[I Told My Girlfriend..]

Such a good feeling being able to get that weight of your chest eh? I'm impressed you were able to do it after a year or so, it took my 5 years! Lol Even outside the kink finding someone who understands your needs and accepts you for you is amazing! Happy holidays! 

[ABDLs Simcoe/Muskoka region]

Hey all! Just wondering if there is any abdls around the area looking to make friends/chat. Seems everyone is more south. 

[Diapers for big thighs]

Hey all! So I have been enjoying my crinklz astronauts recently (probably my second favourite print on a diaper to date!) But have found that there could be a little more room in the leg guards. I have pretty big muscular thighs that just seem to eat them lol. I dont carry much weight in the front but definitely have larger than most thighs and glutes and would like a diaper that covered my inner thighs a little better ( for 1 and 2). Anyone have this issue and have any suggestions? 

Thanks! 

[Married messers]

Pooped while cuddling my wife on the couch last night. She sniffed the air, patted my bum and asked if I had pooped my diaper. I told her yes sheepishly, she proceeded to called me a good boy. We happily continued watching tv after 

[Struggling to Reconcile Attractions]

I would suggest telling your wife. I know for my own experience that the feeling will come in waves and always return. I found that being confident and honest with my wife has worked out better than I could have imagined. Just remeber that this is your kink. Even if she is accepting of it she may not herself be turned on by it. Just remeber to invest time into her needs and wants. If you take care of her, she (will hopefully) take care of your needs. Take it slow. 

It may seem easier to want to just drop it but the feelings will more than likely not just disappear. And you may find yourself in an unhealthy binge purge cycle that wont help the situation. I think that before you get married it will be a good idea to be honest with her, dont make it a huge deal and she wont. Going into a marriage with secrets doesnt sounds like a good idea. If you are confident enough that she is the person you will be with for the rest of your life, trust that she will support you in your needs. 

 

[Activities in a poopy messy diaper?]

I was playing catan with my wife the other night in nothing but a diaper and black t shirt. I wet a couple times and then filled my diaper with a nice warm mess. We kept playing (I won!) And then when and got changed and fooled around. 

[Married diaper lovers]

6 hours ago, Sophie ♥ said:

Everyone is different!

Isnt that that truth! 

 

6 hours ago, diaperboy4life said:

Just go slow and see how she feels, don't try and push her to wear but let her know how hot you think it is and maybe she will surprise you

Ah thank you so much for sharing your experince! I cant believe how similar of a reaction your wife had to mine. Literally down to the, "really, thats all?" Remark. She has really been encouraging me to bring the diaper topic up more because she doesnt always think to talk about and knows when im fishing to bring it up. Today at lunch I looked at her and said "guess what?" And she look at me with the most seductive smile and said, "are you wearing a diaper? ;)" I always melt when she has this reaction to my kink (I wasn't though).

If you guys are at interested in following my adventures, I will be attempting to wear with her for the first time (just got a bit gitty saying that) on wednesday! We've kind of talked about it and im not just going to surprise her with it but i have an idea pf whats going to go down. I will let you fine gems know how it goes! Wish me luck!!

[Married diaper lovers]

29 minutes ago, Sophie ♥ said:

Thanks!   I know the first time LB wore a diaper, we did it together.  Both of us wore one, I think.  She felt VERY embarrassed and had a lot of trouble at first, but she got over it after a few months.  I would say, it was really nice to have the experience together rather than letting her do it on her own.  It was kind of a bonding experience, and I could talk her through some of the reasons I really like it.  She definitely appreciated that.  So consider that!  

That must have been such a bonding experience! I would love to be with her for her first timw trying it. The caviatte (spelling? Lol) is that my wife has pretty bad anxiety. She is worried that if we do it together that it might get overwhelming and she doesnt want to 'ruin' our first experience together (i would NEVER look at it that way though, as anxiety isnt fully in her control). I do love this and will definitely consider it! I like the thought of getting to 'guide' her and show her why i love this so much.

[Married diaper lovers]

2 hours ago, Sophie ♥ said:

Oh gosh... when I told LB - my fiancée - about my little stuff, she was pretty supportive.  She didn't /understand/ but she was supportive.  She would go to the store with me and buy me toys and stuff.  Then when diapers came up, it was... complicated.  She wasn't really surprised, but she didn't know what to do.  We talked a lot about it, and she said she would probably be okay with me wearing them, but she wouldn't want to.  As for using them, she wasn't really into that idea.

A little while later, I started wearing them around her.  To bed, to cuddle, stuff like that.  She thought it was kind of cute, actually.  She wondered if she could put me in a diaper, and I was like "UM YES TOTALLY!" So she started changing me into them, as long as I was dry.  It was nice!

Then, I think I was really tired, curled up to her chest... and I told her I had to go potty.  She hesitated, but she told me that it was okay if I wanted to use the diaper.  So I did.  She thought the moment was extremely intimate.  She started to see diapers and wetting as more than just a fetish thing, but also as a way for us to connect and be closer.  That's when things changed.

Now she loves seeing me in diapers.  She thinks it's adorable.  She also changes me when I'm wet.  She's given me suppositories once or twice before, but she doesn't change me when I'm messy.  Which is TOTALLY FINE because I'm not sure I'd be comfortable with that.. >_< She's worn diapers a few times - she was really embarrassed at first, and she doesn't really /like/ them... but she likes how they make me react.  When I see her in diapers, I get really handsy so..   She's wet herself a few times too, but she changes pretty quickly.

Long story short: diapers are a great way of showing intimacy.  Your partner might not like them, but she will appreciate the way it makes you feel and knowing that she can be a part of that.  And even though someone might not be into something right away, circumstances might come up where she sees things from a new perspective.  Just be honest and open about your feelings and I'm sure it'll be great.  And SHOW love.  Don't be afraid to express your affection if she's doing something right.

This is very simillar to the dynamic me and my wife share! Id really love to get to where you and your SO are (in our own way of course). I am still dumbfounded by how accepting she is; often times me being the more bashful one when approaching the subject (which I am working on). She knows I like to wet and mess my diaper (not so much an ab as a dl) and has said many time that talking about it really excits her. We decided that rather than me introducing the diapers that i would let her explore them on her own, hopefully finding the same excitment and joy as I and all of us have. This reply really struck a cord with me. Thank you very much for your reply! I wish you and yours all the best  

[Newbie from the great white north]

Southern ontario 

[Married diaper lovers]

Hey all! I was wondering if there were any other here that have introduced diapers into thers relationships/marriage and would be willing to empart some advice. I brought up this side of myself to my wife about 6 months ago and she has been so amazing about it all. We have taken it slow as far as introducing to the bedroom (dirty talk/fantisies) but havent involved diapers yet. I have them... both for myself and her. She is excited by the idea of wearing, but just hasn't been in the right head space to explore this new world herself. We talked about it and she would like to try wearing by herself first to get the gitters out. She does have depression and has recently started a new job which isnt helping get in the mood but we are getting there. She also knows I wear, and likes to joke and poke-fun in a playful way (which I die for). 

I would love to hear some stories and experiences from others introducing their kink to a "vanilla" partner. Feel free to pm me

[Newbie from the great white north]

Hello everyone!

Been coming here for a while and finally decided to make a profile and maybe reach out to the community. I have been a dl for a number of years now and have very recently started exploring this side of me with my wife (very supportive). Figured I could trade some experiences and get some advice from those who have trotted this path before me. Very friendly! :) reach out, I don't bite!