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Balancing incontinence and when to wear is very annoying! I know this well. I too ride the line, trying to wear in my case only the level of protection I need when I'd honestly rather wear diapers all the time. But between the cost, and not wanting to give up control I still play the game.
The wife knows, that's why I wear diapers. I use them for everything so not an issue, she will pat my bottom every now and then and just say squishy butt as a term of endearment.
I had the same problem long time ago. What I did:
On a vacation I chose to stay in a hostel dorm. It was far away so I was sure not no meet anyone ever again. Without bothering others, I made sure that some people in the dorm recogniced that I a wearing. For example I let my locker open an there was a diaper on my backback on the second day I got more confident and caried a diaper to the toilet.
The one benefit is that its much harder in the dorm to lull and on the other hand I knew that other people recoginced, that I needed diapers so it would be strange if I suddenly did not need them anymore.
“Whatever!” She said rolling her eyes.
She wondered what all has Annie planned for her.
She had the diapers, baby food and now a baby bottle! Seems like she’s ready to make me a baby!
Kayla went on her room and watched tv falling asleep as her temper tantrum drained her for awhile or maybe she was just taking a nap like a baby would.