Wanting A "Mommy."

[dl10956]

I can't explain my desire for wanting to be cared for, but it's definitely a strong one. Whenever you try to establish a relationship with another person, you must have many things in common, AB/DL fetish aside. Sometimes, though, I feel "weird/odd" for desiring this. For instance, whenever I see the diaper aisle in the grocery store or pharmacy, I instantly get turned on. I relish in the fantasy of having my diaper changed and bottom cleaned with baby wipes. So, obviously, there are other guys like me - perhaps girls, too. Is there any real way to get in touch with other people like me, via social networking or something of the like?

[sarah_ab]

try diapermates.com, diaperspace.com, fetlife.com, alt.com, and the meetings place on this board! lots ofplaces!

[~Skitty~]

Luck. Pure, unadulterated LUCK. and a lot of hard work.

i forget who said it, but it makes alot of sense;

"its harder to find a girl thats already into the lifestyle, than it is to just introduce a normal girl into it."

[diapertime42]

Finding women who want to be mommies is easy! It's in their genetic make-up, something they just naturally want to do.

Now finding women who want to be a mommy to a 6 ft tall baby....... yup, that's a little tougher!

[dl10956]

Finding women who want to be mommies is easy! It's in their genetic make-up, something they just naturally want to do.

Now finding women who want to be a mommy to a 6 ft tall baby....... yup, that's a little tougher!

True.

[skylingo]

Okay I felt it was never possible to find what your looking for but yesterday it happend. seriously not even trying i have been on sites looking for someone for years BLAHH and then an old friend came to celebrate with us one night and she ended up coming home with me and for some reason i spilled the beans. She went home and researched everything i mean every thing and she is obsesed with the idea now.

Keep looking its out there but you have to be honest with her and yourself.

[curiositykilledthecat]

It taks a lot of luck...and booze!

[dl_ashlee]

Well if you are serious about trying to find someone then it is just like trying to find a job. Send out 1000 resumes and you should at least get a couple of interviews this way.

[Yvhuce]

Finding women who want to be mommies is easy! It's in their genetic make-up, something they just naturally want to do.

Now finding women who want to be a mommy to a 6 ft tall baby....... yup, that's a little tougher!

Does that mean that I have more of a chance, since I'm 5'1"?

[Depends1578]

I get what you mean but i think its a lot harder to find. Best of luck.

[Babymademommy]

I think it's probably true that some of it comes down to luck. I had never even conceived of the idea of being a mommy until I met an amazing guy who also happened to love having his diaper changed! Unfortunately, we are no longer together . But we did have a "normal" relationship as well as our "private" relationship of mommy and baby. I find that now we are apart, it extremely difficult for me not to have a "baby". It brought a new level of intimacy into our relationship and at this point I find myself searching for that again.

In his case - because I was not an AB/DL - it was pure luck he found someone that not only participated in his lifestyle but came to enjoy it as much as he did. In some ways, I think it was nice because both of us had little expectation of what it "is" (he had never had a "mommy" and I had never been part of the lifestyle) and we just made our own patterns as we went along.

One thing I will tell you is to just be honest about your needs and desires. He was very honest with me, yet at the same time drew the line between what he NEEDED and what he DESIRED. Lucky for him, his desires were fine for me, but he NEVER made me feel that I ABSOLUTELY had to participate AT ALL. In fact, when he told me about it he actually stated that all he really NEEDED was for me to know about it and accept it - even if I didn't participate at all.

This gave me the chance to think about it and consider my own boundaries (which there are apparently few) and let me come to the decision on my own that I was -in fact - a "mommy". Pure luck on his part.

I credit him with discovering another part of myself I didn't know existed. I didn't become his mommy simply to "appease" him or to stay with him because I loved him. It was more like he turned on a light for me.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should just go out there and meet people! Don't tell just ANY girl that you love being diapered, but know that when you tell the RIGHT girl, it can happen! She just may love being your mommy as much as you love being diapered!

[Jackiewope]

Luck. Luck luck luck.

Here's my story:

a. girl breaks up with boyfriend

b. girl becomes very depressed

c. girl begins being an AB to deal with depression

d. girl starts talking with ex-boyfriend again after several months

e. girl tells ex-boyfriend she's an AB

f. ex-boyfriend tells girl he's wanted an AB girlfriend to daddy since he was 16

g. girl and boy get back together and live daiperdly ever after

True story. You just have to try and wish for the best.