New From Dublin And Need Wife To Acceapt

[abphil]

how can i get my wife of 5 years to accept me and my diapers after finding her my diapers which i left for her to find in my wardrobe (wants us to go to a doc for a talk) but I know diapers are here to stay. H ELP HELP

[snugglekitty]

all i can say is take it one day at a time...but welcome to the group

[abphil]

all i can say is take it one day at a time...but welcome to the group

Thanks

[PutInDiapers]

Well, first welcome. Second, go to doc for a talk is at least not "no". I suppose it might be more embarrassment than you're prepared for. She's coming with you, right? Doc might say that he's seen worse... then again, I'm no expert.

[Repaid1]

Which kind of "doc" Medical or Shrink? Does she think you "need" them as in the medical doctor, or she knows you like them for the shrink? If it's the Medical side you better have a nice talk with her and start explaining best you can (see Below). If it's the shrink you can go to a few pages and print out some info for her first and see if she changes her mind a bit till things get on a more understanding level.

This is from BitterGray's Site, might be a good place to start. Google "infantilism" for a few others and chose which you think best. There is also a quick explanation on our front page proper (scroll down past the "Enter Now" screen"

http://understanding.infantilism.org/

[4TPullups]

yes, i would wait before going to a shrink. this is no illness. good luck and welcome. if you do decide to go go along with her but your goals are too different right now.