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Please. Protesting isn't illegal. Freedom of speech and the right to assemble is your 1st Amendment right as an American. The morons in my town that brought baseball bats to the protest and caused property damage weren't even Trump protestors, they were an organized group of anarchists, and due to all of the video and photo evidence they got caught and thrown in jail where they belong. When Obama was elected, Trump himself tweeted that we should march on Washington to protest. Stop generalizing people you disagree with. You're forgetting they're also Americans and not the enemy.

"I mean, he knew I like diapers, he knew I had them, if he wanted to be a part he would have said something right?" Don't expect him to read your mind. He can't. When you want something, it's your job to communicate that. You're nervous because you're afraid he's not going to like it, yet he's insisting that he's okay with trying. If he was disgusted by it, pretty sure he would've already had that reaction. And if he doesn't like it that doesn't mean he's disgusted by it. You don't love all of his hobbies either, right? The best thing you can do is communicate. Have a real conversation. Diapers are a part of you... it's going to come out at some point unless you're planning on hiding for the rest of your life.

Luvs has always been the discount diaper brand, so there's not a lot of reason for P&G to innovate there. But now there's other players in the market like Kirkland and Target so who knows. I remember when Pampers made Pampers Trainers. It was right when Pull Ups came out.

Even flushable wipes aren't really flushable. There's a number of lawsuits from counties, cities, and homeowners because the "flushable" wipes clogged their sewer systems. As it turns out, it might get through your pipe to the city line, but then it gets stuck in their system and some poor wretch has to unclog it by hand. Don't do it. http://abcnews.go.com/Business/flushability-flushable-wipes-spawns-class-action-lawsuit/story?id=22759642 http://www.indystar.com/story/news/2015/03/18/indy-utility-flushable-wipes/24969705/ http://www.natlawreview.com/article/flushable-wipes-smelly-business

Marathoner here. I've worn diapers under my running shorts for runs up to 8 miles before. I make sure to use Body Glide in the places I'd expect to chafe, and I also make a point to wear plastic backed diapers. When you start to sweat, the diaper slides rather than chafing. I really haven't had any issues, other than feeling self conscious about crinkling when I pass people. A half marathon is probably doable, but you get enough chafing in a marathon and if you have to use your diaper at any point, that might not be comfortable.

I've been wearing Molicares for years and haven't had any leak problems. However, earlier this year I got a few bags where the plastic backing wasn't properly affixed on one of the sides and I was worried they might leak. I could literally stick my finger into the middle of the diaper right where one of the back flaps start. You could have the same issue.

Frequently I have dreams that I have to pee and I'll find a bathroom and go but then even after I'm done, I still have to go. Usually I wake up shortly thereafter because I really do have to pee and that seems to be the cause of the dream. When I do actually wet the bed, I don't dream about it.

Brand of diapers. Some are hotter and more conducive to sweating than others. I prefer ones that aren't plastic backed on the sides and it makes all the difference in the world.

I've gone running in Molicare Supers a number of times without any problems. Goodnites are more discreet though. I always assumed the plastic backed diapers would be better since sweatiness would cause the diapers to slide more instead of chafing. I've never done anything more active than that in diapers though.

I remember being 4 or 5 and fascinated by pictures of myself in a diaper or getting my diaper changed. I remember telling my Mom they were my favorite pictures. When I was 6 I wanted to get my hands on some diapers and asked friends to help. Around 7 I stole some baby diapers from a friends house a couple times in elementary school and I knew enough to know I should hide it from my parents and my friends. I don't remember anything bad happening, just that nobody should know. I think through the binge/purge cycles throughout my youth and thinking I was a weirdo. Then at 14 we got the internet and some point after I found alt.sex.diapers and DPF.com and slowly began the transition to acceptance. I also remember putting on those stolen diapers at 7 and getting an erection and thinking it was annoying. I didn't make the association or know anything about sex at the time. Growing up as a diaper lover, it was never sexual for me, although I'm pretty certain it is based on sexual energy. (Wanting to wear when I'm horny/Not wanting to wear after I masturbated) I remember discovering masturbation and then after when I came home from school I didn't have that pull to wear diapers anymore, I wanted to masturbate. I'm fairly thankful that I never drew the association of sex with diapers simply because it makes finding a partner easier. I don't need the fetish to get off.. it can just be something intimate that I share when the time is right.

