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Cinderella's Prince Charming was magically transformed into an AB girl! I wonder what beautiful baby gowns the Fairy Godmother has for her to wear to the Ball! Now for the story: One day in the Cinderella Castle decorators had arrived. Prince Charming asked Cinderella if she knew why they were there. She said its a secret but not to worry, he will find out pretty soon. The decorators went into a room but the Duke said Cinderella made this room private even to the Prince. After a week Cinderella said its ready. She led him into a room with her hand over the Princes eyes, asking him not to peek. As she lifted her hands the Prince saw it was a beautiful nursery for a baby girl. He thought the diapers really kind of big for little babies but they were cute! He asked Cinderella "Are you trying to tell me that your pregnant?" Cinderella shook her head "Nope." With a giddy smile on her face. She said for him to open a big present in the middle of the room. Its a gift from the Fairy Godmother. As the Prince opened it a wave of magic suddenly flew around his body and he felt him being transformed into a girl. His chest expanded, stretching his shirt to form two new breasts. While at the same time his outfit magically changed into a beautiful sparkling dress. She felt so feminine and sweet! Cinderella said "You look so darling honey! I made you into a girl because I found out how you've been secretly dressing up as a girl for months and not only that, a cute baby girl. I think I'll call you Princess Christie, formerly known as Prince. *Wink*" The former Prince was so surprised and she tried to speak. Its came out as cute baby talk. Princess Christie realized her dreams had suddenly come true. She gave a big hug to Cinderella saying "I wub you Mommy Cindiewella!" (Feel free to share this with anyone as much as you like! You can even make this into a cute wallpaper!)

I put this thread of the "Depends" forum. Guess I was looking for a more open minded reply. And maybe a good night time alternative... Hello, I know there are many AB/DL "lurkers" here and that's ok. I have been a "DL" for years. The reason why I write this is because I am now in my early 40's, seeing a urologist and slowly loosing bladder control. Most of the time it's just leaks before of after going to the restroom. Now it has progressed to some bed wetting. I don't wish to have nocturnal enuresis, but I didn't want it as a child either. As I get further in my 40's I have learned to "give in" to the rigidify that has controlled me from age 10 up till now and learned to RELAX emotionally as well as physically. Right now I wear the belted undergarments for moderate protection when I'm out all day. At home, I don't wear anything usually, but I'm starting to more as my bladder relaxes when I sleep. I have gone back to plastic sheets and washing sheets every day. It is in some ways comforting to know that even if I wet the bed, I am in charge. I feel more in control that whenever I can remember. Is this belief and /or feeling something I share with anyone else? To be honest, I feel a bit like a "nut" for feeling this way.

as i said, all i had to go on was what you had told us here... and based on that it sounded like you were only talking with her to feel ok about wearing diapers. So i apologize that i responded to the information given, but thats all i had to respond to.

Whoa, calm down Sarah. You have made a judgement based on one thing, diapers, and the only reason I mentioned diapers is because this is a ab/dl website. There are many other aspects to our marriage and diapers are only a small role as it's something that only goes on once every 2 weeks in our home. My wife told me that she does not want me to give up wearing diapers so I don't have to spend the rest of my life fighting the urge and therefore being miserable. When she told me that, I told her I could not ask for more and that was the end of the conversation on that aspect of our marriage, that is a compromise and compromising is ANYTHING but selfishness. Yes I have ignored her because I felt some resentment but we have "communicated" what has been bothering us and fixed the problem, no marriage is perfect, and it's amazing how you can fix something just by talking about it. To set the record straight, I only wear once every 2 weeks or sometimes even less and when I do it's under my jeans with the sound hidden ( how much more discreet can you get) so to "lay off the diapers for awhile" would be like quitting completely. To be selfish on this would be to tell her that her looking out for my happiness is not good enough and that she has to participate more or this marriage just isn't going to work, that is being selfish.

maybe yo both have different motivations for wanting to change the other person. my boyfriend changes me and he most certainly is not a woman. However, if changing someone is not part of our fantasy, then you are not going to be spending as much time on that aspect of the role play. So perhaps for your wife, changing you is a big part of her fantasy, and for you, changing her does not have as much meaning.

