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I did not wear a diaper yesterday after I changed my wet and messy morning diaper. We (wife and I) visited two other couples last night one of whom is recovering from bladder cancer. We had a good time just talking and laughing. I thought about wearing a diaper but decided not to. After we got home, not late, I went to bed without a diaper. I got up just a little while ago, put on a Goodnights XXL, got a cup of coffee, and now have a very big poopy mess in my Goodnights with just a small tinkle and no immediate plans to change, time to enjoy the warm squishy potty in my pants.
Be careful when threading dental floss or fishing line through cast silicone. The hole will grow quickly due to the cheese cutter effect, there is a real risk of ripping out the retrieval line.