WeaselDiaperBoy

I have been patted down a few times, and once had to go to a private area and show them the diaper. My partner has had this happen when he flies as well. It really is no big deal. We have an ABDL friend that works at TSA. He says it happens often enough no one cares.

Same

I like clean or wet. I don't mind messy, as long as I am not looking at actual fecal matter. A lumpy diaper where one is free to assume it is messy is fine.

I went 24/7 about 4 years ago. I rarely mess in my diapers since it involves more work than I care for. I recommend that you protect your skin. Rashes are a pain to get rid of. I told my urologist and my primary care physician that I was doing this as a choice, not because of any medical issue. I didn't want them trying to cure a nonproblem. Outside of that, I have been fortunate to mostly work from home or work in my own office. The gym was tricky, but it is only a big deal if you make it one.

There are so many good disposables on the market today. I love Trest for their absorbency, and the throwback white color. I have also done their other colors. I love my new Potty Monsters from Tykables. ABUs, REARZ, Bambinos, and from the medical side, North Shore MegaMax all work well. Try out a few and see how well they work.

I'll be there along with quite a few of our COVID LockDown Zoom groups (Diaperbois/Boston Babies, SoCal, and Melbourne). I look forward to meeting folks from this forum.

Is it possible that the fact that you barely fit in the Goodnites and probably had space in the Assurance could be related to the leakage? It may have to do with the tightness of fit and the ability to leak around a looser fit diaper. I'm just asking because I am curious. I wear regular disposable diapers 24/7 because I have never been satisfied with diaper pants, and also, Hey I'm ABDL.

I just wanted to share some thoughts on being myself while juggling the rest of my life. I've been open about it with my family, best friends, and folks in the local kink scene. They've been awesome about it, and it's been great to be me without holding back. But, when it comes to work and the outside world, I keep it private. Not because I'm not proud of who I am, but let's be real, not everyone gets it, and I don't want it messing with my job or how people see me professionally. I've never been much for needing approval of my life choices, but it feels good to not have to hide with the people who matter most to me. I'm not the only one walking this tightrope between personal truths and professional life. It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can be true to yourself with the people who get you while keeping things private where it counts. So, to anyone out there figuring out how to balance their life, you're not alone. It's all about doing what's best for you and finding the people who support you no matter what.

I once went 24 hours in a dirty diaper. The rash that followed sucked. My worst experience was when I delayed changing until after mowing the lawn. The heat, the friction, and the mess combined to create a rash that was bloody, and took weeks to eliminate.

If you don't waddle like a duck, it's not thick enough.

Ahh, the blissful life of the self-owned.🤣

This purge sucks. I plan to resubscribe to the content providers who I was subscribed to. I cancelled all of my Patreon subscriptions today and deleted my account. F... Patreon.

I just wear the diaper under the sheet. Sometimes I have a plain medical style diaper, other times it is an AB/DL style, but the therapist keeps the sheet over the diaper, so they don't really have to look at it.

I go to Massage Envy routinely and I wear 24/7. It's no big deal. I informed my first massage therapist before we started, but in the last two years, I stopped bothering with it. It's underwear. I make it a point to be clean and dry before the appointment starts. No one has ever raised it as an issue. It is no different from going to a doctor appointment. I try not to impose on the therapist, but they are professionals, and I am not their only diapered client.

Old Maslow and his dog. This was a joke in one of my classes while in the military. We were learning about the hierarchy, and while discussing it in the cafeteria line, one of the cafeteria workers mentioned that he remembered learning about "Old Maslow and his dog." We commented that eventually, when you ring the bell, the dog self-actualized.

It's an aesthetic thing, and I personally don't dislike a chain link fence. The home developers build a subdivision and they create a covenant that seeks to preserve a "look" and everyone who buys a house in the subdivision is required to sign the covenant as a condition of sale. The covenant is perpetual, and imposes a requirement that all sellers must pass on the same covenant. The covenant is on file with the county, so any change is rolled into the covenant on file. The covenant creates a board of directors elected by the homeowners, and they can hold homeowner meetings to change things, but changes are slow to occur and if we end up with idiots on the board, we could have a troop of enforcement zealots running amok. Like I said, our HOA is currently run by a reasonable group who appreciate keeping things simple and not going nuts with rules.

