sarah_ab

Since i've moved out of my mothers house, and not including a few stints of being homeless and living on friends couches, i've always lived alone. At university i had single rooms, and both of my apartments it has been just me. I very much enjoy it. I can have people over whenever i want, no need to clear it with roomates, or family. I can also lock the door, turn off the phone and just be alone, if anyone stops over, i just dont answer the door if i dont want to. As for the loneliness, tis true, at times you feel lonely, but then again, i've found that even when surrounded by friends you can still feel lonely. The only problem i really have with living alone, theres no one to blame but myself for the dishes in the sink and the towels on the floor of the bathroom. Good luck in your new place!!

Hi, so, i've been reading the posts here. I guess i just felt the need to add my two cents. I think that perhaps for some people their desire, their need to be an ab at times could stem from some childhood trama. A feeling of wanting to be cared for, loved, protected are all essential needs in a child, and those who are denied these needs, often seek them out later in life, in whatever form they can. For some this means becoming an ab at times. However, it is important to rememeber that for a great many of ab's and mommies and daddies out there, this is a sexual fetish. It is a form of submission for the ab, of domination for the 'parent.' It is about relinquishing control to someone else. For these ab's, while it may also help them fill an emotional void of knowing someone cares for them and they are safe with this person, it also fills the physical sexual need as well. It is also important to remember that for a lot of those who enjoy this activity, it is simply that, an acitivity, a role play, to be engaged in on occasion, but it is not by any means their lifestyle, many do not want to be an ab all the time, for they lead full and engaging adult lives, and could not fathom the two intertwining. I guess its just important to remember that there are essentially those who find this a sexual fetish and those who find it a way to soothe past hurts. Either way, i dont think it is possible to know the exact reason why any one of us enjoys what we do, just that we enjoy it and it is not harming anyone else. You can accept who you are, without ever having to know the reasonings behind it. Sometimes, things just are the way they are....

People who do ecstacy (X, E, etc..) and other forms of speed will chew on pacifiers to keep from grinding their teeth while (forgive the lack of proper drug terminology here) rolling. However, because of many rappers and other popular artists wearing them in videos for a while a few years ago it became popular for people to wear a pacifier around their necks at all times, and sometimes chew on it even if they were not rolling. Just another possiblity.

Hey! I'm a relatively new ab, in the southern nh area (pretty close to the mass border). I've got info on my profile here so if you want to know more please check that out. It also includes contact info via yahoo. Feel free to drop me a line.