Diapered Christian Conclusion

[Eir]

Betty, if I can clarify I was concerned about:

1. Obsessively seeking out pictures of diaper girls on the internet. It mirrors a porn addiction, even though the images I seek are not pornographic per say. Because I get off on them, it is a personal form of porn.

2. When I have diaper time I sit on my butt at home, My ABDL drive can keep me homebound for many hours at a time and sometimes entire days. For me personally, this takes away from physical activity. One of my worst habits is using you in a general sense when you still think I am speaking to you. I also have a habit of speaking from personal experience without making that clear.

I recognize the positive benefits: mainly stress relief. I was camping out in babyland during finals. This brought me to a place where there was no stress. I especially enjoyed having a few oatmeal diapers! That was a great deal of fun.

[Bettypooh]

Eir, one can overcome tendencies and make things which are bad better- I have to do that to deal with my Depression Create a reason to get in motion when you're in the diaper mood, perhaps a stroll through the park or mall to check out the things you like. Or going for a "Happy Meal" just because you want to and you can. See the action as a reward for you doing the right thing by noy letting diapers make you house-bound Something like this will also help with the obsession over the pics- if you're not at the PC you won't be browsing for them The pics are where I see the worst problems with balance; they are causing you to be down on yourself for believing what many here agree with- a girl in diapers can look sexy So have you ever sought a RL scenario with one? Having the actual experience may make the pics less powerful for you, as well as perhaps finding you a partner at the same time Both are good things!

Humans are supposed to be sexual, though like with everything else what we see as sexy and how frequent it happens in us is as varied as everything else about us that makes us who we are. Western society has created an artificial 'wall of prudity' concerning sex, trying to portray it as something to be hidden, something to feel shame over- something bad somehow. Well it ain't The act of having sex is a normal, beautiful thing that embodies the best of the human spirit, that of openly giving your all to someone just because it will please them, with them reciprocating. That you find diapered women sexy isn't bad at all- I should hope that my own partner finds diapers sexy because that's what I wear and I can't change that If they don't, it isn't going to work between us very well. My partner will have to at least find diapers tolerable, if not sexy, because I can't change that for them. Nor do I want to. There is someone out there for you whom you will find attractive and who is sexually compatible with you. Instead of spending your time drooling over pics, put more effort into finding that person. If you're so inclined, do that during your own 'diaper time' which will turn that into time well-spent for you in two ways The outward signs of who that right person is may be hidden (darn prudish Western society!) but they are out there and only by luck or actively seeking will you ever find them. In changing the focus of your sexual appetite from pics to finding the real thing, you will create the balance your life now lacks, and there will be far less time spent obsessing or being home-bound which both make you feel bad in the end.

I hope some of this helps you figure out your best solution- it's kind of obvious that your current approach isn't working as well as it should. Accept yourself and give your own feelings the validity they deserve, for they are real and valid. Reward yourself for doing good things such as being active while diapered and seeking a partner instead of dreaming over pics. Make yourself a real life and things will get better for you.

Bettypooh