Why Do So Many People Dislike This Fetish?

[precious_lil_suga_angel]

Concerning a long term relationship u definitely need an interactive & supportive person supporting ur fetish/ or lifestyle. No fun in not being able to share in what u thourally enjoy otherwise. U either succumb to not doing it at all or doing it on ur own. Both ways u will eventually become sad & lonely in ur relationship unless ur happy to sacrifice.

***babygirl precious***

[Nat]

I remember when I discovered Ashley's Diaper Adventures, I found it through a search when I typed in diapers. I showed the story to my mother and she read parts of it. She thought it was sick and twisted and thought it was pornography. She thinks that it's sick to pee in a diaper and think that it felt so good.

I can't even be honest with my own mother about my fetish like I can't tell her the real reason why I pee in them or why I really wear them. I like peeing in them too and also think it feels good. Not that it's her business but she sometimes brings it up.

[Eir]

Don't mind the caps. That was me trying to be comically over-the-top. Please direct your attention to the more coherent explanation underneath it as to why I didn't retain much Spanish. It was simply useless information, like what George Washington's second cousin's dog's name was... So, it got mostly forgotten. All I really need to know in Spanish is "No hablo espan~ol".

Though, it is irritating when someone keeps speaking a foreign language at me when I let them know that I don't speak that language. Because, then, they're doing it on purpose to annoy me. And they might be saying something that I should be sticking a double-barrel 12 gauge shotgun under their nose for having said...

Also, I have a rather slow internet connection (21k [on a good day, around 16k normally, around 8k some days] land line dial-up) and it IS a chore to have to use one or more of the translator sites/programs to try to figure out what you just said... If you're going to talk to someone on the internet and you both speak the same language, then do so. It's rather pretentious to use foreign languages on people who don't speak them. I know enough about the Muskogee language to lob sentences at you that you wouldn't be able to look up online. But I don't, because I want to make sure that what I say is being understood.

Also, another reason why people hate us: All of those damned forced regression/forced diapering stories. I'm one of us and I hate those stories... They're basically tantamount to rape... And there are also all of the stories involving underage characters... How can we expect people to like us when if someone we've got all this "We'll make someone who isn't into this do it anyway!" and "We'll involve kids in it!" crap laying around?! If we seriously want to repair our reputation as a whole, then we need to ban these kinds of stories and only stick with those that involve consenting adults. Those who defend these works as "harmless fiction" have to understand that they most certainly aren't seen as such by outsiders... To them, it's rape and pedophilia... And to all wondering why they'd be looking for such stories: They don't have to be looking for them. I've run many a non-AB/DL search through Yahoo and came across sites featuring such stories, and links to such stories. And it only gets worse when you actually search for "ABDL"... Hell, my folks found all sorts of gross shit like this just by searching for "adult diapers", which is part of why they're so against it...

A lot of the ABDL regression stories involve men who are practically hogtied by blackmail and pulled deeper into the web of their upper/dominatrix. But of course, how can anyone be forced back into diapers unless they are forced. I of course, have a fantasy of being babysat and forced to wear diapers, pushed around in a stroller, put in a onesie, etc. Those of us within the Adult Baby Diaper Lover community are able to recognize that these stories are pure fantasy, and that they do not expect real people to act like this. I would not even consider these stories to be pornographic. Of course I know that just because I want to have a woman babysit me does not mean that I have the right to push the issue, and cross the line of harrassing the public. As a warning to anyone who would consider crossing that line, there are stories about men who walked around in dirty diapers, asked random women to change them, and were reported for sexual harrassment! My point is: while ABDL's are able to tell the difference between actionable desires (something they are likely to to today, next week, sometime in the forseeable future), and a pure fantasy. Non ABDL's are not able to tell the difference, so they view our fantasies as evidence of perversion, and they think that we expect all women to act like mommies/babysitters for us.

Think about it: why do so many men hate gays. Because society told them, no. Because they believe that gay men are seeking sex from other men, indiscriminately. Maybe they feel objectified, threatened. Men who hate gays think that gays want them for sex! Because homophobes do not understand that gay men seek out other gays, they wrongfully assume that they want sex with straight men.

(Although I am straight, I am adapt at viewing complex problems from the third plane!)