Private only for me. Although, when I was in college, I was in my room enjoying wearing during that time and my one friend came to my door and asked if I could take him McD's. I was a bit hesitant knowing my diapered state behind the door, so I agreed anyway. I decided that I was not going to waste a perfectly good diaper that had only been on for like 15 minutes. So, I juts put khaki pants on over top and a long jacket and proceeded to meet him at the elevators. BTW, during this time I was wearing a Rearz Princess Pink diaper and it was my first time wearing something that thick outside my room. He knew my secret, and I'm sure he could tell I was wearing it. Hard to hide a bulky butt. A thrill to say none the less, and it made sitting in a cold car during winter a lot easier.