Is there a good way to minimize the waddle when wearing larger diapers (abena x-plus, dry 24/7, etc)? I've noticed I tend to be almost unable to walk normally while wearing them. Also, I notice that sometimes my fit is a bit off with diapers leading to the tapes being difficult to place in a position where they won't snap off after wetting them for a bit. Am I going with a size too large? I have 35" hips so I usually go for a medium size but they tend not to be quite as snug as I would like them to be.