Jump to content
LL Medico Diapers and More Bambino Diapers - ABDL Diaper Store

NewMommy2

Members
  • Posts

    47
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Posts posted by NewMommy2

  1. I agree with Darkfinn, honesty is better sooner rather than later. You keeping this to yourself will start to eat you up more and more the more you keep it in, and the closer you get to saying "I do". It will be hard at first, but like BettyPooh said, guys take it a lot better than girls do. For some reason, we girls are more judgemental than guys. It sucks, but it is true. Good luck!

  2. Any couples in the DFW area available the weekend of July 20th for a get together? Let me know and we can set something up for bowling, movie or something!

    • Like 1
  3. leesee, as a 'mommy' to someone that is a diaper lover, I can see where you are confilicted. But he really needs to understand your side of things. To be open with you was hard for him and I understand that. But you have feelings too and deserve to be heard. If he cannot respect your side of the issue then it is not worth continuing. The relationship has to be 50/50 give and take. You have been very patient and accepting, and him telling you was not easy. But he has to respect your feelings and concerns as well. Communication is the key to every relationship, especially in one that involves this lifestyle. Feel free to PM me if you just want to chat.

  4. I have talked to a lot of you couples out there but still have not had a chance to get together with any of you. Are any of you couples still interested in getting together for dinner or drinks?

  5. Hi Cookiemonstersmommy!

    Welcome! My bf and I have been chatting with cookiemonster cause we live in the same area. Glad you finally decided to join. If you ever want to chat, just send me a pm.

    NewMommy2

  6. You need to be completely up front and discuss your concerns with him. There are plenty of couples out there that have children and maintain the ABDL lifestyle. i completley understand the whole not wanting to be a "mommy" to someone, but I have learned that I actually like it. My boyfriend is the one who introduced me to this lifestyle and he never thought that he would like to be on the other end, but has found that he does like chaging diapys. I don't wear often, only when I drink too much or if I want him to be the grown up and not me for once. The good thing is that you have tried it for him, tried to understand it. I have a hard time just going pee pee, and messy diapers are not tolerated. If he does get busy and has a messy diapy, he takes a shower and cleans himself. I will put a diapy on him afterwards.

    Hope this helps a little, if you want to chat more, feel free to message me!

    • Like 1
  7. Well, ok, any DFW people out there looking to meet new friends, not going to be someone elses mommy cause I have my one and only baby. But we like to get out and socialize, SoakedinTexas and I don't bite, promise. :D

  8. confusedmommy, you are starting to get a good response. If you two talked and he actually listened, that is a good start, let's hope he keeps that up and not just a one time thing. Make sure you keep pushing your wants and desires on him so he can give back. I know it may be hard sometimes, the whole feelings thing, but you have feelings just as much and he has to repect you as well.

    Send me a message anytime if you want to chat!

  9. CautiousMommy,

    I became a mommy in May 2011, I know how difficult it is to understand at first. And just like some of the other replys, it is very important to talk constantly, he will tell you what he wants. But it is also important to take it slow. I have found for us, that the best thing in the world is the 50/50 give and take that we have. I know that if he expected me to be mommy 24/7, I would not still be here with him. We talk all the time about everything, both of our needs, mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually, etc., and he not only listens (or pretends to listen) but he also responds.

    I love this site and have gotten very good information from it. There is no one in my life that I can discuss this lifestyle with, so I come here a lot. I also chat with other mommies to get ideas and advice too. Feel free to pm me if you would like to chat.

    NewMommy2

×
×
  • Create New...