Sex with your spouse/ bf/gf

[Young1]

How does diapers affect the bed room time/ sex......

Is it non existent? At a certain age do you just not have interest in sex anymore? 

How do you get diapers into parts of sexual time? 

Coming from someone who's partner (m) isn't a part of the ab/dl lifestyle, i kind of wish there were times wear diaper were involved, but it isn't, I don't wear to bed often and when I do the diaper comes off and I need to wash/rinse before play. 

Should I bring this up? Is it even worth it? 

I do plan on being with this awesome man forever as he accepts my diapers. Which I know is rare to find again. 

Just interested in what people have to say, 

[Sissy baby Jess]

Sounds like you found the man of your dreams which is fab - but you shouldn't purely base your relationship on his acceptance of your diaper fetish. 

Seems he is open to accepting your kink but it's not something he's into (at least at the moment) - which is understandable. And you have to consider the possibility this is a part of you he'll never want to be a part of. And if that's going to be the case, it's likely to put a real strain on the relationship at some point.

AB/DL play is an important part of who you are and you need the freedom and confidence to express that openly with a supporting partner. Of course, you need to respect their boundaries such as dressing and changing you - but if they tell you it's something you'll need to do in private when they're not around, it's not going to work. 

It's not guaranteed to succeed, but you need to really open up to him, educate him on what diapers mean for you and why, and give him time and space to think, reflect, and respond. Plus, at the same time, try to immerse yourself into supporting his needs, whatever they may be.

Wish you both all the best and hope it works out.

[Snugglebear_69]

My Daddy absolutely loves diapers being involved in our love making. He will often diaper me as part of our foreplay. One of His favourite things is to diaper me then have me sit on His face while I wet, it gets Him super hot and excited. Honestly, I couldn't imagine my partner nit enjoying diapers as part of our sex life, it doesn't have to be everytime certainly but never would be an absolute deal breaker for both of us.

[Young1]

22 hours ago, Sissy baby Jess said:

Sounds like you found the man of your dreams which is fab - but you shouldn't purely base your relationship on his acceptance of your diaper fetish. 

Seems he is open to accepting your kink but it's not something he's into (at least at the moment) - which is understandable. And you have to consider the possibility this is a part of you he'll never want to be a part of. And if that's going to be the case, it's likely to put a real strain on the relationship at some point.

AB/DL play is an important part of who you are and you need the freedom and confidence to express that openly with a supporting partner. Of course, you need to respect their boundaries such as dressing and changing you - but if they tell you it's something you'll need to do in private when they're not around, it's not going to work. 

It's not guaranteed to succeed, but you need to really open up to him, educate him on what diapers mean for you and why, and give him time and space to think, reflect, and respond. Plus, at the same time, try to immerse yourself into supporting his needs, whatever they may be.

Wish you both all the best and hope it works out.

Oh I don't base it on just that Ive been with him even before I started wearing, and he's very accepting of the diapers, and I've never pushed him to change me or anything, he has a few times changed me, I do sometimes walk around the house when the roommates are not home in just a diaper and shirt, 

I've also been testing my own boundaries for what I personally like and don't like. Maybe I want to see where his are? Idk. 

Yes, I haven't opened up to him on this topic yet and more wanted ideas on how to I suppose..... or if I should.....

 

10 hours ago, Snugglebear_69 said:

My Daddy absolutely loves diapers being involved in our love making. He will often diaper me as part of our foreplay. One of His favourite things is to diaper me then have me sit on His face while I wet, it gets Him super hot and excited. Honestly, I couldn't imagine my partner nit enjoying diapers as part of our sex life, it doesn't have to be everytime certainly but never would be an absolute deal breaker for both of us.

I definitely don't want it to be a constant thing or all the time thing either...... more of a time to time thing, 

This isn't a deal breaker either if it doesn't happen, not a big deal to me, it's more of a fantasy at thing moment, 

 

[ncDl88]

On 9/25/2024 at 2:36 AM, Snugglebear_69 said:

My Daddy absolutely loves diapers being involved in our love making. He will often diaper me as part of our foreplay. One of His favourite things is to diaper me then have me sit on His face while I wet, it gets Him super hot and excited. Honestly, I couldn't imagine my partner nit enjoying diapers as part of our sex life, it doesn't have to be everytime certainly but never would be an absolute deal breaker for both of us.

Same for my significant other, I feel like i really lucked out with my Gf. Once she didn't pass judgement when I first told her I knew she was the one it even seems like she enjoys it when we play. I always let her know how truly blessed I feel in this regard. It's crazy that I was able to find a partner who accepts and adapts but was never able to find platonic friends when it comes to this life style..so that I am still ISO.

Only thing I do wish is that she was into it to begin with because sometimes I still feel embarrassed to ask her to play with me so it's not as often as I'd like it to be in have to be feeling bold when we start getting intimate , regardless she's the one ❤️

[Reggie]

My boyfriend and I are into wet sex, so our diapers are also included in our enjoyment.