Vic

I too use Babypowder for it's fresh scent in my diaper, for it's ability to keep me from getting chafed. But COME ON GUYS!! What about when we're in the bar playin pool??? How many of us associate rubbing our hands with Babypowder before shooting that last shot, banking the 8 off the side rail into the corner pocket for yet another victory, and the free beer that comes with it? Vic

Here. here! I couldn't have said it better. One GOOD friend is more precious than GOLD. Far, far better it is to have that one good friend, than to have a hundred fair weather friends. With a GOOD friend the waters run DEEP, with the others you find the water too shallow to even wet your ankles. Vic

I know from experience what it is to be betrayed by others, however, don't let one instance make you so bitter that you never let anyone close to you again. You take a chance with everyone you get to know, and yes you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince. Yet there are good people out there, if you treat everyone like you don't trust them you are going to repell some of those who are honest and decent people, and who may become good friends given the opportunity. We all take chances everyday, when we get into our cars and go to work, we run the chance of getting into a wreck that could seriously injure or kill us, yet we take that chance. Don't let one bad apple spoil your barrel, take a chance, be careful, but do give people the opportunity to be a friend. Vic

Thanks Doc, I haven't been to Scandavania, the closest I've been was Germany and Amsterdam, but all the people I met were very friendly. I hope you enjoy your new home, and you find our people as friendly as I found those in Germany and Amsterdam. I also went to England, but I didn't get out of London, and have since been told that to really get to know the Brits one must stay OUT of London, lol. Thank you again for telling me where you came from. Vic

Hi there BabyChris from Vic and Shelley! I'm tossin back a couple of brews, and Shelley is on her way to bed, long day at work you know. Shelley has talked with you in the past, and we wonder why we don't hear more from you these days. Yes I know it seems like it is hard to make friends here online, but I don't see your posts that often anymore. When I do I try to have something to say that will add to your posts but don't always have something to say. Sometimes I just don't have anything to add that hasn't already been covered by others in their posts, so I stay out of it (lucky for you, as I tend to be long winded). Making friends, and talking to new people is what this site is all about, and I for one am not afraid to actually meet some of these people that I talk with, we have had some come by, and were going to have a party for people in the area, but Shelley came down with double pnemonia, and spent a week in the hospital, and then a week at home getting better, then I got sick, and was down for a week. We still want to have a party, but it will have to be further out in the future (God willing). Don't give up hope of finding friends out there, we would like to be your friends. Some people view the AB/DL lifestyle as a purely sexual thing though, and for us it is not that way. We are people first and foremost, the same as anyone else, and diapers and babyplay are NOT about sex at all (at least for us). I talk to others out there on the net, and when I do sex is the furthest thing from what I'm about. Just be yourself, others will relate to that, and see that you are a genuine person, a kind and caring soul who is only looking to connect with others who share this lifestyle. Vic

It is a friendly community here, sometimes we do have a few cross words (crosswords? I do them in the standard, but in pencil, not pen) but for the most part everyone here is welcome. So welcome to you, and I hope you enjoy the posts that you see here. A question though, what country did you move from, and was there a AB/DL community there? If so was it as informative as you've found this one? Vic

I don't watch the T.V. that much at all, with the exception of the news, discovery channel or FOOTBALL! From the times that I have seen the media handling AB's on T.V. I didn't want to see anymore. Hey we're people too, you don't have to make fun of people who are different than you to get a laugh. From the sound of this guy though I must say that I wouldn't mind meeting him and having him make fun of AB's then, now that would be a laugh! Hell I'd even go visit him in the hospital and ask him if he still thought we were funny. Vic

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Hi! Would like to know if anyone has seen my girl? She's got the worlds biggest smile, and I think she was in diapers. I've been looking for her everywhere, but I just can't seem to find her. She's a big girl and she likes affection, and lots of it! She doesn't like game players, she wants a long term relationship because she plays for keeps! I know she's out there, I'm just having trouble finding her. She wants a guy, oh, about 5'7", 185 lbs, brown curly hair, brown eyes, athletic in build, who can sweep hwr off her feet. If you have seen her tell her to get with me!! Thank you, Vic