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As per my medical records, I am incontinent of both bladder and bowel. My main issue is nighttime. I pee when I wake up in the morning, or if I get up at night and walk around, so I would like to sleep through the night, wake up soaked, and get a full night's rest.

I am sure I was a thumbsucker when I was a child; I have the desire to return to thumbsucking/pacifier sucking while I sleep at night. I am wondering how one would achieve this goal.

Food For thought I am on flomax .4 as of now, the baclofen is a good replacement for my CYCLOBENZAPRINE In clinical practice, a combination like Flomax + Baclofen is sometimes prescribed off-label for structural or neurogenic retention. The alpha-blocker widens the exit gate at the base of the bladder, while the muscle relaxant prevents the pelvic floor and outer sphincter from clamping down. Why This Combination Requires Close Medical Supervision While this combination targets the "pipes" directly, it carries significant side effects and structural risks that require a urologist's guidance: Opposing Bladder Forces: If a patient is still taking an anticholinergic like Oxybutynin, adding a muscle relaxant can worsen retention. Oxybutynin stops the main bladder muscle from squeezing. If the bladder can't squeeze, relaxing the sphincters won't matter—the urine still won't empty. Severe Blood Pressure Drops: Both alpha-blockers and central muscle relaxants can lower blood pressure. Combining them drastically increases the risk of severe dizziness, lightheadedness, and fainting when standing up (orthostatic hypotension). Profound Sedation: Baclofen acts directly on the central nervous system, causing drowsiness, fatigue, or confusion, which can be amplified if taken with other medications. Alternative Advanced Options If oral medications are ineffective or cause too much dizziness, urologists often pivot to localized treatments: Botox Injections: Injecting botulinum toxin directly into the external urethral sphincter paralyzed the overactive muscle temporarily, allowing urine to flow freely without causing systemic side effects like drop in blood pressure. Intermittent Catheterization: Often considered the safest gold standard for chronic retention, ensuring the bladder empties fully without stressing the kidneys. Because navigating bladder coordination requires balancing muscle relaxation against blood pressure safety, any changes or additions to this regimen must be closely managed by a urologist.

Just Flowmax, which is an alpha blocker

I take Flowmax what strength did they start you one?

It's ok, the last person who asked for a tip, I gave them my firstborn child to help with the dishes. They later return the child complaing they never shut up or got off their phone

You said the first days of the internet, I was thinking back in the day of AOL or Prodigy, and I was still looking for diaper stuff back in 90 when we got our first 486 computer and internet

we are from the everett area and like making new friends

It's the abuse definitely she can't tell she needs to pee till it almost too late we ok at home but if we're out or at nights she's in a diaper she's also an age slider the mainly from a combination or her abuse and autism we have lots of pacifiers, bottles and sippy cups in the house for her

One of our adopted kiddos, who has suffered from both physical and psychological abuse, does the same, but she is also autistic, so we can just tell everyone it's her autism.

yo I'm up in the everett area

One of our kids used new rearz ones in public with the sippy spout out in public but no one cares when the adult is non verbal autistic in a wheel chair... Now she most definitely a little at home and order this stuff for her

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We have 5 people in the house, 4 of us are incontinent, so the washing machine runs 3-4 days a week with priority given to bedding if an accident happens