[Chickie nuggies]

But are they Dino Nuggies?

[Oversimplified]

Where did they want you to poop?

[Do what Disney?]

If you play with it too much, you might break it. Also, it can affect your eyesight.

[Bisex]

I am a bit old to be confused about my sexual orientation, but I am mostly asexual. I was married to a woman for 22 years and would be still if she had not died during Covid. I am also turned on by some men, but I guess I am very particular about who and what turns me on.

I mostly do kink play involving ABDL themes along with spanking and I am curious about anal play. For play, it doesn't matter to me if the partner is male or female. I am not interested in sex with women now, and I am not interested in sex with most men, but there are definite exceptions. So, gay? Bi? Confused?

[Diapers amd gay bars]

Other than gay bars, there are other organizations that exist that support kink life styles. In my area, I am active with FetLife events. Some open play nights allow all sorts of kink play, and we generally have a "Littles Table". At that table we have our stuffies, our coloring books, and wear our onesies or diapers. Generally, we also participate in other play during the night. For example, I have a kink friend who is my dom and she spanks me in my diaper. I get up on a spanking horse, and present my diapered but. She uses a wooden paddle, a strap, and a flogger to spank my butt, my legs, and my back. It is an awesome experience and the sub-space it causes me is the most relaxing feeling I have ever experienced. Then I go back to my Littles Table with my blanket and a binky and just zone out in little space.  

In the St Louis area we have at least four or five play opportunities each month for this sort of treatment. The Littles Munch and Little Scouts events are a great way to get introduced to the community and the vetting process is good. The community play events emphasize consensual play. Learn the terms RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and Dungeon Monitored events. 

I learned that by opening up to other kinks, which can also be fun, I have found opportunities for my need for diaper play.

[Diapers amd gay bars]

The next Diaper Active is 30 July 2022 at the Bullet. It is the same weekend as SummerCAP, and since I am in St Louis, I am going to SummerCAP. The next DiaperActive after this is 5 November. I expect to attend the DiaperActive that will be scheduled for January or April 2023.

There are rules on what you cannot do, and since this is in a residential area, and the bar wants to be a considerate neighbor, you come and go in street clothes. The bar and the patio get really crowded, so expect that. There is a bag check, so you come in street clothes and change into what you want to wear and check your bag.  

Also, wet diapers are ok, but NO poopy diapers. Volunteers will change your diaper with diapers provided by the sponsor (Tykables). This is generally considered a male event, however, I have trans friends who attend and I have seen women attend. 

There may be go-go dancers, and the music is always real loud, so conversations are hard to do. The bar can serve your drink in a sippy cup usually.

Also, you do not have to wait for DiaperActive to walk around the bar in a diaper. They are kink friendly, and I have attended UnderBear night wearing only a diaper and sneakers. The only comment I got was from two very large bears in jockstraps who jokingly told me that I was going straight to hell. They were great guys and I had a great time at this bar.

Support your local gay bars and coffee shops! They are great safe spaces!

[Diapers amd gay bars]

The Bullet bar in North Hollywood has a DiaperActive event four times a year. Pretty much the whole bar wears diapers, including some people who aren't into diapers. It's a good event.

[Wearing at the doctor]

I am not technically incontinent, but I do occasionally have issues when prevented from going to the bathroom (e.g. stuck in traffic, stuck on a aircraft with the fasten seatbelt sign lit, etc.).  I started wearing 24/7 about 2 years ago.  Last year was the first year I wore diapers to doctor visits, which included a urologist visit. No one mentioned a thing last year. 

I get massage therapy, and I asked the massage therapist beforehand if she had any issue with me wearing a diaper during the appointment. No issue.  Out of curtesy, I always ensure I have a clean, dry diaper at the appointment.

Today, I had a doctor's appointment, and although my doctor didn't question the diaper, this time he asked if my prostate medicine was doing its job. I told him I thought it was, and then realized that he was asking about my diaper. So I explained that I had no medical reason for wearing them. He was aware of the rare accidents, but I made it clear that I was an AB/DL and that I wore because it is a comfort thing. He said it wasn't hurting anything and if it relieved stress then ok. I think he was particularly understanding because he knows I am still dealing with losing my wife last year from illness. 

Regardless, it isn't a big deal. medical professionals see a lot of stuff, and this doesn't get them too worked up. While I agree it isn't good to inflict our kink on others, I don't see this as the same. I wear these 24/7 and I am not going to stop. When I see a medical professional, or a massage therapist, or go to the gym, I will be discrete, respectful, and still be who I am.

[Anyone try a binky instead of a CPAP?]

