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    in Incontinent-Desires

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    first off congratulations on your achievement.

    I have a couple diaper recommendations as for trest they are very good and hold a lot also little for big offers a good diaper. the northshore brand tends to fit too big on me.

     

    with me having urge, stress, overflow and oab i will be following along with you progress.

     

    I would look into getting Protec briefs for nighttime, they are like shorts with a leak proof outer shell and absorbent inside. 

    Overactive bladder confusion and frustration

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    On 9/16/2020 at 9:18 AM, PrincessPaci said:

    Hey all!

     

     

     

    First off, sorry I don’t post too much. I thought I would be more active on this site, but after work is over, I like to get away from screens.

     

     

     

    Second off, I’m not entirely sure if this post belongs here, or if it should be moved.  

     

     

     

    Okay, now that all that is out of the way…

     

     

     

    I am confused on what I want with my diapered life. For some background, I have always loved diapers. It wasn’t until I was a little older that I liked dressing up in cute girly clothes, but the diapers have been a consistent desire in my life for as long as I can remember.

     

     

     

    When I was a teenager, I started having bladder spasms and I would also have to go to the bathroom between every class in high school, but since it didn’t cause an issue, I never paid much attention to it. Once I got a job, I went to the doctor because I realized it isn’t normal to have to pee every hour or two. I got diagnosed with overactive bladder. I also had a few tests done to rule out anything else, but I was good. Just overactive bladder (OAB).

     

     

     

    My symptoms for OAB are either:

     

    •          I get a feeling that I have to pee instantly and I am at a breaking point almost every 15-30 minutes. I will then have a full-on normal pee and it’ll be crystal clear. This is a little less often, but still annoying when it happens.

       

    •          I feel like I have to pee very badly, rush to the bathroom, just have a few dribbles and I’m good.

       

    •          I feel a spasm that makes me feel like I should pee. It isn’t painful, but it is…weird.

       

    •          I have horrible anxiety about my health, so please do not give me any ideas on what to worry about regarding my symptoms. I have recently been to my doctor, my bloodwork came back fine (include my kidney function) and everything else appears to be in good working order. Thank you!

       

     

     

    That being said, my OAB gives me a lot of anxiety because I can never tell if I had to pee a lot, or if it is a “ghost pee.” My anxiety also makes all my OAB symptoms worse haha.

     

     

     

    At the time I got diagnosed with OAB, diapers 24/7 was not an option for me because I was young and full of pride, even though I was in to diapers. I tried some different medicines, but they made it so it was almost impossible to pee, which was a very scary feeling. I ended up just having to change my habits (watch what I drink, when I drink it, Kegel workouts, and always go to the bathroom at any chance I had). Also, I would like to point out that my OAB symptoms are not constant. They come and go. Some days I will have a normal working bladder, others I will be in the bathroom peeing way too often.

     

     

     

    A few years later, I got diagnosed with IBS. Once I got that diagnosis, I decided to swallow my pride and try Depends just to give me some piece of mind. This gave me much more security and I ended up just wearing Depends any time I left the house, even when my IBS wasn’t acting up. I kept wearing because it eased my anxiety when it came to my OAB. I have worn Depends any time I leave the house for about three years now. While I still always try and hold my bladder when I wear Depends (because they are Depends after all), I see them as a “you got a few more seconds” buffer, which eases my mind a bit and is better than having no protection. That is great, but I feel like I want more security in general.

     

     

     

    I also want more security at home. Just yesterday I had an accident in a Zoom meeting. I wasn’t wearing a diaper or any padding, but ended up having to change into a diaper after that to be safe. I am sick of rushing to the bathroom when trying to play games, or in the middle of eating, before I do a task that should take just a few minutes, or doing the potty dance while trying to finish a work project. Sometimes I just want to be able to relax my bladder and let it empty whenever.

