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I am a volunteer “buddy” for the men’s support group that’s connected to the urology practice I attend so I have seen and heard a lot. But a common issue seems to be amongst guys who wear “just in case” pull ups. They are embarrassed to wear them to the urologist (of all places!) so they don’t wear them even though they have to hold it in to provide a sample.
Personally I have never experienced what I would call an accident. Any medical professional I’ve dealt with knows I’m incontinent and has provided a bed pad anytime I’ve had to be completely stripped off
My wife and I are very stereotypical in our diaper choices. Her diapers are always cute prints and if she sees a new one she likes, she has to buy it. I wear plain white diapers, although I don’t mind another colour occasionally but still plain. I could just as easily be talking about t shirts here! Although I suppose a significant factor is I wear all the time and she only wears at night, so I do favour something more discrete