I used to feel very similarly. When I was in high school I was extremely paranoid. I thought I'd leave on vacation with my family and somehow everyone on my block would know when I came back. It was bad. I also thought that if people knew, it would literally be the end of my world. It just seemed like it would destroy my life if friends/kids at school found out. I think that's where the source of my paranoia was coming from. Fast forward ten years. At some point during college, I stopped worrying about what other people think (friends and loved ones are a different story of course). I started loving myself instead of feeling self conscious. All the little things I used to worry about (like scars) I just accepted as a part of me. It was a process. I realized the diapers were a part of me as well, and they weren't going away, as witnessed by all the binge and purge cycles of my youth. I don't sexualize them, so thankfully not telling my partner doesn't affect my sex life. But the first time I told a girlfriend (in high school) she was amazing and took an interest and wanted to understand why I felt what I did. So I also know what a loving partner's response should be. As you get older you naturally become more confident in yourself and worry less what others think. It's comes earlier for some than others. Just remember that you're okay, that you're okay with the decisions you make, and that others should be too.

Does she know you wear diapers already? Why do you need to "convince" her to wear? You make it sound like she's already said no. Why don't you ask her, and tell her it would make you really happy?

I can remember being 3 or 4 and being fascinated with pictures of myself in diapers or getting my diaper changed. I was probably 6 or 7 when I stole a diaper from a friend who had a little brother in diapers. It felt so thick. Around the same time I played House with diapers with my cousins and I remember getting a play diaper change. (I wanted to snag those diapers so bad!) It wasn't until I was 10 that I actually went to the store and bought my own. I had a lot of independence as a kid now that I think about it.

I like the Molicare Supers. They're thin but have a lot of capacity. At some point you might find yourself in a noise vs size debate.

My point was that if you decide to do 1000 kegels one day after never doing them, those muscles are going to be tired and worn out the next day. And they'll probably be very sore. I just wonder if that would cause temporary incontinence until the muscle repairs itself.

I've been told kegel exercises can be used to help prevent or lessen incontinence by strengthening the muscles down there. So part of me is wondering, if you do way too many kegel exercises, so much that the muscles are sore and tired, (like when you go back to the gym after a long lay off) would that render you incontinent for a couple days until the muscles rebuild? Any thoughts or experiences?

I had issues with the plastic splitting from the breatheable sides. I luckily never had a leak, but there would be stuffing in the bed from where it split. Otherwise I really liked them. The absorbancy was great.

Has Molicare fixed the problems with the Supers yet? There was a design change in the last year where the plastic started breaking away from the sides in the back. I would wake up in the morning with stuffing on my bed and a gap in the diaper. I would've complained to Molicare, but their website makes that practically impossible.

I definitely don't fit the pattern you're asserting and I was wanting to get back into diapers as early as I can remember. I must've been 3 or 4 looking at the photo album and my favorite picture was always the one where I was getting my diaper changed. I wanted to go back to being a baby and getting all of the attention and love. I remember being aroused by diapers when I was 7 or 8 and not really understanding what my erection was, just that it was annoying. Otherwise diapers have never been sexual for me. 1. I May have alexithymia (http://oaq.blogspot.com/ to find out. YES or NO No. 2. I have difficulty forming intimate relationships, and finding a sexual partner - YES or NO Nope. 3. Growing up, I was very uncomfortable with being touched - YES or NO No. 4. I started masturbating at a young age - YES or NO No. I wouldn't describe 15 as young. 5. I have been mostly asexual throughout my life - YES or NO No. 6. In very traumatic or distressing situations, I become robotic, and detached, underreacting - YES or NO No.

I live in a small apartment building. There's only a handful of units. Our trash dumpster is in a back alley and there's always homeless or others searching through it for bottles. Recently they've started tearing the bags open so I keep finding my very adult sized diapers strewn about the dumpster whenever I throw something away. I can only imagine what my neighbors are wondering. There's only so many of us and I'm not particularly interested in my neighbors knowing about my diapers. I wish there were something more I could do to be discreet.

My ex and I used to refer to it as being "comfy". Are you comfy? I want to go home and get comfy. Very innocuous.

I just had the same thing happen with the last bag of Molicare Supers I purchased. I hope these companies get their quality control issues figured out. It sucks to say "It's a great product except when the stuffing is falling out the sides."

FedEx holds work well. If you use a UPS Hold For Pickup, make sure it's at a distribution center. I once had something held at a UPS store and found out because I didn't have a mailbox there, they were going to send my package back.

I definitely played house with my cousins when I was younger. I remember wanting to play "house with diapers" where I was the baby. We stole some baby diapers from a younger cousin and put them on over my pants. I remember getting such a rush out of it and wanting to bring a diaper home but I was too scared. I think I was 6 or 7.

I really like them. They're still crinkly but they vent in the sides a little so you don't get as hot in them. They can also handle a wetting or two.