[Where are You?]

Born and raised in Mamcunium/Manchester, moved to Blackpool but my job takes me overall so I not really located to one spot anymore lol

[North West ABDLs?]

Blackpool end.

[Anyone from around Blackpool region?]

Been here near 3 years, would love to chat and possibly even meet up one day.

[As a child/teen, did you fantasize about being incontinent, or did that come later?]

I started thinking/wearing as early as 8 years old, a going desire to be stay in diapers shortly after. Started to use diapers around 12 and buy my own about 15. I never came into contact with adult diapers until I was 16/17. After that I wanted to be incontinent properly. So I recon even as the early teen years I wanted to be put back into diapers and be diaper dependent.

[If you can start over?]

I would refuse outright. There was a few mounts during my child/teenage years I could have said something about my desires to wearing nappies but due to my anxiety I always kept quiet. So, if all would stay the same to who I am now, then yes, yes I would love to go back and persuade my parents to keep me in nappies and never potty train me. 

[What Kind Of Ab Are You]

I would like to be the first 5 but over a 2 week period. I ber it would be interesting to start as a newborn for a couple of days and slowly progress to potty training.

[What do you use your nappies for?]

I use my nappies for wetting and pooing. I don't see it a need to, or a convenience thing, or even for amusement really. I believe wearing/using nappies for peeing and pooing is a natural thing ... if you get what I mean...

[Wearing a diaper is so much less stressful]

Last couple of days I have been sat of the couch (cross-legged) doing a online course for work for at least 8-9 hours pre-day. It was some much more comfortable, less stress and freeing to use my diapers during it, especially during the examination portion. Lost count how many times I wet myself during the exam 😆 

[When are your incontinence desires satisfied?]

I would prefer to be fully incontinent, but with mild bowel incontinence. Whenever I can wet/mess myself with little knowledge I get happier.

[Incontinence installation wizard]

1. - Severe / Total incontinence

2. -  Squirts, small bladder releases 

3. - Vague awareness. 

4. - Heavy wetting with infrequent pee dreams.

5. - Permanent 

6. - Mild/ occasional bowel incontinence 

7. - Yes

When can I expect the answers to come into effect 😆 

[Archaeologist]

14 hours ago, Babypants said:

I've been on more sites than I care to count.

On a watching brief a couple of years ago i was that bored I actually counted, I think I have now been on 70+

[Archaeologist]

Hello all,

I am just curious if there are any archaeological folk amongst us?

[Gender Questions]

Being I class myself as Bigender I see myself as both. It differs on any given day, most of the time 50/50 upper half male, lower half female. Othertimes 65/35 chest and lower half are female. But, always having an outward appearance of a male...

[The best partner for you regarding your incontinent desires?]

Ideally number 3, firat and second options are  aso good. My partner doesn't want me to go down the 'dependent' route, but she does accept me wearing 24/7 whenever I choose to...Only demand, that there is no messy diapers in the house lol

[Incontinence desire coupled with gender confusion]

Over the last few day, today especially, I have been wanting nothing more then to wear diaper 24/7 and use them completely for their intend purpose. However, how my finances are as well as the UK economy is these days I cannot see this happening anytime soon. Being diaper dependent is a desire I have had since being about 8 years old and something that I think off a lot...I mean a whole lot. Not a day goes by without thinking about it, the only time I do not have at least one thought of having zero (Mainly) bladder control is when i am wearing. It has even crossed my mind if it can all be a form of 'Body Dysmorphic Disorder' to why I do not want any bladder control.

I guess I am just rambling on about a topic that a lot of us shear due to other frustration, other than the whole incontinence desire frustration. Over the last several months I have been searching to understand how I actually feel about my body as well as how I see it. To start with, I do not see myself as Trans as the descriptions to not truly match (The reason why Dysmorphia enter my mind). For me, I see myself as both genders, in my mind it is roughly a scale of 40% male and 60% female. As odd as it may seem, I do not tend to feel as my whole body as one or the other. I tend to feel as my lower half should be female most of the time. Hence another reason why I am frustrated that I can not afford many diapers at the moment, when wearing a diaper I can look more feminine. This in turn feeds back into the incontinence desire because, well, I am diapered all the time to look feminine so not use it ?

Although this post has not truly been all been incontinence related, it has indeed helped me by finally get alot of what is going around in my head down in a public setting for a fist time. 

[Does your Doctor know?]

I have spoken to the doctor but only as a last minute thing at the end of my appointment regarding my anxiety. All I ended saying was sometimes I leak (I don't) and that I wear diapers sometimes to help with it and occasionally to help with my anxiety. Since then nothing has been said. Although, I have a different doctor each time which is bloody annoying.

[Catheter Urethral Sound Dilator]

Hello, has anyone know/tried a 'Silicone Urethral Stretching Penis Plug Catheter Urethral Sound Dilator' before? Or any other items such as these. I have seen them around when looking up catheters, stents and, well, anything to do with incontinence tempory and of otherwise ?. Any advice/info will be more than appreciated.

 

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/114748166756?

[In what way would you most like to become incontinent?]

54 minutes ago, jonbearab said:

Have you tried anal training and/or tunnel plugs? That combined with laxatives can give the desired effect. Temporarily of course. A good hard anal training session can leave you bowel incontinent for a few days, in my experience.

You say 'anal training'...? I do like the thought of temporary bowel incontinence ?

[In what way would you most like to become incontinent?]

I would prefer option 2, but I would need a way to create temporary bowel incontinence as well.

[My Untraining Journey (Trans, Pre-to-Post Op)]

Really have enjoyed reading these posts.

On 9/11/2021 at 9:20 PM, Kif said:

when dry it "flattens" my front

This is one of the other reasons I loves wearing diapers, no bulges when dry, only flatness ? positioned and even I cannot tell something is down ther, which can be a good thing ?

[What diaper are you wearing now?]

A very wet night-time Abena-abri form premium medium Lv3.

[Back to it ?]

I never really went anywhere, I have been away from the site but that is due to the lack of new posts. There always seems to be a large period in between posts I find. Diapers, I have not worn during the day for at least 2 months I reckon. I do at night when I stay away for work...Cannot have any little accidents now can we ? (I wish I was a bedwetter ?) I wear at night because it helps me sleep knowing that at little leaks caught. Prior to this, I was diapered 24/7 wetting/messing day and night for a good month I think. But, I think due to working outside with the heat finally started to get me.

[Back to it ?]

Ahhhh, back in my nappies once again. I can never work out what it is about them, but I am so much happier, and happier in myself when I am working diaper and using them for for both wetting and messing. When I am without them I don't feel normal, if that makes sense...or maybe the would should be complete instead of normal, I don't know. All I know is that I am happier and a better version of myself when I am able to just wet and mess when when I do not have to think about it. 

[Anyone in or near Norwich]

I am working in Norfolk at the moment, just on the border of West King's Lynn.

[Manchester]

Hello. I am a Manch born and bread, now living elsewhere. No up for meeting people at the moment but will happily chat. Don't be shone to send a message, I am always up for a natter.