Guest monksmommy Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 hello i am very very new to all this. my best friend is my baby (lil_baby_monk). any info to help us out would be greatly appreciated. i want him to feel very safe and happy with me. Link to comment
Guest diaperboykcmo Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 I'm a experienced ab, had a gf/mommy for 5 years. Unfortuntley I'm bipolar and I destroyed the relationship.. I'm on meds and have accepted that I'm bipolar. Now just trying to get my life straight. If you wanna ak me anything, go for it! I can offer you info from a babys point of view. Link to comment
lil_baby_monk Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 Hello Poopy_dipes I already ordered that book for my Mommy it should be in her hands before the end of this month. If I am not mistaken the book you are refering to is There's a baby in my bed! I also ordered The Age Play And Diaper Fetish Handbook. Link to comment
Guest monksmommy Posted December 22, 2012 Share Posted December 22, 2012 thanks all! i really don't know what to ask LOL. i have been looking online for info and that is how i found this site for us. and like my baby said, he ordered books that should be here soon. the only thing that i won't do is changed his diaper but he understands that. thanks again! Link to comment
Honu Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 MonksMommy, Thanks for coming to this site and allowing us to try to answer your questions. We all have lines or limits to what we will do so don't worry about that at all. The main point is that I can see that you accept him for who he is and enjoy having a closer relationship because he is letting you into his innermost thoughts and desires. Besides this, you may also enjoy being the decision maker every now and then. That's a feature of AB activities more than DL stuff. Also, there can be more interaction and physical contact (aka "snuggling") with an AB than in other relationships. It's very nice to have understanding GFs/Wives/Mommies on this site sharing their perspectives so once again, thank you! Honu Link to comment
Fulldiaper Posted December 31, 2012 Share Posted December 31, 2012 Although I am not a mommy, I have had the honor/honour of having multiple mommies in my lifetime and if I can be of assistance, please don't hesitate to call on me. I would be honored to assist you with answers to questions or direct you to resources where you can obtain those answers from a reliable souce. Have a very safe and Happy New Years and 2013. Link to comment
Guest monksmommy Posted January 1, 2013 Share Posted January 1, 2013 thanks all! i am reading 2 books that my baby bought recently. they give some incite into this world but we are learning slowly. we are going to be making some new clothes for him soon. he wants matching pjs for us too. LOL. thanks again! Link to comment
Guest Lilly89 Posted January 7, 2013 Share Posted January 7, 2013 I'm a AB/AK and my fiancé is my daddy/caregiver!! Link to comment
j_addict Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 I'm a newish mommy too. I've been the mommy for almost two years now so you can definitely ask me anything. The best advice I've found is to communicate. Sometimes it's very difficult for the baby to talk about what he wants to do and how he wants to do it. Mine didn't want to be in charge, as many babies want to be surprised and taken care of, but we discovered if he shares his ideas of what he wants to do, I am still in control and dictate what we do so he doesn't really have control at all. It's important to take it slow and continually discuss what is wanted and what the limits are of both parties. It may be difficult and things may come to a head in ways you don't like (lots of times for us it becomes a tiff because we aren't on the same page and are equally confused of what each wants) but talking through it is key. This website helps a lot, both talking to parents and babies because they've experienced it in all sorts of ways. My baby likes to be punished and get into trouble, which is where my trouble lies because I'd rather be a nurturing and nice mommy over an angry and punishing mommy, but we make it work for us by working to combine the two so everyone's happy. Link to comment
Dammitdale Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Looking for a mommy in Joliet Illinois Link to comment
BabyFergstar Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Dammitdale, just FYI, this part of the forum is not for babies looking for Mommies or Daddies, this is a section where Mommies and Daddies can talk with each other about issues with their AB's or DL's. Link to comment
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