     

     

     

    So sounds pretty cut and dry, right? Just give up control and start wearing all the time. Well, it isn’t. I’ll admit, I have thought about the idea of being incontinent as a sexual fantasy before, but any time I thought about the practicality of it I go, “No thank you. That seems hard.” I am typically a pretty active person and I can’t see wearing anything beyond a Depend on 20-30 mile bike rides, at the beach, on a rough hike, jogging, and so on. Also just wearing Depends only when I go out for the last 3 years has kind of put me off of HAVING to wear something even more time consuming/noticeable when I do anything. I know people can do it, but it sounds miserable to me. Kudos to those that are able to do it, whether willingly or out of necessity! I want the ability to wear and let go when I want.

     

     

     

    “Well just do that then, ya dingus!”

     

     

     

    I tried to wear and relax for about a week once when my OAB started getting really bad, and it took a few days for me to really get my bladder under control again. I got used to dribbling pee out, and when I tried to go out of diapers, I was going pee maybe every 45 minutes for a few days after (at least that is what it seemed like). It was a hassle. I didn’t mind it while I was diapered because I wasn’t stressed about running to the bathroom. I actually had a lot of peace of mind during that week. But I feel like if I got into a habit of doing that when I had the time to, I wouldn’t be incontinent, but I wouldn’t be able to stay away from a bathroom for long during the times where diapers aren’t an option in my book. I’d need to wear diapers in a sense, but would probably be able to make do with something smaller when I am doing something a diaper wouldn’t be good for.  

     

     

     

    Another factor is my relationship. I live with my girlfriend, who is very supportive and understanding, but this isn’t her thing. She is nice enough to let me wear on “bad bladder days” and occasionally lets me dress up and do little stuff, long as she isn’t always involved. I am very grateful for this. She had also been super supportive and understanding on why I wear Depends when I leave the house. She’s great overall, and I am very fortunate to have her.

     

     

     

    We have talked a few times about the idea of me going into diapers 24/7 (because the key to a healthy relationship is communication!) but she isn’t keen on the idea. She understands the Depends when I leave, or wearing thick diapers at home when my bladder is acting up, but since she knows I can usually get to the bathroom at home she doesn’t want diapers to be an all day, every day thing. I totally get it, and I don’t thin I want it to be 24/7, either for the reasons I listed above.  But I feel selfish for sometimes wanting more so I’m not uncomfortable in regards to my OAB.

     

     

     

    All I know is that I want to not have to worry or stress about my OAB anymore. Does this mean wearing more? Maybe 24/7? Or does it mean getting to a point where I feel like I don’t NEED diapers and I only wear when I’m feeling little?

     

     

     

    So yeah. I’m not entirely sure what kind of route I want to go down with my diapered life. I am interest to hear what your experiences have shown. Is 24/7 something that would be better in the long run for dealing with OAB? Is there some other middle ground that isn’t 24/7 any of you have found that has helped ease your hassles with your OAB? Should I focus on doing more Kegels to try and just make it better overall (I feel like Kegels make it harder to hold pee after doing them, though, which is why I avoid it most of the time)? What has helped you most?

     

     

     

    Sorry for the wall of text! I hope you all have a great day and I appreciate you reading this far and for any insights you may have!

     

     

     

    I had similar issues after a slip and fall, the doctors couldn't find anything wrong that was directly leading to the OAB/urge. I strugled with it for quite some time before I decided to go 24/7. this made everything in life much easier, no more worrying where the nearest bathroom was or weather I was going to make it in time. I started with pullups then proceeded into diapers, at first I was conserned others would notice but no-one has ever mentioned a word.

     

    if you choose to go down this road keep in mind that you should also get some washable diaper covers. they help prevent those pesky litle leaks

    Going to the doctors diapered

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    I had to go to a doctor for a dot physical last year and I was wearing my diaper. the doctor asked about it and I told her I have been having issues with uncontroled re-lease and that I cant hold it very long. which is the truth. she asked if I have been looked at for a cause and I had basic test done. I was offerd meds to try but I don't like taking medication so I choose to wear protection

     

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