Babymademommy

We met on diaperspace about a year ago. I only realized I was a mommy about a year and a half ago. At first, I could barely keep him away from where he knew the diapers were! Neither of us are (or want to be) 24-7's ... But at the beginning I was diapering him at least 5x a week (always to go to bed). After the first month, it dropped down to maybe once a week ... After that, once every two weeks ... Now barely once a month. Even when we are not diapering, it is still a "usual" part of our "dirty talk" when we are having sex ... But now, as much as we talk about it during sex, it rarely happens in life. There are a couple issues/questions I have ... The first is - if he still gets off through TALKING about diapers, then he is obviously still turned on by diapers, right??? I asked him about it ... He says that he thinks he doesn't want it as much because he knows he can have it anytime it wants it now. What should I do? Should I entice him back into diapers? Should I be a strict mommy and require it? A part of me thinks he is waiting for the strict mommy to come out ...

I met my baby on diaperspace. I was only on it for about 2 days until he found me. He sent a heartfelt email (which I hadn't yet had the time to reply to) then sent another a couple days later. By the time I read them both, I knew he was special. We r going on 9 months ... And moving in together next month.

Lots of kisses!!! Let her know that you love her ... Especially forehead kisses (even us non-ABDL girls LOVE that - yet it would also serve as her being your baby). And also make it her choice ... Let her know that if at anytime she feels uncomfortable that you guys can stop. Odds are, she won't ask you to stop if she knows she at least has a choice.

I think it's probably true that some of it comes down to luck. I had never even conceived of the idea of being a mommy until I met an amazing guy who also happened to love having his diaper changed! Unfortunately, we are no longer together . But we did have a "normal" relationship as well as our "private" relationship of mommy and baby. I find that now we are apart, it extremely difficult for me not to have a "baby". It brought a new level of intimacy into our relationship and at this point I find myself searching for that again. In his case - because I was not an AB/DL - it was pure luck he found someone that not only participated in his lifestyle but came to enjoy it as much as he did. In some ways, I think it was nice because both of us had little expectation of what it "is" (he had never had a "mommy" and I had never been part of the lifestyle) and we just made our own patterns as we went along. One thing I will tell you is to just be honest about your needs and desires. He was very honest with me, yet at the same time drew the line between what he NEEDED and what he DESIRED. Lucky for him, his desires were fine for me, but he NEVER made me feel that I ABSOLUTELY had to participate AT ALL. In fact, when he told me about it he actually stated that all he really NEEDED was for me to know about it and accept it - even if I didn't participate at all. This gave me the chance to think about it and consider my own boundaries (which there are apparently few) and let me come to the decision on my own that I was -in fact - a "mommy". Pure luck on his part. I credit him with discovering another part of myself I didn't know existed. I didn't become his mommy simply to "appease" him or to stay with him because I loved him. It was more like he turned on a light for me. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you should just go out there and meet people! Don't tell just ANY girl that you love being diapered, but know that when you tell the RIGHT girl, it can happen! She just may love being your mommy as much as you love being diapered!

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I'm still new to being a mommy and punishments, but I have to agree with Jen that once they start pushin for attention the worst punishment is NO attention.

For me it wasn't a conscious decision either. I had never even heard of ABDL. But I fell for a guy who is a DL (slightly AB), and he opened up my world. I realized how much I liked being his mommy and a new mommy was born! Honestly I don't know if I get the same pleasure from being my baby's mommy as my baby does ... I expect our enjoyment is different since our needs and desires are different though. But to me, it really doesn't matter as long as both of us are being fulfilled and enjoy ourselves!