Mlz

Thank you very much for the info. My boyfriend however is not an AB, only a DL, and does not like to wear diapers himself. He tried wearing them when he was younger and it just wasn't his thing. He just wants me to wear and wet, the diaper. And I have before on several occasions (all in privacy of his or my own home). But I've always felt it feels strange, it's no longer "gross" just... it feels a bit bizarre. It's not something you expect your partner to ask of you of course... and this world is still fairly new to me. So, I'm trying my best to keep us both content. So, I'm learning more about it

Well, I figured I'd post simply as the view of the partner who's being told: It was... about 13 months into our relationship. Which, if I had been older then I was at the time, would've made me kind of angry that he waited so long. But we had taken things very slow. We didn't begin fooling around until month 8, and didn't have sex until month 14 (the month after he told me). So I was okay with the fact he waited. But, if you do plan on telling your partner at some point in the relationship... I do suggest doing it in the first 6 months. No matter now hard that may be, an honest relationship is the key to any healthy relationship. When my partner first told me that he wanted me to wear a diaper. I was- for lack of a better word- horrified. I was babysitting one of my neighbours children at the time and he had come over to keep me company. I asked all kinds of questions at first, and we basically, didn't talk about it for the few weeks following. Occasionally he would work up the courage to ask me to wear one, and I would just shoot himk a death glare and say. "No". He would sort of... shrink a little inside. I of course, didn't understand. And really didn't know it was hurting him. We finally did decide we really needed to talk about it though, having shed a little understanding on it, I became more and more comfortable with it. Eventually, comfortable enough to wear one for him on special occasions. Occasionally, I still get that, "This feels weird" feeling, when I wear one for him. So I've joined this forum to try and get even more comfortable with it. If your girlfriend loves you, she'll accept you for who you are. It doesn't mean she'll wear one, but it means she'll love you regardless. My best advice, is tell her. And make sure you talk about it so she can try and understand where it comes from.

Thank you for thw warm-welcome Nappyloon I'm happy to be here

Hello! My name is Mlz. I am not in fact, a DL or an AB. Simply the girlfriend of one! My boyfriend came out to me several months ago now with the fact that well- plain and simple. "Girls in diapers- turn him on." At first, this horrified me. Being raised to think sex, and anything sexually related, should be traditional... with nothing kinky or overly provocative involved. The thought of me in a diaper as a teenager... for sex? Both scared- and to be honest- disgusted me. Several thoughts ran through my head such as, "Wait... does this mean you're attracted to babies?", "Do YOU wear diapers?" etc, etc. I'm sure you've heard it all before from various people. For the first little while, the topic was taboo between the two of us. As time passed though... I finally decided it needed to be talked about. And talk we did! He explained to me, in some detail, about what exactly DL and AB are about. I eventually lost my initial reactions and found myself becoming comfortable enough to include diapers in our sex routine (but only on special occasions... as something for him to look forward to ^_~). Even more then that, I found myself becoming more comfortable in my sexuality. Expiermenting more and shedding the "nothing kinky" policy. (For the first time in my life- I looked up porn XD) Although I'm fairly comfortable with diapers now, I still get that, "Hmmmm... this feels kinda strange" feeling on occasion... So I decided to further my research and well- join this forum to try berid of it! I doubt I'll ever be attracted to diapers. But I at least want to be fully-comfortable with it.