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Huggybutt
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That's an impressive stash! If you lived closer I would definitely trade a few.
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On 9/11/2023 at 12:11 PM, Little Sherri said:
I went down to the basement with my wife to collect some stuff for disposal, and some of it was on a shelf in my diaper room down there. I always dread walking in there with her, because she tends to comment on how much space they take up, or she'll say "I see they've spread to yet another shelf...", or, "What's the difference between this case of diapers, and that case of diapers - why have both?" Meanwhile, 3/4's of the basement is dedicated to storing her stuff, but, I digress.
This time, when we got into the room, she looked at the ten or so cardboard boxes and the two large totes that comprise my baby pants inventory, and she said, "I've been meaning to talk to you about something..."
I rolled my eyes internally and prepared for what I thought was coming, which would be along the lines of, "This is getting ridiculous, how many diapers do you need?!?" Instead, she said, "I know these are expensive...", which caused me to brace for impact on that topic, but then, she continued, "And if we ever have a leak in one of the pipes down here, they're going to get ruined. The next time there's a sale, do I have permission to buy you more totes, and we can get these out of cardboard boxes?"
I still suspect that consigning everything to a certain number of totes might be her way of attempting to set a ceiling on how many cases can occupy our basement at one time, but, at least she went about it pleasantly!
Interesting observation of your wife's potential way of wanting to limit you.
My recent conversation was this....
Context: we recently moved to Texas and in that 3 months time I've gotten to indulge only once.
We were sitting in the car at sonic when she made a joke about her wearing the pants in the family and I sometimes wore pants. " by the way, it seems there are some places to buy diapers around here...heck I may even think about sending you to a momma-matrix" she said.
I was taken back by the comment. The fact that even though she's as vanilla as it comes, she is still considerate of my needs. Currently treading lightly on the subject but still searching
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@kimcute321As a member here for almost 20 years I can assure you there is nothing wrong with this site other than the scammers and spam we get here.
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San antonio area within an hour or so.
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Albany here. Although I visit Plattsburgh at least once a year.
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1 hour ago, Little Sherri said:
It's a good question. I'm not currently anyone's "little", but, my spouse knows I wear diapers all the time and she puts up with it, and sometimes helps me organize my diaper stash, or she's packed diapers for me for trips, things like that, so I suppose she's "kind of" caring for me, in that way. Plus she does like 90% of the cooking and a lot of the heavy lifting with respect to our daughters' activities - she knows who needs new tights or ballet shoes, and where to get them, and I do not.
What I do in return is most of the household cleaning, the carrying and running of laundry (she sorts it), and pretty much all of the outdoor stuff like lawn and pool maintenance. But, I also recognize that we spend money on my diapers, and that it takes up some physical and psychological space in our household, so, if she's into something, I make sure that I indulge it accordingly - if she wants some kitchen gadget or she wants to crochet or decorate cakes, for example. She also loves beaches, so we do a few beach trips a year, some daytrips in the summer, a cottage rental, maybe a trip somewhere warm in the winter (Covid stomped that activity for a while). My point is, as the "cared for" person, I think it's wise to make sure that the caregiver feels cared for as well, and that they're getting their needs met so that they have the energy to meet your needs. That could be as simple as just being a good little and entertaining yourself for a while with your toys or what have you, so that they can read a book or have a phone conversation or drink a glass of wine, or, it could mean putting jeans on over your diaper and going out to detail their car, or, sending them to visit their sister in Albuquerque, or a subscription to Ferrets Monthly, or whatever their thing is.
Being an active little, you can take up a lot of time and space, and diapers cost money, so, make sure that they get theirs in return, whatever form that may take, is my advice.
Sherri it sounds like you have a pretty good dynamic with your partner. Very considerate of her needs while balanci your own. I'm in a similar situation with my wife trying to be active in my lifestyle but also considerate of her.
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I've used Tykables for a long time. Are they the most absorbent diaper on the market? No. Their focus is more on designs but for the conscious wetter, they can hold about 3-4 big wettings. The leg gathers work well, as with any diaper you need to be aware of positioning while wetting. Tykables wick moisture really well and the absorbent material doesn't separate or clump.
Hope this helps.
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Being a big Tykables fan I definitely like the refasten ability for many reasons. I just wish the hook and loop landing zone wasn't soo big.
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Has anyone had to make any sacrifices when deciding to wear 24/7? Routine or socially. Diapers can get expensive, have you had to budget for them? What's the average a month spent on them? Any tricks on stretching the dollar (like using Velcro tabs to do #2 in the toilet so you can keep wearing the same diaper)?
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Just now, 2sail2 said:
Initially when I really could start wearing around college, I would get wood right after putting on. In my mid-40s, I think I stopped getting wood once I put it on most times. I really did not do anything about it and was relatively happy to get a woody. Regardless of wood or not, pretty much every time have to satisfy the desire. I usually do get wood once I start.
