I agree with Dangitbawb. Zity.biz is an excellent site, and allows the posting of classified ads, and searches by location, gender, and age. However, most of its members are med-fet people, and the diaper section is not as large. But it seems to be growing, and even has a section for "messy and poopy." If more of us joined, I believe it has the potential to become a serious meeting site for our community.