If you don't waddle like a duck, it's not thick enough.

I live in an HOA community, and fortunately, we have adults with a sense of perspective running the HOA. There are few things that they enforce but mostly dealing with the aesthetics of fences. I replaced my fence two years ago and had to submit the plans for their approval. If they didn't get back to me in 14 days, it was considered approved. The HOA president sent me the list of fence rules (no chain link, no higher than 6 feet, must have a gap between pickets, etc.). I was replacing the old fence with an identical fence. No big deal. I have heard of nightmare HOAs that require that you get approval for paint color on houses, and anything else in the yard. It's ridiculous what some people think they have a right to dictate.

Since 2019 I went 24/7. I refer to my condition as recreationally incontinent. I have control, but not as much as I had in the past. I wear diapers and use them mostly for wetting. I could stop wearing if I chose, but I am enjoying this.

I made reference to this event in a few posts, so I decided to just post it. Here is the LINK. This Munch occurs on the first Wednesdays of every month in the city of St Louis. It is fun, and I have met a number of great people this way. STL3 is the organization that has the facility and allows this event to occur there. STL3 is a non-profit organization. Any donations go toward the operating expenses of the facility. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Description Usually, the littles much has been very friendly, talkative, and fun. Sometimes we get a little loud. Sometimes we stop, go around and do introductions. We want you to have fun and meet friends. People have praised the event for being very laid back and not a meat market. If you don't know anyone or need an introductions to some folks, just ask the hosts (we will probably be the ones hollering hello at you when you enter) Paul or Brandy. If someone is not taking your hints or making you uncomfortable, please find us and let us know about the situation. No bdsm implements/equipment. Please be considerate to those that have sensory issues including scent sensitivity. No photography without consent. If you have cannot resolve a problem or issue, please see the hosts. You can bring coloring, games, and other fun activities, snacks and drinks (either for yourself or to share). There is a vending machine (cash only) on site. There is also a fridge That dispenses and ice. Please bring a cup or water bottle. We are here with the support of the Gateway Alternative Lifestyle Center (GALC). In this space we can be ourselves without worrying about other patrons. However, we do ask that you please donate a few dollars if you're able to to the GALC to help pay rent, AC/heat, and lights. We are supportive of ageplayers, Bigs, Littles, Middles, Daddy/Mommy/Boy/Girl and Ageplayers without dynamics and other ageplay folks. We also welcome people who are interested or curious about ageplay. Please note, the GALC door is sometimes difficult to find. You'll want to look for the address, in the middle of the block, across the street from a dumpster. The double metal door is the one that you're looking for at the far end of the parking lot. There should be a couple trees and really bright lights by it.

The STL3 group hosts a Munch at their facility on the 1st Wednesday of every month. Look on Fet Life for details about the event. We generally have anywhere from 15 - 30 people at the event. It is free, although donations are encouraged. It goes from 6-9 and we color, play games, or just talk. I am one of the older people there, but you can find plenty of people in your age group. We also do the occasional Saturday play day at the location. We are laid back and accepting.

Yes, there is. We have an active group in St Louis that meets monthly at a property run by the St Louis kink community organization, STL3. I also know of at least a few ABDLs in the Normal and Peoria area. Don't forget to check out CAPCON in Chicago. Last year over 1500 were registered attendees. Registration started yesterday, and is currently "sold out", but there will be more tickets released in the coming months. The event is at the end of February. Set up a Fet Life account to see who is nearby and into diapers.

What would you expect them to say if they caught you. I wear 24/7. I have never been embarrassed when "caught". No one but you knows why you wear. So don't sweat it.

I got this on my hip for my birthday this year. I plan to have a matching pin on the other side.