Maybe the difference isn't so much time and actions so much as state of mind. It's not the way its done so much as how she talks to me while she does it. It might be that I am changing her to prevent diaper rash and to take care of her, and she changes me strictly for the pleasure of wearing. I don't think I am really explaining it right. We both wear mostly for pleasure, but I think she assumes more of a Mommy role when she changes me, than I can manage as a Daddy. Maybe that's it...

Well I actually have to agree with honeywell on the cortch shots. Who are you trying to impress? A beer belly with a diaper underneath isn't attractive. However that is just me so to each his/her own. Also don't use diapers and discipline in the same sentence, my mind went somewhere very fun and very dark, lol.

When I first told my wife (before we were married of course) she thought it was really weird. However, before I even asked her she agreed to do it with me. She seemed to have a lot of fun at first, we'd wet and change each other and even make love in diapers. After about 6 months or so she suddenly didn't want to do it anymore. I didn't really ask why, I just assumed that she was in to it because it was new and exciting. When it stopped being exciting, she lost interest. We've been together 8 years now and I still wear diapers. She no longer does but will occasionally agree to change me. She doesn't understand why I like to wear diapers (and really, how can I expect her to when I don't understand it myself), but she accepts it and doesn't judge me. She understands that it's an important part of my life. I don't know if you told your wife before or after you got married, personally I don't think it's very fair to do it after. I waited until we were at a point in our relationship where we knew we loved each other, but before I asked her to marry me. She had the option to walk away at that point. It sounds like your wife is just doing it occasionally to please you. Be happy with that and don't force the issue or try and push it on her too hard. If it's always in her face she'd be more likely to resist.

Kara nods. "Ok the bookstore it is." She pushes Miranda down the mall towards the bookstore. Kara stops in front of the movie threater. "Oh The Haunting in Connecticut is playing. I guess I can come back another time and see it." She continues walking and stop in front of a window display that caught her eye. "I think you would look in that." She points at the beautiful white summer dress in the window of the ladies clothing store. What do you think Missy? Would you like to go in and try the dress on to see how it would look on you?"

Some people here are trying to precisly define something that is not definable. A human being can be precisly defined as being in a type of human being, but the individual human, being individual cannot be precisly defined. Correspondingly, neither can its interests. Using the phrase 'I am a DL but NOT an AB' is incorrect since it relies on the precise definiton of two conceptual behaviour patterns. Eveyone in the world has some infantile tendencies. That does not state that everyone in the world is an 'AB'. It does state that someone with the a conceptual behaviour pattern leaning towards DL must also have some infantile tendencies since the 'someone' is a part of 'everyone in the world'. As I stated earlier, the conceptual behaviour pattern classes as DL is also part of the conceptual behaviour pattern classed as AB. It is specific emotions and wants / needs at the time that changes ones choices based on what they know or have experienced. Simply, a person will want to, at some stage in their life, try to regress, act and behave in a stereotypical infantile manner, may want/need diapers and/or cuddling and/or bottles and/or other sterreotypical behaviour patterns of a chronological baby.

To agree with Mooglelove, the OP seems to me as a HNG looking for roleplay or something. If this is supposed to be roleplay, there is a group for this. Otherwise, please please GET A LIFE. This is 'Baby Talk' where babies play together - and one baby would not care if another baby messed himself, or needed to, or didnt have diapers, or was naked or whatever. It is 'baby talk' and baby play. Adults are really not welcome here.

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maybe now that she shared her feelings with you, you could do something in return, like wear a little more discretely, or a little less often around her.. let her know you have heard what she said, and wantto make her as comfortable as possible, but *gasp* giving them up for a little bit.... you know... making the sacrifice she clearly made for you. this may sound harsh, but from what you've said here, and thts all i have to go on, everything you do is centered around being able to wear diapers around your wife and getting your wife to wear diapres. Even when you 'communicate' with her, its so you can wear diapers around her. Honestly, thats completely one sided and selfish and no wonder she was feeling ignored by you. YOU ARE IGNORING HER. everything you do with her, every interaction, diapers are still your main focus.