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It's definitely difficult at times @Forced2wet, but I'm embracing the role when I can. I'm definitely getting better at working in things for us to do together, and making sure that everyone is happy instead of struggling with both sides like we used to. We are more open about communication and when baby wants more over less. It's not an easy road, but it's getting better as we continue. We're in this so we are working to make the most of it so everyone is happy.

I'm a newish mommy too. I've been the mommy for almost two years now so you can definitely ask me anything. The best advice I've found is to communicate. Sometimes it's very difficult for the baby to talk about what he wants to do and how he wants to do it. Mine didn't want to be in charge, as many babies want to be surprised and taken care of, but we discovered if he shares his ideas of what he wants to do, I am still in control and dictate what we do so he doesn't really have control at all. It's important to take it slow and continually discuss what is wanted and what the limits are of both parties. It may be difficult and things may come to a head in ways you don't like (lots of times for us it becomes a tiff because we aren't on the same page and are equally confused of what each wants) but talking through it is key. This website helps a lot, both talking to parents and babies because they've experienced it in all sorts of ways. My baby likes to be punished and get into trouble, which is where my trouble lies because I'd rather be a nurturing and nice mommy over an angry and punishing mommy, but we make it work for us by working to combine the two so everyone's happy.

Thanks again everyone for your feedback.

For me I had no clue about the lifestyle until I met my boyfriend (still current, going on 2 years). We met online through a mutual online friend, no forums or specific websites, just social networks. We talked and instantly fell into a rhythm and liked each other quickly. He didn't tell me he was an AB until after about 3 months. He wanted to be honest and at first I was really shocked. I had only seen stuff like that on television and to an extreme so I wasn't sure what he wanted. I couldn't get the fact that he wanted to be a baby and wear diapers out of my head. It just didn't click for me, not at first.

Thanks, this is a good idea and as we are growing within the AB relationship this is an option.

The one I have read was: Ageplay from Diapers to Diplomas by Paul Rulof It has good basic information and a contract template in the back.

Will your book be available for the Kindle? I have another book dealing with this topic and would read yours, especially if it were available for digial copy. Thanks for the heads up!

A switch? Just curious. Thanks for the confidence. Going slow is key, slow and steady, the next step arrives organically and you'll know when it's right.

I totally understand, my guy gets like this too. We do slow down and I am getting better at not getting scared and nervous. We do take it slow and have made great progress in incorporating what he wants with what I want.

Feel free to PM me about this, I am a new mommy as well and I can go through my history with you if you'd like to discuss how I was introduced and how we went about it. You are wonderful for wanting to look into his wants and see where you fit in.

I think you can have both. You can direct and have a daddy. To the extent at which you do both is up to you, but all these people here are respectable and have 'regular' lives. You can have both your dreams, you just have to look inside and see what exactly it is you want.

hkc123: I am really glad that you sent me the links to your posts. This one is extremely helpful, so many good tips and suggestions. I am going to attempt some of these this weekend. We are going to go shopping for crayons and coloring books and maybe even watch some kids movies. Thanks so much everyone.

I am a new mommy as well. Feel free to PM me. I do not have people to talk to aside from my baby and this forum. I know what it's like to need an outlet to chat to.

Thanks everyone. We have discussed it as well as taken some steps that have made us closer together and even better together. We have started with him wearing in front of me, something that we weren't ready for earlier. It was totally fine and led to us being even closer and more in touch with our needs. We appreciate your feedback, it has been helpful for us getting over this obstacle and coming out closer on the other side. I'm so glad he showed me this community because it is difficult to talk about this stuff with just anyone since they don't really understand it.

As you know I'm new to it too. For the sexual aspect we aren't having sex yet but we do pleasure each other. When it's his turn I touch him while talking to him about being punished. I say things like 'you're so naughty' or 'such a wet boy' 'just like a little baby' and phrases like that. As for humiliation I talk about taking him to the store and making him wet in front of everyone. Or making him put items in the cart that he will need because he's such a bad boy. I talk about hanging his wet underwear outside so everyone can see, so they will know he's a bad boy, and we talk about him having to wear a diaper full time [he doesn't wear now that I live with him, he may at some point but is too shy right now]. I let him lead sometimes to tell me what he wants, he will say like 'tell me' or 'what will you do' and I take it from there. I have read some stories here but it's hard to tell if he would like it.