I lived with my mom and grandma growing up. My mother was always very sympathetic to my wetting the bed. My grandma on the other hand scolded me for it often as I got older. I had daytime accidents often until I was 8 or 9. They usually ended with a good scolding and being grounded to my room, which was usually where it happened. I wet the bed most nights until I was 10 or so. It all started again when I was about 12 when I started wetting my underwear again. Not too long after I was back to wetting most nights and pooping in my pants. If I got caught I usually got a good scolding. I am 43 now and still do every chance I get