michael1538

I have a friend that had prostate surgery for an enlarged prostate. It was to open up the urethra. Well he developed scar tissue that blocked off the passage for urine and he had to catheter himself just to go. He had another procedure and that resulted in more scar tissue. Eventually he found a doctor that inserted a stent that was medicated to reduce the swelling and scar tissues. This has worked out very good for him and he is back to peeing normally again. I mention this just in case you are having scar tissue or something blocking your urethra and need a procedure to open it up again. My doctor wants to do a procedure on me because of the enlarged prostate problems. So far I am resisting but starting to think about it. I wear diapers and pee whenever I feel a build up, even if it is only a dribble. If I could get snipped to make me dribble all the time, I would probably go for it. I think about your decision all the time and hope everything works out great for you

Has anyone heard from Mr. Reddy or know how he is doing? I hope everything is OK for him.

Hello Mr. Reddy, I know you have heard this before but I will still compliment you on your decision to have the surgery and become incontinent. That was possible something you had to think about for a long time before making that decision and now that it is done, you will have some life changing results. I would love to experience how your incontinence is working. I have a couple questions. I read in earlier postings that you were not a long time diaper user. You wore diapers at times but not for long periods of 24/7. Yet you still desired incontinence, which would result in you needing to wear diapers full time. When you made your decision to go through the surgery that made you incontinent, was it the full time need of diapers OR the full time incontinence that gave you the ammunition to go through with the operation? In some later postings you have mentioned that you have tried masturbation after the operation. I have read about guys that masturbate and after the climax, they loose interest in wearing diapers for a while. I have also experienced that myself. Have you had those same feelings after climaxing before your surgery? How about now, now that you HAVE to be in diapers to control your pee. Does it still feel the same afterwords or are you working on changing your mindset that you MUST still wear a diaper? I have to say that since I made a commitment to myself to use diapers full time starting this year, When I do climax, either in a diaper or not, I will force myself (if necessary) to continue wearing a diaper. I will say that it is getting easier to put on a clean diaper or just continue wearing what I have on until such time it is ready to be changed. Again, CONGRATULATIONS with your decision. Most people won't understand it but there are those of us that do and I bet, most are jealous of your results. I wish you the best!

I'll through my hat or shall I say diaper in the ring too as one of those with a shy bladder. I have had this my entire life and it has been embarrassing at times. I go to the rest room and just cannot pee. I then go into a stall and if the room is busy or someone is standing outside the door, I am locked like Fort Knox. My bladder will hurt so bad I feel like it is about to burst. My curiosity in diapers lead me to try wearing them when I go to busy places where I might have trouble peeing. I am able to relieve myself in the diaper and feel a lot better. No body knows I am wearing and using a diaper. So I can sympathize with those on this forum that have shy bladders. I finally realized how much I enjoy wearing diapers and how much easier life is when I can just pee a little whenever I feel the need to. So this year I made the decision to go full time in diapers. I am doing good so far and have only missed a few days so far. At night I found cloth diapers and plastic pants feel and work better for me. I will wake up during the night with a painful bladder and even if I go to the bathroom, I still have a difficult time going in the potty. So I am working on conditioning myself to just stay in bed and wet my diaper. It takes longer than I would like sometimes but at least I wet myself. The next time is a little easier most times. So I am trying to be a bedwetter or at least someone that can pee easier when in bed. During the day I wet whenever I have the need too. I am finding that I will pee more often and smaller amounts but I feel so much better when that happens. Am I trying to become diaper dependent, I think in some way I am. I am happier in diapers and will try to stay that way and maybe overcome some of my shy bladderness. Good luck to all of you with the same issue.

I am wondering, do you have a podcast going for diapers or incontinence already? If so is it possible to share the name and where it can be found. I, and probably others, would enjoy listening to it. It would be awesome to hear Reddy give his point of view regarding his incontinence desires, the operation, the outcome of the surgery and how it has changed his life.

Hello Reddy, I have been following your postings. You have written a very good and detailed dialog. Now that your surgery is finished and you are healing, I do wish you good health and a speedy recovery. I hope things will turn out the way you want and you will be dribbling constantly. Welcome to the wonderful world of diaper wearers. When you are home in the USA and healed from the surgery, from what you wrote, you are expecting to be in diapers full time. Do you think since this is a new experience (incontinence) you might try to testing yourself by not wearing a diaper and seeing if you can keep your pants dry? I was thinking that maybe your body will try to hold it in since this is what you have done all through the years. BUT, if the surgery is completely successful you will still dribble or just pee and wet yourself. Of course if you are wearing a diaper, that would be the expected result. By not wearing a diaper, you may try to hold yourself from peeing. I was just wondering if you plan to test yourself to see if the operation was a success. I guess I am a bit jealous of your boldness to get the procedure to render yourself diaper dependent. Now you have a legitimate reason to go shopping for diapers. I am doing my best this year to wear diapers full time and use them for urinating. I have BPH or an enlarged prostate and have trouble starting a stream. I have turned to wearing diapers so that if I feel the slightest urge, I can just pee. I know I will eventually need a procedure, but I don't believe the USA doctors will render me incontinent on purpose, like yours did. I wish you happiness in your new life. Another question. When you return home and find out that you are incontinent, will you have to move your postings to the incontinent group, rather than the incontinent desires group? Keep up the interesting posts, you are doing a great job.

Not that I have to tell someone that I like to wear diapers, my spouse already knows that. But recently things have changed for me. I was recently at the urologist for an exam and results on may prostate. No cancer, but off the charts enlarged. The doctor mentioned I will probably need surgery to open up the passage in the future. After that doctor visit, I did some more research on line and spoke to a friend who had that operation. Because of some of the problems, I do not want the surgery if I can get away with it. I came home after the Dr. Apt. and put a diaper on. As I was researching things I came to the realization that I have been experiencing issues for a long time, with out acknowledging it. I have always like wearing a diaper. Lately I have been wearing them more often and much longer. I have noticed that when wearing a diaper I tend to go pee in it as soon as I have the urge. That actually makes me feel better and more relaxed and the bladder is less painful. So I thought to myself this may be a good time to just bit the bullet and go 24/7. I was at a restaurant having a dinner with my husband and afterwards we were talking. Some of the discussion was the results of my friends surgery and the complication caused by scar tissues developing. I told my husband that I really don't want the operation in fear of that happening to me. I told him that he may think I am a bit odd because I like to wear diapers, but lately since I have been wearing the all the time, I do feel better. He told me not to beat myself up because I like wearing a diaper. He told me it is just another form of underwear to him and he was OK with me wearing them. Whew! What a relief. As we left the restaurant I thought to myself I was just given the green light to continue wearing 24/7, and I will. I will admit that in the last few weeks of wearing all the time, I am peeing a lot easier and feeling better. At night was when the prostate issues would give me the most difficulty. I would wake up having to pee and my bladder felt like it was going to burst. I would go the the bathroom only to dribble and stop. Dribble and Stop. This would repeat itself until I was (I thought) empty. Only to repeat the situation a couple hours later. Now with wearing full time. I did purchase some premium diapers and plastic pants and wear them at night in bed. I do wake up, but just lay there and try to relax and wet my diaper while in be. This is something I have to get used to but confidence in better protection is part of the answer. It has been 5 night so far with me wetting while in bed. No leaks yet. Great. It is getting much easier to release and I am happy about that. If I end up a bedwetter, so be it, I just want a better sleep. So this conversation about wearing diapers had a much different outcome and one that I am happy with.