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This is mostly just to vent after seeing court papers, etc. from my neighbor.

To back up a little, Rick is mildly retarded.

He can live alone, but needs help with reading.

He has ethics. And is a good guy.

Without sounding disrespectful, he reminds me of Forrest Gump.

It's been years since my divorce, but I really got caught up into his delima.

This woman is claiming no contact orders and other unnecessary nonsense.

She has no police, hospital, or witnesses to back up her claims.

That's what sets me off.

I don't like to see the underdog get kicked around.

I'm sorry guys (and gals) but the legal system gets clogged with this crap.

And then a person with a legitimate complaint has to wait.

A competent judge should hold a person of this sort in contempt.

I finally said to my neighbor that I had to "detach" and not talk about it anymore.

Posted

Kari,

I'm sorry that you are surrounded by all this negativity. If possible, this would be a good time to take a little vacation. I agree with you that this situation wastes the court's time and our tax dollars, but there's nothing I know of that we can do about it. I too have been throught divorce, but never this kind of abuse. I'm sorry for your neighbor and that you have learned from yours and are ready to move on.

Aloha,

Honu

  • 3 weeks later...
Posted

Forget a lot of what you read. It is hard to get a no-contact order. My ex was allowed my children to live in filth, she gave them illegal drugs and alcohol and she allowed stepdad to shoot one of my kids with a BB gun.

It cost me tens of thousands of dollars to take away her vistiation rights. Now she is supposed to be working and paying child support and medical suport. That was years ago. Now she is on the run and nobody knows where she is.

Attorneys will throw up all kinds of stuff just to see what sticks.

I wish you friend well. The only people that come out ahead in a divorce are the attorneys.

This is mostly just to vent after seeing court papers, etc. from my neighbor.

To back up a little, Rick is mildly retarded.

He can live alone, but needs help with reading.

He has ethics. And is a good guy.

Without sounding disrespectful, he reminds me of Forrest Gump.

It's been years since my divorce, but I really got caught up into his delima.

This woman is claiming no contact orders and other unnecessary nonsense.

She has no police, hospital, or witnesses to back up her claims.

That's what sets me off.

I don't like to see the underdog get kicked around.

I'm sorry guys (and gals) but the legal system gets clogged with this crap.

And then a person with a legitimate complaint has to wait.

A competent judge should hold a person of this sort in contempt.

I finally said to my neighbor that I had to "detach" and not talk about it anymore.

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