I have used one with my CPAP when my mask only covered my nose. It helped me to breathe through the nose instead of through my mouth and it did stop the snoring. I also would wake without the dried mouth I used to get. However, I did switch to a mask that covers my mouth and that has been better all around. No snoring.

[Bathroom while in diaper]

Yes, I am 24/7 but I rarely poop my diaper. It is too much of a hassle most days, and it would be very difficult when I am at work.

[Colonoscopy prep]

Yes. I am not a fan of poopy diapers, but I am less of a fan of poopy PJs. So they are on for protection, but I use the toilet and change diapers when I get an unexpected leak (it happens). 

I have gone to 24/7 with my diapers, so I show up for the colonoscopy in a diaper, but I take it off when I change into the hospital gown. I have my diaper bag with me for afterwards, and I put a new diaper on afterwards.

[Your MOS]

I was a USAF Civil Engineer. I served in rapid runway repair, disaster preparedness, operations officer, and did a stint in Air Force acquisition.

[What was your accomodation like?]

Officer school was two to a room. Usually, I had a room to myself or one room mate when I went TDY. I once went to RAF Fairford and they only had a family suite available for me. I had two large beds and a crib in my room. I slept in all of them.

[Which Branch were you in?]

I did 25 years as a reservist in the Air Force (National Guard and then USAFR). Now retired. I loved it.

[Slow going]

I use a CPAP for sleep apnea. My nighttime O2 would drop to the low 80s to high 70s at night. I went on the CPAP and I maintain normal O2 through the night and no headaches. I also no longer look like a vampire.

[Weigh in]

OMG, me too! I usually weigh about 4 lbs different without the diaper. To be fair, the diaper is soaked, so it may not be just the mess. 

[Did any of y'all identify as a adult baby when y'all were 8 or 9 years old?]

At 7 or 8 years old, I envied babies and wanted to be one. It was years later that it became ABDL.

[Acorn TV Heart Guy (Doctor Doctor) episode]

16 hours ago, babypb said:

...so she probably got her job back after see the principal like this, LOL.

She got her job back. But she didn't reveal his secret and didn't even threaten to. Her mother-in-law intimated that she knew the secret to the principal, but it was a bluff. She didn't know what the teacher saw, but she knew the teacher knew something.

The teacher got her job back on appeal and the principal quit in protest to being overridden by the council. All in all, it wasn't bad. He looked a bit silly. She laughed a bit when she saw him but tried her hardest to be respectful.

To me, it was a little awkward because my wife hates my interest in diapers but tolerates it. When this showed up on the show, she gave me a look. I laughed and pointed out that I never had a playpen.

[Acorn TV Heart Guy (Doctor Doctor) episode]

I just watched an episode of The Heart Guy with the wife. In Season 2, Episode 6, there is a scene where the school principal who fired a teacher gets a surprise visit from the teacher at his home. She hoped to get her job back, but she interrupted his little time.

[Diapers: Which Brand Are You Wearing Right Now?]

On 4/24/2020 at 3:54 PM, Andrew54 said:

What about discarding your wet diaper/s how do you hide them from your wife?


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We each have our own bathrooms, and she NEVER does the trash.  In her defense, she has some health issues that preclude her from doing that sort of work. The ironic thing is, she wears pads for urinary incontinence and she knows I sometimes have issues (prostate issues), but she hates the idea of actual diapers. So I take her pads out when I take my diapers out.

[Diapers: Which Brand Are You Wearing Right Now?]

Right now I am not at home, but at a second property we have. I am with my wife and she hates my attachment to diapers. However, I am wearing discretely and she isn't getting pissed. But at the moment I am wearing a Walgreen's Certainty taped diaper and disposable LivDry pullup diaper with a Gary PUL Plastic Pant overtop.  It works okay, and so far, no leaks that were detectable by the wife. At night I wear the LivDry pullup under my PJs and my better half has not noticed. I hate being sneaky, but I hate not wearing. Tomorrow I will have some MegaMax diapers again and that will be a welcome relief.

[Working from home]

I have been working from home for the past two weeks. It is nice to wake up and start working after a diaper change. I don't bother getting out of my sleeper most days.

[The Progressive Babyman is back...]

"This song is so played out." 

LOL

[Diapers: Which Brand Are You Wearing Right Now?]

ABU Space diapers tonight.

[Favorite time and place to poop your diaper?]

I generally avoid pooping. I really not as fond of the mud flood as I used to be. However, on cold mornings, I tend to delay getting up. Occasionally, this results in an accident in my diaper if I wait too long.

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