:23:21 PM): We know where you live, as well as members of your family. Diseased88 (10:23:29 PM): who's we? Diseased88 (10:23:52 PM): and, aside from trying to freak me out, whats the point of telling me? slick (10:23:56 PM): You do not need to concern yourself with that information. Diseased88 (10:24:01 PM): ok slick (10:24:05 PM): To show you, We are watching you........ slick signed off at 10:24:12 PM Diseased88 (10:24:13 PM): why are you watching me?

ACK! it's not pirated! I bought it from someone for 5 dollars! you seriously scared me, what with your low post count and accurate info... haha, should have seen that coming. Thanks, that's some good advice too, but (with the exception of this thread, I'm sure) you would have had no knowledge of lovebug, which means. *ugh* that someone who knows me personally got into my computer and found this stuff. I really hope thats not the case.

To agree with Mooglelove, the OP seems to me as a HNG looking for roleplay or something. If this is supposed to be roleplay, there is a group for this. Otherwise, please please GET A LIFE. This is 'Baby Talk' where babies play together - and one baby would not care if another baby messed himself, or needed to, or didnt have diapers, or was naked or whatever. It is 'baby talk' and baby play. Adults are really not welcome here.

No, Lovebug has been sitting in a fireproof box for the last year, and was just on my shelf for the last 13+ years. I can only imagine a handful of people who would know about it. Also, those people who do know about lovebug, aren't exactly "zomg 1337 haxorz" if you catch my drift.

hehe, I frequent 4chan I'm not concerned about someone trying to grief me, inso much as he knew a lot of personal, non internet information.

aside from the "furry thing" and my AIM, nothing else was on the internet. Definitely changing my passwords. I've been known to talk in my sleep, but, it's usually not that bad, and I usually swear alot =D oh, don't worry, I'm not worried about home invasion It's working! D= I just got over a lot of BS with someone stealing my debit card info and ordering stuff online. Since then, I've been REALLY regulatory about who I let into my home, and, as far as I know, no one has broken in.

Well, the thing is I was out of country for about a year, (hence the little/no internet) and that is when I made those videos. And the thing is, if he knew about the furry thing, and, ok he found out the videos, he got that shit online, whatever. The fact he knew my name, and about lovebug (that is really bothersome, since I don't even talk about lovebug to anyone, not because it's a secret, but because it's just not normal conversation) Also, those videos were made and deleted a rather long time ago, so this person has been holding onto this information for a long time. Also, I was in Texas at the time (business stuff before going away). As I said, the more I think about it the more I think it's more than one person. I'm not too surprised about him knowing my name, but lovebug really irks me.

No, not a politician, and I'm an only child. I don't know how they got a hold of them, although they said I needed a better firewall D= I keep my kinks a secret because I know no one wants to know I do this, but it's not the end of the world if people found out, ya know. I just don't like the thought of someone stalking me, and, more importantly, being rather good at it. I'm also disheartened by the "we". The more I read it over, the more it seems like it would need more than one person to know all this.

How come, I tend to repeat myself on different topics. I think, that everyone, at sometime in their life, regress to an earlier age range and trappings as a means of relaxation and regeneration, and without that, they couldn't function within the forced trappings of adulthood. Considering the above statement, I think that all DLs are just ABs who haven't embrassed their soft side / baby side yet... but will eventually.

I have tried talking to her about this before. She's real good about it for a week or 2 wearing one when we have four-play, and just out-of-blue comming up to me saying, "I need my diaper changed" after we have talked about it, but then it fades again and she just doesn't seem interested, that's why I think she's just acting, she thinks she'll just play it for a week or so and then stop again. We have been married 8 years and it's an on-going cycle, I just need to break that cycle and find out once and for all if she could really care less for this.

Whoa, calm down Sarah. You have made a judgement based on one thing, diapers, and the only reason I mentioned diapers is because this is a ab/dl website. There are many other aspects to our marriage and diapers are only a small role as it's something that only goes on once every 2 weeks in our home. My wife told me that she does not want me to give up wearing diapers so I don't have to spend the rest of my life fighting the urge and therefore being miserable. When she told me that, I told her I could not ask for more and that was the end of the conversation on that aspect of our marriage, that is a compromise and compromising is ANYTHING but selfishness. Yes I have ignored her because I felt some resentment but we have "communicated" what has been bothering us and fixed the problem, no marriage is perfect, and it's amazing how you can fix something just by talking about it. To set the record straight, I only wear once every 2 weeks or sometimes even less and when I do it's under my jeans with the sound hidden ( how much more discreet can you get) so to "lay off the diapers for awhile" would be like quitting completely. To be selfish on this would be to tell her that her looking out for my happiness is not good enough and that she has to participate more or this marriage just isn't going to work, that is being selfish.

The last few days I have had dreams about diapers and I told my wife about this but she seems to not have any interest in this anymore (as if she did before, I think she has just been acting). For years I spent asking myself why I am into something most find awkward or strange, doing research on the internet (that is how I found DD) only to find there are lots of people out there like me. It took me years to come to accept this aspect of myself and to stop fighting it, and so I refuse to just stop, but it is so hard having a spouse that would rather I "give it up". So I came up with an idea to see what my wife's reaction would be (a test) if I were to get rid of our diaper stash (we currently have 3 brands) maybe hide them somewhere and sort of let on that I am moving on and don't want diapers anymore, just to see what she says, if I get a relieved response or a "why did you do that" response. What do y'all think, should I try this? I feel ashamed when I wear a diaper under my jeans around her or in bed, she gets distant with me. I wish I could find someone into this like me.

I has go potty but i dunno where it is pwease someone helps me!! i want bes a big gurl and use potty