Peanut-head

I like daily diapers as well-- real people grounded in reality with a genuine interest on keeping non-ABDLs comfortable by not forcing our lifestyle on them

I've notices this too with abena recently-- one if the reasons I switched to dry 24/7

Thanks so much for your tips! I'm going to get some women's shaving cream at the store and take a long bath BEFORE shaving this time instead of after. Thanks!

For those of you that shave your private area, what razor do you use? I am using an automatic body hair trimmer but I am getting irritation and ingrown hairs-- I think I am shaving too close. Maybe I need to use an attachment, or use a manual razor? Any advice from those of you that shave with sensitive skin on how to avoid ingrown hairs (boils) and red bumps in the days that follow? Thanks!

Other than my girlfriend (who is now my wife-- just married yay!) i would say no-- I can see how that would be erotic but at the same time I want to keep my private life separate-- especially from work. Maybe if I was on vacation and would never see the person again maybe but in general life no for me

I suppose so-- i mean that's the essence of the "golden rule" --sometimes seeing something in real life makes me feel less alone and so I guess I jump to conclusions too quickly without taking the "who cares" approach

Well I did not and will not bring it up to her or anyone else outside of this site so I don't consider it "snooping"-- and I'm not "looking for other evidence" as others suggested. I probably won't see her again for a very long time. We were in her city and so for a few hours we hung out at her apartment-- I have only seen her a few times in my entire life. I'm not forcing my lifestyle on her or living in a "fantasy land" --it was a curious sighting in the real world I thought would be interesting to the group.

That is an awesome idea!

I like abena boosters for stutters-no plastic backing so u do not have to poke any holes! http://www.xpmedical.com/abrilet.html

What do you mean?

I was visiting my cousin last week, who is in her mid 30s, and happened to sit down on the bed. I heard tand felt the unmistakeable crinkle of a plastic sheet-- it had to be directly under the fitted sheet with no pad in between. I don't live close by to her so I never knew if she had a bedwetting problem growing up but why else would she have a plastic sheet on her bed? I did not mention it to her and pretended I knew nothing-- she seemed totally relaxed even when I was sitting on the bed. No kids are In her house and she is single. I will respect her privacy and not say anything about it. Did anyone else ever notice a plastic sheet or a diaper at a friend or relative house unexpectedly?

Wow! do you mean she would openly suck her thumb or bottle in public? Or just is open by telling everyone about it but keeping it in private? Either way she is super brave!

Hi!! Going away for 2 weeks to a tropical paradise--what are the diaper configurations y'all use around the beach/ pool? Cloth with plastic pants ? But won't that be soggy once I get out of the ocean or pool just once? And not to mention washing the pee out of them will be a pain But then disposables will break apart in the ocean right? Once they become oversaturated I don't want to risk them losing pulp.. I'd like to not have to keep running back anddorth to the room so using something that can last most of the day is preferable-- any thoughts? oh ps This is for wetting only Thanks!!!!

Well I would say don't freak out-- u said u bought her diapers before how did that come about..u Must have had a conversation about it. Is she a bedwetter? Because u know she might have just been curious to know if there are other bedwetters that have a need to wear diapers and googled it and came here without really being "into" the diapers. That said if she is an ABDL the best advice I can offer is to give her privacy and don't confrot her about it. She must be really comfortable with u to have asked u to buy her diapers even if it was just a prank..she must really love and respect u ..I would not want to let thus get in the way of your relationship with her. There are ALL different areas of the spectrum with this ABDL "fetish" like "im curious and find it humerous because i hearrd or saw it on tv" or "this is my sexual fetish I like to role-play with my wife/husband" or "I just like how they feel on me and wear occasionally" or "I wear 24/7 for non sexual reasons" it really is a whole bunch of different people with different reasons on here and we all have different reasons we wear or are curious about diapers. Only she can tell u why she likes them and what she does with them in her life but I wouldn't push the issue

I have tried it in the past but for me the fear of being discovered outweighs the pleasure-- I would just be too devastated if someone found out.

Ok so I'm ready to try cloth diapers again-- the last time I did I had such a hard time with the pins I ended up with bloody fingers. What is the best place to buy from, abuniverse? Are the pull on or all in one just as effective as the pun on?

Saw a promo and made a mental note to tape it !

I LOVE dry 24 7!!! I wish I could marry it! I wear one with an insert at night and just a plain one during the day!! They are awesome!!

In that case maybe concentrate on the absolute THICKEST you can make it. Head and shoulders above the rest. One that is thick even when dry unlike bambino. Make a name for itself on the market.. When someone asks what is the thickest diaper? The answer is this one! I think if it is hands down the thickest that will set apart from any other competition and abdls will want it whether it's pink, blue, purple, or white. Diversify the colors and prints later, start out basic with a mission statement to make the THICKEST MOST ABSORBANT diaper ever known to mankind.

Hiya! Where are you located?

White with some tasteful graphic additions

I would definitely try it but would be more excited by a white one with boyish prints on it, like the goodnites. If it was all blue probably not as much. The plastic backing would have to be white because blue plastic would remind me if a chuck

1) never enough! oh yeah it would especially if it had absorbency on the sides 2) I wouldn't wear pink! I prefer plain white only 3) if it rocks I'd sell anything that wasn't nailed down to buy it. Price of a dry 24x7 or even a little above. Random idea: A boxer brief style but it is as thick as a dry 24 7 all the way around even on the sides? Could be pull on or tape all the way down te side rather than 2 fasteners.

I agree it was totally in your head. Course if u r nervous u can come up with a well crafted cover story as babytara suggested..have a list in hand and ask loudly for a receipt as soon as they ring up the diapers as if them touching it reminds u of it... I did this one time and the lady actually said "of course, I didn't think they were for you" and smiled. I smiled back and said "no no"

I would try positioning the diaper under your stomach rather than up over. Get it as high in the crotch as u can and pull up over the bulg on the inside of each thigh. When taping it, pull it tight but let your stomach hang over the diaper -- like don't try to pull it straight across let it ride down in front.