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Matthew smiled at Astrid and took her hand immediately and pulled her closer, “Miss Astrid, you look happier. I’m glad to see it,” he almost asked her about Julia but stopped in time. If Astrid wanted to tell him, she would do it.
He looked at Kaiser and Julia and realized he would ask Astrid to become his Pet later. Kaiser and Julia looked extremely happy, and Kaiser assurance almost swept his worries away. He decided to wait only until the mission would be over.
“Yeah, cousin, let’s dance now,” he reacted to Kaiser and started another round of dance with Astrid, keeping her close and ignoring all gazes around.
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Julia hugged Kaiser when he lifted her in her arms. She again felt like a little girl. Her former talk with Astrid was adult, with wine and adult topic. Now she was free to act as she liked to, the peed-in diaper between her legs; the wetness softened the fabric and eased her walking; she wasn’t waddling as much as before. Now she kept holding Kaiser and dancing slowly. She forgot about the world around her and enjoyed Kaiser’s company and care.
About an hour later, another stream of pee hit the diaper, and the honey smell spread from it, announcing an imminent diaper change. The wine made her pee more than she drank.
“Kai, your peed-in princess needs another change,” she grinned and whispered in Kaiser’s ear. She also yawned but didn’t care to cover her mouth.
Fascinating question - but, for me, there is no 'one size fits all' answer. As kids and young adults, we're all trained to think in binary terms. Boy/Girl, Man/Women, Straight/Gay, Left/Right (polictally) etc, etc....
Reality is we are all on a sprectum and should feel free to explore who we are and experiment until we find what works for us. Personally, in my adult life, I'm MTF trans and happy being an adult in that dynamic - and dress appropriately for my age. That said, I also have a 'strong' little side and when I'm in that space, I'm definitely a sissy - dressing ultra femme with lots of pink, frills and diapers peaking out under a short dress.
As long as what you do doesn't harm anyone, and in a relationship is concentual, go with whatever floats you boat and ignore the on-line 'kink community' which often tries to pigeon hole and gate keep us. You don't need to conform to anyonelse else view of what is a happy, healthy and satisfying way of living. We're all different, and that's beautiful.