Guest pupsmommy Posted May 31, 2007 Share Posted May 31, 2007 Well, first you stop staying up until all hours of the night.........Second you tell your BF you love him... Third, you share this site with your BF, and go have a look at the "Dear Mommy" and "Dear Daily Diapers" section.....it's a good idea to help you both get relaxed enough for the next step, and may give you some ideas.... Fourth, you talk with him explicitly about your needing some time to adjust...as this is apparently a little bit strange to you.... and its OK to spend some energy managing things, so both of you feel safe and don't get defensive or angry.... remember that you love each other and are not trying to hurt each other, but groping blindly about on the basis of uncommunicated assumptions about each other won't get you very far... You might also want to talk about your needs in the bedroom department...maybe some adult sex, that kind of thing.... Dill Pickle What does staying up all hours have to do with my asking for advice??? I get up go to work and I am in perfect attendents. Your advice sucked. Link to comment
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