Not Matching Up

[redhead]

Hi guys,

This is my first post....don't really want to put too much up about me just yet but wondered if you would still be willing to help.

My husband and I are both Diaper lovers. He introduced me to it a few months back and well lets just say that I'm a big fan! He's been 'into' it for a few years, but has only really come to terms with it himself since talking to me about it and actually exploring the world of the DL.

This is going to sound really odd but our expectations and what we get out of wearing are so different that I'm worried that I wont be able to wear with him. Basically for me it's a very sexual thing. I find him very attractive in them, and I feel at my sexiest when I'm wearing. My husband on the other hand, while he does find them arousing, wears more for comfort and as a relaxation aid. As a result, our two 'moods' when wearing aren't really compatible, I get frustrated with him because he wont budge and he gets annoyed at me for pestering him.

Do any other couples have this kind of compatibility issue. I do try to just let him relax, but I find myself in a right grump afterwards. I also just think to myself that I should have the same sort of atitude but you can't turn off what turns you on....well I can't anyway! lol

Any help would be very gratefully received!

Thanks everyone and thanks for a great site!

redhead x

[redhead]

Thanks everyone and sorry to waste anyone's time. I talked to my OH about this and we are working on some sort of compromise.

Thankfully we're all ok!

Thanks everyone and I will put up an intro as soon as I feel up to it!

Redhead x

[Frogboy]

Me and my wife had this exact same problem. I wanted to wear more for comfort, she wants to wear for sexual pleasure. I think it is the difference between having been a DL for many years compared to just getting into DL. Our solution was that I wear whenever I want, going about my everyday things in comfort whereas my wife will put on a diaper when she's horny, "go" in it and then take it off so we can "get it on". We've made her wearing into a kind of foreplay. Undoing each others diapers is also fun in foreplay. Just a thought!

Have fun!

Frogboy

[Fulldiaper]

When he's in a diaper and you're in a diaper, you get sexually aroused and he doesn't. What if you were to put him in his diapers and when you did, accelerated his ability to become excited and aroused by touching his diaper erotically?

...just my .02 cents