Girlfriend Of A Dl

[Mlz]

Hello! My name is Mlz. I am not in fact, a DL or an AB. Simply the girlfriend of one!

My boyfriend came out to me several months ago now with the fact that well- plain and simple. "Girls in diapers- turn him on."

At first, this horrified me. Being raised to think sex, and anything sexually related, should be traditional... with nothing kinky or overly provocative involved. The thought of me in a diaper as a teenager... for sex? Both scared- and to be honest- disgusted me. Several thoughts ran through my head such as, "Wait... does this mean you're attracted to babies?", "Do YOU wear diapers?" etc, etc. I'm sure you've heard it all before from various people.

For the first little while, the topic was taboo between the two of us.

As time passed though... I finally decided it needed to be talked about. And talk we did! He explained to me, in some detail, about what exactly DL and AB are about. I eventually lost my initial reactions and found myself becoming comfortable enough to include diapers in our sex routine (but only on special occasions... as something for him to look forward to ^_~). Even more then that, I found myself becoming more comfortable in my sexuality. Expiermenting more and shedding the "nothing kinky" policy. (For the first time in my life- I looked up porn XD)

Although I'm fairly comfortable with diapers now, I still get that, "Hmmmm... this feels kinda strange" feeling on occasion... So I decided to further my research and well- join this forum to try berid of it!

I doubt I'll ever be attracted to diapers. But I at least want to be fully-comfortable with it.

[nappyloon]

Hi MLz and welcome to the place that will accept you for who you are !

It is refreshing to hear that you are "open minded" about your partners use/love of Diapers and that fact will bond the two of you even closer together.

Enjoy yourself here and feel free to ask any questions you may have!

[Mlz]

Thank you for thw warm-welcome Nappyloon

I'm happy to be here

[Gennie]

HI MLz,

Welcome to our little corner of the world. It speaks highly of you that you didn't just walk away from your boyfriend. I've seen and heard that too many times from others I've known.

"Why diapers?" That has to be a question that many of us have asked ourselves over the years, and I don't know that any of us really have an answer to it. When I was in therapy, none of my therapists or p-shrinks could answer that for me, but the one thing they all said was 'if you're happy, and not hurting anyone, then don't worry about it.' Of course, it cramps my social life, but that's my problem, not yours.

Many guys who have introduced their girl friends to diaper play always want to see the girls wear diapers, and if you've gone that far (your post wasn't plain on that) then that's good. If you haven't, and don't wish to, then you need to make sure he's aware of that, as well. Some women, who tend to be accepting are only accepting up to a certain point, and then pushed too far, things go from 'bad' to 'worst case scenario!' So, set up your boundaries, and you be in control of them.

Again, if you haven't worn them, I'll tell you that urine is sterile, and won't hurt you. So, if your bf wants you to wear and wet, it's not 'gross' or anything to be freaked out over. Remember, babies do it all the time. Feces isn't sterile, and while many AB and DLs will mess their diaper, it should be cleaned quickly. MOST women who do wear usually don't mess for a variety of reasons. And, again, take it at your own pace.

A lot of women have found being AB is a wonderful way to get close to the one you love, because you can climb up in 'daddys lap' and have him feed you a baba. Diaper changes can be fun, and if you have a BF who not only is DL, but can also be a loving and caring daddy (not just looking for sex) the AB lifestyle can be a real way for very close intimacy without sex. It's also a great way to relax after a stressful day at work.

In any situation, welcome. Check out the chat room, too. For your own protection, you should state going in that yes, you are a girl, you have a diapered boyfriend, you are NOT interested in changing anyone else's diapers, and then click on the Options at top, and turn off PMs. Also, right clicking anyone's name and selecting 'Ignore' won't allow you to see what they have to say to you.

I hope you find your answers.

Gary

[Mlz]

Thank you very much for the info.

My boyfriend however is not an AB, only a DL, and does not like to wear diapers himself. He tried wearing them when he was younger and it just wasn't his thing. He just wants me to wear and wet, the diaper.

And I have before on several occasions (all in privacy of his or my own home). But I've always felt it feels strange, it's no longer "gross" just... it feels a bit bizarre. It's not something you expect your partner to ask of you of course... and this world is still fairly new to me.

So, I'm trying my best to keep us both content. So, I'm learning more about it

[dldad]

Welcome. You have indeed taken a step into a much different realm of sexuality than you are, or were, used to encountering. I think that you being willing to wear a diaper for his desire shows you to be a very caring person for others, and want to do what you can, within reason, to help them with his desires. I truely hope he won't be too pressing in pushing you to wear them for him. And hope that you have made it clear that you are doing it for his pleasure and not yours. It would be nice if you did like to wear them but that is strictly for you to decide. You will even note that many here have gone through cycles of wearing and discarding their whole supply into the garbage. Regardless of what you ultimately decide, enjoy life as it is to short.

[Bigpapa22]

First of all youre boyfriend is a lucky guy to have someone like you that he can come out to about that! My experience is the same as yours..i told my girlfriend and she had the same reaction...and really it opened up alot for both of us...and brought us very very close. She has worn them for me on quiet a few occations and is very cool about it all! Shes 18 too...so i can relate to you! But anyways...find something about it that turns you on...or makes you happy...like the attension you get when you do that for him...or explore it all...dont hold back...try what he wants you to try...but dont feel pressured...do it cause you want to. You may find that you like the experience awhole lot more if you find something that makes you happy about it! Like my girlfriend loves the attension she gets...and how i spoil her and do everything for her while shes my baby girl! and she likes the feel of a wet diaper...i hit the jackpot!! But good luck with everything...hopefully you guys both enjoy!

[zombieg]

Hello & welcome. I think it's very cool that you chose to learn more about his desires & likes and came online to learn more about them & also him (your BF). There's way too many ppl out there who don't want to hear / think about or learn. So he is lucky to have you!

[phillykidd1979]

Hello! My name is Mlz. I am not in fact, a DL or an AB. Simply the girlfriend of one!

My boyfriend came out to me several months ago now with the fact that well- plain and simple. "Girls in diapers- turn him on."

At first, this horrified me. Being raised to think sex, and anything sexually related, should be traditional... with nothing kinky or overly provocative involved. The thought of me in a diaper as a teenager... for sex? Both scared- and to be honest- disgusted me. Several thoughts ran through my head such as, "Wait... does this mean you're attracted to babies?", "Do YOU wear diapers?" etc, etc. I'm sure you've heard it all before from various people.

For the first little while, the topic was taboo between the two of us.

As time passed though... I finally decided it needed to be talked about. And talk we did! He explained to me, in some detail, about what exactly DL and AB are about. I eventually lost my initial reactions and found myself becoming comfortable enough to include diapers in our sex routine (but only on special occasions... as something for him to look forward to ^_~). Even more then that, I found myself becoming more comfortable in my sexuality. Expiermenting more and shedding the "nothing kinky" policy. (For the first time in my life- I looked up porn XD)

Although I'm fairly comfortable with diapers now, I still get that, "Hmmmm... this feels kinda strange" feeling on occasion... So I decided to further my research and well- join this forum to try berid of it!

I doubt I'll ever be attracted to diapers. But I at least want to be fully-comfortable with it.

I am a daddy/baby and would love to chat and be froends online my yahoo name and email is hockeyfan092779@yahoo.com would love to chat withyou about it