[He will NOT use the Restroom, he will HOLD it.]

I'm not a fan of using public restrooms but since I have no need to be diapered 24/7 I have to sometimes. Just get in and get out.

[How the mighty have fallen]

I believe Microsoft quit updating IE and now you have to use Microsoft Edge. Don't quote me on that but I think that's the reason.

[How do you usually check the wetness of your diaper?]

I put my hand down the back to check there. In the front I pull out my plastic pants and when the "B" in BetterDry is gone it's time to change. I always leak so I put a paper towel in the back between my plastic pants and my diaper to absorb any excess. I know it probably sounds stupid but I only get to wear a few days a week.

[Heavy garbage]

When we lived in Illinois the garbage company provided everyone with a large plastic container on wheels. It had a small bar on one side so all the worker had to do was wheel it over to the truck and hook the bar to the lift to have it dump it. We moved to Iowa and they had the same container but it cost extra so we went cheap. Bought a 30 gallon plastic one and tried to get by on it. Then one day I went out to bring in the can and it had a red tag on it. The tag said the container was over loaded for a manual lift and this was my first warning. So apparently with my 3 days worth of diapers and the regular trash I had misjudged the weight. Shortly thereafter I had them bring me the one that cost extra and now I don't have to worry. 

[Facebook got me again]

I've thought about making a Facebook account but I was afraid something like that would happen! Hope none of your vanilla friends see it.

[First work day in a pull-up..]

If all you were having is damp panties I think a good pullup would be plenty at work. As long as your employer has no problems with your restroom use I think you'd be fine. If your leakage gets worse you could always go to a thin adult diaper. Slightly thicker than a pullup.

[getting older sucks]

I can only imagine Ken. Always thought thats what I wanted was to be incon but the more I hear from people like you the better off I am. It has to be a hassle sometimes.

[getting older sucks]

Yes. I'm a dl only. For sure I thought I'd need them by now but apparently I have a very good bladder system. I use BetterDry and a booster when I get to wear. For added safety I also wear plastic pants. The wife would have a fit if I got the furniture wet.

[getting older sucks]

Heck Ken, by now I thought I'd need diapers and I'm 68. The lady seems to have been very nice to let you know discreetly. Here's to hoping you don't have a noticeable leak again.

[New relationship with Barbara who was introduced to me by my mom.]

Thanks for the update Ken. I hope things keep going well for you both.

[Urge incontinence from untraining]

I'm not untraining but after I take my last diaper off after 3 days of wearing I feel the urge to pee for a day or so after. When I go to the bathroom my bladder has hardly anything in it. My age may have something to do with it though.

[Anyone else prefer medical diapers?]

For someone doing incontinence training confidence in a diaper is a must. My main diaper is BetterDry but since I'm not 24/7 I put in a booster and flood them when I get to wear. I'm pretty sure if I went 24/7 I could almost get by on one diaper per day. Since I usually don't drink a lot of water I think it could be done. The North Shore Supreme or Abenas would be a very good choice for you. Good luck!

[3 Weeks]

Way to go DD! I have little willpower to stay way from the crap food and the wife only likes making a beef or pork dish. Fish and poultry are the healthiest I think so I try and get her to buy those. Keep up the good work and I'm sure you'll feel even better for sure! 

[Ukraine v Russia WW3 or not?]

Well like I said, the whole hundreds of years being is enslaved by white people. Not to mention they are still discriminated against. So I'd say my credibility is pretty darned good. I could quote you the fake news promoted by Facebook and Google claiming the shooter was a leftist but I'm sure it wouldn't do any good. Sorry, everybody and his  brother call them assault rifles. Liberals and conservatives alike. There was an investigation in Biden's involvement in Ukraine and I'll be darned they didn't find a thing. I really don't know what getting off Russia's oil has to do with anything. I know others people have had slaves but I'm talking about the black people in this country. AE I knew better than to jump into this because of the divide between us and yet I did. I'm done. I hate arguing so you can have the forum. I'm not looking at it again. Too much energy wasted arguing. Take care.

[Ukraine v Russia WW3 or not?]

Yes I can lay this at Trump's feet. At least in part by the fact that he stopped selling weapons to Ukraine. He didn't want to upset his buddy and idol Putin. I also believe had the white race been held as slaves for a couple of hundred years we might have a little animosity toward whomever did it. The last time I checked it was also a crime to park on a city street as the truckers did in Canada and created a huge problem for the government. Obviously that's what they wanted to do but again, it was an illegal act. And in so doing an illegal act any monies therefore collected again would be illegal. And as far as owning a gun I don't have a problem. I own one too. It would take me quite awhile to kill 58 people like the modified assault rifle the gunman used in Vegas did. 

[Ukraine v Russia WW3 or not?]

That's a crock of BS if I've ever heard it. Because of Donald "Einstein" taking money away from the military we are way behind the 2 biggest holders of nuclear weapons in the world. Their governments, Canada and Australia, are doing things to try and keep their countries safe and because they do that they aren't a free society? Come on AE get serious. We won't have to worry about an invasion if we help out Ukraine, nuclear warheads that we have no way of shooting down will be raining down on us from Russia, China and North Korea.

[Ukraine v Russia WW3 or not?]

I've learned more history in my life than you will ever know. It just sounds you people want there to be war so you get out the guns. Then life as we know it will be gone.

[Ukraine v Russia WW3 or not?]

What's the matter? You gun nuts think they are going to invade us?

[Wetting Diapers on Purpose]

Three days a week I drink a pot of coffee with breakfast and then go to my old computer in the basement with a cooler full of water. I lean back in my chair while I play games and let nature take its course. Normally it's a BetterDry with a couple of boosters with a pair of plastic pants over that. That way I know I can fill it past capacity and the PP will catch what leaks.

[Wet Diaper Kink]

I have to admit years ago when I first started wearing they were definitely a turn on. Now I wear a diaper to flood it and get the most out of it. To me there's hardly anything as nice as a warm wet diaper that can't take another drop.

[Colonoscopy prep]

I've had several colonoscopies but I had enough control that during the prep I never had an accident. The last one was over 5 years ago and I have one coming up Feb. 11. At this point I'm not sure if I still have the holding abilities I once had. These days I wear a pullup whenever I'm not diapered so in the event I can't hold it I'm hoping the pullup will keep any accidents contained.

[New relationship with Barbara who was introduced to me by my mom.]

We've all said it. Age is just a number. If you are as compatible as you sound I think it's a wonderful idea to continue to see her and see where it goes. We all know how hard it is to find someone who accepts this side of us and she seems to be a very nice lady.  I wish you the best of luck and hope you and her both find happiness. Oh and of course keep us posted. Success stories like what this could be are few and far between.

[Prevelence of Population with Incontinence]

Just did the math on that for the U.S. Would be somewhere near 27 million incontinent people. I didn't know what the 0-4 numbers were so I'm only somewhere in the neighborhood. I wouldn't be surprised though since we have an aging population.

[Any ABDL who are parents or grandparents?]

Sorry about my answer. I didn't know you were that close to diaper dependency. So put on your most discrete diaper and hold that grandbaby tight. I'm sure you will find a happy medium so that you can do everything any other grandma would do.

[Any ABDL who are parents or grandparents?]

I think it's very easy myself. When you're with your grand baby you are an adult and when not you can be abdl. It will feel a bit strange at first but at least for me it was easy to go back and forth. In my mind I was a little jealous at first because they got to wear and use diapers and no one gave it a second thought. Although for me that's when my wife thought I should give up wearing diapers.