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I wet my Abena M4 diaper multiple times during the night, got out of bed very wet but not leaky, and then I messed my diaper in a very natural way as I was going down the stairs from our bedroom to the kitchen. It's so nice to just relax and go poopies in my diaper. The Abena M4 diaper is holding up well, squishy and warm sitting here. By the way, I am not incontinent and it is so nice and convenient to wet my diaper wherever, whenever, with whoever all with the utmost discretion. I wish I could go potty in my diaper in the same manner but social decorum and courtesy to others prevents me from having a stinky diaper around others. My messy diapers are reserved for the solitude of the early morning before my wife is out of bed.
I do this sometimes, but for medical reasons only and my Urologist approved as long as it is short term use.
When i am going to "Crash" hard i am not able to do ISC, so i will use a Foley to save my kidneys from overpressure (TDO/DSD), i do use bags as well, do not get me wrong, but at home i do not like my son to see the leg or bed bag, the diaper choice is just more discreet and i am on my stomach usually, what can be problematic in combination with a bag. So for the some hours i need a Foley i can get along with a diaper as well. Long time use i recommend a leg bag to be save.
I have been using a set of Pigeon nappy pins for a few years now, with no issues at all. They've retained their sharpness and the plastic locking heads have not disintegrated. I bought mine from Baby Bunting.