How close to 24/7 do you wear?
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17 hours ago, Little Sherri said:
I still need to do my job and pay my taxes and drive around and get on airplanes and be a husband and a dad and a friend and a dog owner and everything else that I am, so, wearing baby diapers can't be a constant distraction, or else I'd be doomed.
Thank you Sherri for your response. Did you get over the worry about being noticed while carrying on with life? I hope you have a supportive family in your 24/7 lifestyle.
I've been dealing with some depression that came back after over 15 years and for the first time last night I felt the need to regress and wear a diaper to bed and it was 99% non sexual in nature. I've never been able to experience the comfort and relaxing benefits that Soo many abdl's talk about until last night. As usual wearing is difficult when you have kids so I very seldom get to experience wearing in the fullest extent.
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For those of you that wear 24/7 or close to it, incon or not and a good portion of diapers are sexual for you, how do you deal with constant arousal? I'm not trying to start a thread with graphic details on how everyone takes care of their business. Just get an understanding of the mental-physical relationship we have with diapers. I genuinely think this is something people may or may not consider when weighing the options to wear 24/7 (voluntarily).
Is it something you get used to after a while? Does the frequency of your arousal become reduced over time?
I would think there is the possibility that wearing 24/7 with the kink aspect could cause difficulty in staying focused in your day to day activities. Not to mention the group of people that experience a refractory period when "things are taken care of".
I also know people are wired differently. From past experiences , it can cause physical pain as a male.
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On 11/14/2022 at 9:14 AM, baby jamas said:
Hi they have so many footie pj options now sleepytime is having a sale. They have some at supply solutions in Albany area. You ever go there? Be fun to meet up there sometime.
Been there many times. Stopped going around the time Beth left and some of their diapers were on backorder. Managed to buy a case online from Tykables and haven't gone back since. Although I do think about impulse buying a lot because I'm sometimes impatient lol
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I think it's time I get a new set of footed pajamas. Does anyone have any suggestions? I've always wanted some from baby-pants.
https://www.baby-pants.com/jammies.php
The thicker the better I get cold easy lol
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You bring up a good point. I find that a lot of onesies are actually not made to be worn with a diaper because the crotch area is too narrow and causes the onesie to slip to one side.
Good luck on finding that style, I'm curious myself if you do.
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23 hours ago, Lillemai said:
I found a product called TensCare iTouch Sure, which apparently can stimulate the pelvic floor and muscles in that area, so that they’ll tense and eventually become stronger.
Am I the only one here thinking that a product like this, just doing the exact opposite, would change the world for those striving for incontinence and diaper dependence?
I mean.. Imagine a product that’s designed to basically unpottytrain you and make the muscles literally atrophy.
I guess this product might be able to achieve it, but it would require you to use it for extended periods to over-stress the muscles so much they’ll actually give up. Do not actually do this.
What are your thoughts?
This one is a bit different. ?
https://maustec.io/pages/edge-o-matic
Some people are extremely creative!
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4 hours ago, AwakenEvil said:
Bout sums it up... us 93, Race Fuel, and E85 guys are feeling the pain!
You run E85 or 93, or 110?
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5 minutes ago, AwakenEvil said:
I do like beer
There was a third meme about it's now cheaper to start a coke habit and walk everywhere but I couldn't find it ?
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On 3/4/2022 at 7:18 PM, Huggybutt said:
Does anyone know of a good resource for your partner to learn about what CapCon really is about (and hopefully convince them to take you). Unless one of you want to pack me in your suitcase? Lol. I know the official Capcon website used to have more information but it's all hush hush for now.
Still looking for an expanded itinerary from years past. Vacationing that exact week in july and have no idea what to do, well at least she doesn't.
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6 hours ago, Little Christine said:
Just what the world needs; six new designs of throw-aways, to add to the 500 or so that already exist, in a very small niche market, that are complex and expensive to produce, in an age where we are turning away from single-use items that cannot be readily destroyed. Please do not talk about recycling: Who wants to deal with someone else's shit -- literally?
If you can get past all of that, it might be a good idea
I get it, they are bad for the environment.... but do you think when rearz or tykables makes a new design that they are actually producing MORE diapers or are they phasing out old designs and printing them on the same ones they WOULD HAVE sold anyway? You typically wear one style diaper at a time so if it's not princesses, it's superheroes and the princess one stays on the suppliers shelf.
Until it's purchased, then your quarrel is with EVERYONE that buys disposables.
I'll step up and say I'm not environmentally perfect. But I do recycle my used motor oil and cardboard and plastics.
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Depends on if I'm cold or not. On another note I've literally never heard the term diaper suit and so I thought it was a suite made of diapers.
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Anyone repping San Antonio?
in Texas
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West side here.