Does anybody have any advice on telling my bf that I want to wear around him, and possibly involve him in it if he wants? Him and I have talked about BDSM to the extent of filling out a checklist that we both went down and checked off the things we were willing to do and wanted to try and things like that. He wrote willing to try for just about everything. My face lit up when he had willing to try with the Diaper Sex, Washroom Restrictions, Using Diapers, Humiliation, and ABDL/DDLG sections, however when we started talking about it I started getting sad bc he asked "isn't it just during sex?" and most of those things aren't at least for me and I just don't know how to approach the subject with him. Help and advice would be greatly appreciated.