[Cat Always Moving Water Bowl - Any Suggestions]

I am a cat person. Two cats own me. They cannot be trained because they are smarter than we are. Just give up and enjoy life with your cat.

i have to disagree, i had a cat that i trained to get out of the kitchen and go into the living room on command, broke her of jumping up to hang on door frames, and to basically do what i say when i said it, she was a very smart cat, unfortunately she is missing right now*punches hole in a cinderblock wall*

[Work]

I can try to go for unemployment but the issue with that is my last job (im using him as a major reference) (Being in the architectural field). I am affraid that if i file for umeployment he will give me a bad reference as he will be paying for all of the unemployment money........ SO i am nervous to file......

nervous or not, you need something, those bills aint paying themselves, and if you have any kids its even more important to go ahead and file

[Work]

are you able to file for unemployment? or are you in a country that doesnt have that aide?

[How To Cope With Anxiety?]

a pill pushing quack(psychiatrist) tried to put me on seroquel, but id sooner flush that crap down the toilet, one thing that might help your anxiety is self defense training, im a first degree black belt and when i get spooked i can remind myself that if i have to react, i can, and i look for ways to stay away from others as much as possible, the best advice i could give is what we did in class every session, at the beginning and end of the lessons, meditate, breathe in all the way through your nose, exhale slowly through your mouth and picture yourself somewhere else, a beach maybe. you might try having someone you trust with you when you go out, if that person feels safe, it can help you to feel more relaxed instead of nervous.

[Life Stinks]

there is no such thing as temporary SSI/SSDI. there is no such thing as federal 'short term' disability... The definition states you have to be unable to work for 12 continuous months of your disability will result in death. However, many states have temporary medical assistance for people....

again ssa.gov/disability actually has everything on there that I have to abide by. All the rules/regulations etc... its public knowledge... course believe me i understand how complicated it can be!

well they put me on something, some kind of 6 month thing, i dont remember the exact term. i might have gotten what they put my mom on wrong, she had some kind of disability thing from the hospital(she is a registered nurse who worked in an open heart unit, now she is a travel nurse).

i looked on that site, couldnt find any answer, and what mainly has me confused is on the reporting responsibility, it said anything of value, but i dont know what counts, for example, if i feel the need to buy a gun, do i have to report that? once in a while i get an order for a woodworking piece(not very common, the last thing i was asked to make was a storage bench which i sold for 150, and that was at the end of last year, and my last order before that was sold in april of 2008 i think, maybe a few months before that, it was a cradle), will care about small and infrequent ammounts like that?

[Life Stinks]

it will be hard to qualify for SSI if u are under 50... but if you have questions about the process you can aske me.. its what i do for a living...

as for legal action, if u have exhausted your FMLA and are an at will or right to work state, there does not have to be a job for you to come back to.. regardless of when you became ill

you work in ssi? i have some questions about ssdi ive been wanting to find out about.

it only took about 4 months for me to get put on a temporary ssdi thing, waiting 6 months for a permanent descision, so WBDaddy it might not take as long for you because you have a serious cardiac issue. my mother had temporary disability after her open heart bypass and it didnt take long for her, you might be put on it sooner than you think

[Bullying]

ive had to deal with bullies almost all the time in school, death threats almost every day in high school, the only real way to make a bully leave you alone is to make them afraid to mess with you, ive had to kick and drop bullies when they grabbed me, one tried to hold me down by the neck, and he paid for that act with an elbow to his nuts(and kept saing the rest of hte day "your gonna die"), one kid tried to throw me over his shoulder, and solved that issue for a number of years with that one by a full arm swinging hammerfist to the top of his head(dont do that, you could kill, i didnt kill but it can happen), and he laughed but in a way that showed he couldnt believe how much it hurt, i asked him sarcastically "got a headache?" and he said "you mean do i have a head!", one bully knew a teacher was nearby thinking that would keep me from retaliating, and he snapped his fingers in my face to send a message of "i can do what i want and you cant do anything about it", and i responded with a non connecting roundhouse kick to the shin, to send a message of my own, teacher fussed at me a bit, never got in trouble, i later had to kick him in the nuts but that bully waited a while to mess with me again.

a bully only understands one thing, pain, if you speak the international language of asswhoop clearly enough, he will understand that he better back off, and he there is a problem in translation, it can be cleared up by a refresher course(nutshots teach it very well, my favorite way to educate them.

for those that are having problem with bullies, take my advice, get in a martial arts class and let it build you up mentally and physically, it makes it tougher for bullies to get to you, and when you have had enough and feel tough enough, surprise the bully with a lesson of asswhoop(dont tell that you are in a class, its your little secret), and always keep a pocket recorder or even a pencam on you, record what bullies are doing, then if you tell its no longer a matter of "your word against mine", and if you keep it backed up and it doesnt stop you can use it to sue the parents and the school for not settling the bully down.

if a bully threatens you, dont believe their threats, go ahead and tell and tell how they threatened you, and if you have the recordings that helps too, they can actually be arrested for threats/bullying if i understand it right, the stuff a bully does has been illegal for some time.

[May Get To Wear More Often]

ohh but my real question.. what exactly does neck pain have to do with you getting wear diapers more often??

if the pain in the neck is related to the accident, it could cause some incontinence, its a matter of the nerves i think, but that is a matter for his doctor

[Migraine Relief]

ive read that an over the counter sleep aid called melatonin can help with migraines, and when a friend of the family gets something like that, she likes to have something massaging her neck like a can or a rolling pin

[Test]

never got my activation/validation email or whatever its called, thought i would see if maybe i would be able to post here, see if it works