Need Advice With Girlfriend And Diapers

[dljeff11]

Ok so heres the story. I've been dating my current girlfriend (who is 21, I am 20) for 2 years and about 3 months now. Last night we were just relaxing on the couch when she told me about a fantasy that she wants me to and her to do. I couldn't believe it cause she has never told me about this before haha. Anyways we go into talking and sharing some of the "fantasy" things when all of a sudden I could bring up diapers and see where it goes. I have never told anyone about my diaper loving ever so I didn't outright just blab out and tell her. I made up a story which was part true part false. Basically I said that I got hurt in one of my hockey games when I was in high school and it affected my bladder so I sometimes had to wear diapers. But that's all I said and she seemed to be very accepting about it and thought it was cute. She really is a very accepting girlfriend in case you wanted to know. She will support me no matter what. But now here comes my hardship. What do I do now? What should I tell her? How can I get her to either diaper me or put her in a diaper and we can enjoy it together. Like a fun "fantasy" thing. Which ironically is a fantasy of mine. So please people I need some advice! Thanks.

[Snugglebear]

I'll be honest I never really understand these threads and normally I pass over them with a shake of my head. That being said why don't you try something REALLY radical and out there . . . it's called the truth. A bit of sarcasm but really you are both adults why not act that way? Why would you lie to someone you love? I assume you love your girlfriend otherwise why would you be with them? In all seriousness if you can't be honest with the person you love who can you be honest with? As an adult she deserves the truth don't you think? I told my wife back when we were dating, 8+ years ago now, and we will be married 6 years in May with a stronger relationship than ever. I don't know your situation but a relationship built on lies is going to leave someone unhappy in the long run. Only you and your girlfriend will decide how it plays out not some random people, myself included, who post on a website with whatever advice comes out of our heads.

Just a thought.

Snugglebear

[diapered1964]

Firstly do not try and get your girlfriend into a diaper just to please yourself, it will backfire on you and you will be out a girlfriend. Lieing to a loved one happens all the time, how many of us out here can say that we never never lied to our spouce about anything, or only told them what you thought they wanted to hear ? A lie is a lie no matter how big or small.

If you are determined to introduce diapers to her, wear them yourself, once in a while, but do not start wearing all the time around her, remember your lie to her, you "only need them sometimes", and seeing how you said you sometimes had to wear them, make sure to use them, but do not go over board, only wet them a small amount..

You have opened a door that you may wished you would have been better off never opening, but you never know what is going to happen until the door is opened.

[ErinM]

1. Tell the truth. Period. Trust me, she will be absolutely *pissed* if she finds out you lied to her.

2. Trying to get her to wear diapers because it gives you a boner is selfish.

[mahleedl]

Tell her the truth. Find a way to do it that's light, humerous, perhaps self-depricating, but do it. You've been together 2 1/2 years. If this is something with a future, you need to deal with this "issue." If it doesn't work out, she's the wrong "one."

I've told 2 girlfriends. I can't imagine considering marriage to someone who didn't know my "interests..."

[kadillac]

Wow. Nice lie.

[mahleedl]

Wow. Nice lie.

?? Please elucidate...

[sarah_ab]

i made up a story which was part true part false .... that would be the lying part there

[kadillac]

To be honest, if you can't be honest with your girlfriend about your kinks, you need to mentally grow up and she deserves better than you.