Stargazer

Hey mike I've been in the shadows on your .com since 1999-2000 era. Your site has helped me be open with 2 different women. I really thought I was alone until then. But I was so concerened to do everything in secret because I loved my family so much I couldn't be myself It could have ruined their name now dad has gone so there's no one for me to feel bad about embarrassing Not so much your website but the members have helped me learn how to make The approach so now if I embarrass them they didn't love me anyways. This lifestyle for me was not a choice I was born this way And I'm just saying you sir have a Nobel cause.

I have noticed myself that if bambino would use the old green depend plastic they would be great its more crinkley but use other colors like pink and blue. Kimberly Clark company has done a wonderful job making the depend with tabs as they call it more absorbent and they are thinner KC could put more material in them and they would make it way better. They think thinner is better. In the diaper world its not they must find that happy medium of balance. Pleasing us ABDLs is got to be hard but it can be done if enough people give them insight. Like depend could also shelf their plastic they got and go back with the actual diaper sounding plastic they had in 1990s they can still mfg the diapers to be tightly wound like bambino yet they would actually sound like they were intended to. I can understand why they don't call them diapers on the package because some people have a hard time accepting wearing (diapers) because society has programmed them only babies wear diapers but hey any angel cherbum statues I've saw have cheribums and angels wearing (diapers) I guess u come In this world wearing diapers and you leave wearing diapers nothing wrong with that. Someday we will be accepted by this cold hearted world and the judgers today will be on the ABDL bandwagon tomorrow and those of us that were true to being ABDL will be able to say hey I was ABDL when it wasn't approved by the norm like there is such a thing as normal. Normal is different to each person I've been coming here since 1999 and have never participated in a survey or posted. I've always been embarrassed or shy. But a survey to improve something I can see value in that.. hopefully it gets seen by the MFGs -ABDL 34 years old