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    A Little Help For A New Mommy

    in Mommies and Daddies

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    I don't know if this applies to you but the one thing that i always found helpful was an open engagement with each other. Meaning, that you should always be willing to talk about it with him. In fact, if he is anything like me, you should be the one to bring it up sometimes. My issue was that i'm extremely nervous talking about these things but when i'm actively engaged with conversations about diapers or whatever, then i don't have that desire to retreat. That's actually part of the reason why i joined this site lol.

    But really, i'd think it would help if you kept in engaged with it if he is the nervous type. If not, disregard this post :)

    How Did You Start?

    in Baby Talk

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    It's hard to know when exactly it started because my desired to be diapered was something that seemed rooted in me at a young age. I don't even remember my potty training and I don't even remember wearing a diaper. It was such a non-event in my life. At the age of 5 though there was a small relapse where i had wet the bed and was put back into pull ups for the night. It was kind of stupid anyway and didn't even last a full week. Actually i remember thinking it was kind of cool to be wearing them. The event passed and nothing came up again until i was in my early teens. Now to understand my predicament you have to understand that there was an event that occurred when i was around 8 that caused me to have night terror esque incidents although i was fully awake.

    What got me through those nights though was regressing in a way. It wasn't acting like a baby at night or anything, it really just fantasizing. Honestly i don't even know how i got to that conclusion that wearing diapers and acting like a baby would even appeal to me except for the brief history i had with them before. I still thought it was kinda cool, maybe novel if anything else because even then i never could remember my potty training. Anyway, diapers, babyhood became a coping mechanism. Eventually i didn't need it anymore and i forgot about it. Years later puberty starts to hit and my dreams take a rather... padded turn. That was probably my first real clue, the second was just the desire hitting me. Eventually i started looking online to find exactly what it was. I mean i felt as if i were a freak but when i found others like me i realized that i wasn't.

    Not too long after though i told my mom which would set a new course in my life. She rejected me in a way and sent me to therapy to talk about it. Angry, Sad, and depressed, I repressed my AB/DL side as much as i could. Eventually i gave up, I couldn't take it anymore. I couldn't deny something that was was part of me that made me happy and didn't hurt anyone else. I started looking online again and eventually got met my fiance whom after quite a bit of squirming i told her about this side of me. She accepted it immediately and has been the foundation in which i lean against for support on these matters. Now a days i'm just trying to tell her all things i'd like to do that would make me feel babyish. It's hard to say everything because there is still a part of me that rejects this side. Plus there is the societal pressure on males in general and my parents expectations. I try not to let them get to me but i'm only human.

    Maybe This Is Why More Of Us Are Guys

    in Diaper Lovers

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    Or it could be that the vast number of creepers and HNGs within the community have just scared real girls away. People use us as fap fodder and talk to us like we are a piece of meat. We are people too!

    It could be. Some sites i've visited that allowed comments on AB/DL related material *coughyoutubecough* always have the same like three or four times. Type 1. That is so cute! Type 2. Will you be my Baby/Daddy/Mommy etc. Type 3. I'M WET CHANGE ME NOW K?! Type 4. Ewwww you people are freaks!

    Type 1 is cool, Type 2 is eye rolling worthy but seemingly harmless although it can lead to Type 3. which is full on degrading to everyone. Type 4. Is just... you know.

    Now i never understood the Type 2 and Type 3 crowd. You are never going to get the person to do whatever it is you want to do if you don't build some sort of relationship with them. It's like walking up to an actor after a play and asking them if you could bone them or whatever. Of course you are going to strike out. The other thing is the chances are stupidly low that your going to get a chance to be with these people anyway so why make yourself look like an ass in the process? With that said if all you want is fap fodder, then it is also extremely counter intuitive to be mean and vulgar to your suppliers. Saying asinine things only degrades themselves and the community as a whole. </end mini rant>

    This Is True Friendship

    in Our Lifestyle Discussion

    Posted

    Well I was certainly fooled. I thought it was a potty too but now i see it is a racoon and i feel extremely silly! XD

    Ok, I have a special animal as well. Three actually. One that is almost as old as I am. A stuffed bunny that i simply call Bun Bun and the other which my fiance/mommy gave me who is named Emily who is also a rabbit. Both are really cute. The third one belongs to her who she has had for awhile who she named Dave, once again... also a bunny. Although this one she thought it would be cool to give it piercings and all sorts of other coolness so the bunny really looks "hardcore" It is still really cute tho

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