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Hi everyone it has been a very long time since I’ve posted a topic here so I have some new questions to ask you all and i hope you all can help me out with this.
My first question, i just purchased a very naughty 😈 toy today and i can’t wait to receive it 🥰🥰🥰, i purchased a vibrator from Amazon it looks pretty good 😍😍so i am very very excited for it too arrive and hopefully it will help me have a huge sticky accident in diapers and some time in my underwear 🩲 (i hope the explosion is not too messy 😋😋😋) here what I purchased https://www.aliexpress.com/i/1005005009491342.html
My second question is, i want to buys some new diapers online so i am thinking of trying out some megamax diapers the website that i was thinking of using to buy is healthwick.ca but i never tried them before so i was wondering if any of you ever purchased stuff from them and your opinion about them.
Ps: Oh i forgot to mention something in my first question, the vibrator has like 10 mode to use at the moment it will be my first time using this to make me pump out a big load in my undies and diapers are there any tips you guys can give me like how long do i need to wait before i need to change the mode or anything else can anyone give me some tips please???
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On 6/16/2023 at 8:42 AM, kerm said:
Ever had a spicy poo 🌶 while in a diaper?
Oh lord😅😅, I can’t remember how many times i had spicy poo in diapers it very explosive 🧨 when you push it out it is very fun 🤩 but when you decide to explode it in your diaper while sitting down 🪑 let just say it starts to be fun but after you done it get pretty spicy 🌶️🥵🥵 hot 🥵 on your butt 😅😅😅 if you know what i mean 😅😅😆😆 ?????
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For me Rearz is my favourite place to order, i have order from amazon and ABU but rearz have a good variety of diapers to choose from i order some last week however there more babyish but they where having a April sale so i took advantage of that sale and order a big case of it.
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Well that a interesting topic my adventure started with some store brand diapers and oh boy they hold a lot hiding them was ease for me I hid them in my drawer a open pack and the rest I put them in my closet but after a while they discontinued them so i try out other brands in the store for a while then I started to order them online now Rearz are my favourite brand now.
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I also like medical role play i do want a very sexy busty nurse to watch me wet and mess my diaper then changing me half way after she finish putting the final diaper tape i lie on my belly then i start to hump my diaper until i blow i nice sticky load in it😈😈😈 then i pee myself to rinse my cream of then she with a smile on her face she prepare a other clean diaper for me 🥰🥰🥰.
Also she can take my pressure with my inflatable beachball undies
and i can enjoy her nice busty figure once i am fully inflated😈😈😈
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8 hours ago, tiger2014 said:
If they send you a picture of themselves, be very cautious as most of the time these pictures are stolen, ask them to send you a picture and state something like "hold a carrot in the air" and ask for that picture, as you have initiated the photo, if they refuse then it could be a scam, i found my girl friend using this exact process, and ask questions about where they supposedly come from. If you find out they are scamming you, play along and give fake information and pictures, so to waste their time, my fake persona to the scammers is prince william and even have a photo licence made up.
Well i ask them to send a picture of themselves in a swimsuit and will never got any.
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I think you should contact the admin of the forum brian and tell him or her to pin your topic as a warning so that other can be careful and watch out for scammers i hope i am not being wrong ???
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35 minutes ago, ~Brian~ said:
agreed! Part of the problem is these people think that they can get away with almost anything! the first thing is they know that they have have people by the diaper pins, because there are people that want the services that these mommies or Daddy say they can provide. the problem here is is that 90% of the people that say they can provide these services are not able to provide the services, and they try to see if they can get away with making it sound like or look like they can provide the services that they do. you end up following one of these so called Mommy's, And the first thing that they'll do is they'll end up asking you to go and and talk to them on Instagram or tick tock or any other type of communication medium, And that would be away from daily diapers, and that would be something I would not want to do under any circumstances.
Second, most of the people that are trying to get information from you are trying to get your financial Information, or to get information about you in some way! the problem that I have with some of these idiots is that they try to make it sound like it will be like being a club med, but unfortunately what usually happens is someone finds out that they're not who they say they are, and they want a mommy or daddy so bad, that they end up looking all over the place, and they don't find a legit one, but there's so many people that come on to daily diapers or any other site and they try to make it sound like they are an angel in disguise, And that can also be let down to people who are expecting to have something happen that won't. This is gets really hard, because these people that say their mommies or Daddies, they know that they're trying to get people to respond, so the first thing that they will do is they will start messaging you or talking to you and making you feel like they're the answer to your prayers, when 90% of the time what they're trying to do is get something out of you, or make you feel like they are needed, and that they will take care of you. they'll take care of you Alright, if you let them get ahold of your financial information, they'll zap out your bank account in a matter of moments! Then they'll leave you high and dry, and your dream will be dead, because you won't have any money left, or they'll have your identifying information which will allow them to perform identity theft against you.
I agree with you: do not give anyone any information that would allow a perspective Mommy or Daddy Faker, to use that information to find you, Because if that happens, they will have information about your location, as well as any information that they can use to identify you offline. one of my main rules is I have certain individuals who I trust, who I've had a long standing relationship with, and those individuals would not pull the type of stuff that these people do, they are who they say they are, they tell it the way it is, and they're not out to get someone. A fake Mommy or Daddy is only out to get money from you or to make you feel bad because they're getting you at your low point rather than trying to help you, and let me tell you they'll help you out of your money, but they won't help you in any other way, then after they end up sucking you dry, then you're a dead duck, and you have hundreds of things that you have to do to fix any mistakes or any problems that happen because you allow a person to do these type of dishonest tactics.
If someone is really legitimate, you'd be able to determine that After awhile, you would be able to know whether someone is telling you the truth or not, and that comes with a lot of time and with a lot of patience understanding and everything else. someone who joins within 15 minutes, and then starts messaging everybody on daily diapers, saying stuff like:
"are you a baby?"
" do you wear diapers"
" anything that they can find out the answer to by looking at your profile"
" anything that tells you that they are willing to help you make your dreams come true, and then tell you that it will cost you money"
" any messages that come across a status messages to one or more individuals, telling someone that they are a Mommy or a daddy looking for a baby or significant other to help turn into a baby or to help their dreams come true"
" any direct request for any money or identification information that would help perspective Mommy's or Daddy's identify you, in such a way that they could take advantage of you Financially or any other way"
" any direct request to conduct business away from daily diapers, the server or the safety of the online community"
" any situation where, mommy identifies you, says they are Mommy or a daddy, And then the next thing that they ask you is about questions about yourself, And then a user would respond and ask them questions, which would caused the person asking the questions to doubt the veracity or the legitimacy of the person's claim"
" any situation where you doubt the veracity of the claim of the individual saying that they are a Mommy or Daddy should be investigated, And if you feel that it is not legit, then there are ways to be able to check it, but to be honest, 90% of the individuals who are telling us that they are legit most likely are not. People that are in the community know when they are legit and when they are not, especially if they are legit mommies that have been a member of the community for many years."
Everybody should be on the watch and be prepared for someone to ask you those questions! we might not be able to stop everyone from asking list these questions or doing the types of things that I have no talked about, but Most likely, If you catch any of these little triggers, you can probably determine who is legit and who is not, And if something is not legit, or sounds too good to be true, it usually is, and I would hate to have somebody end up getting suckered because they fall victim to somebody's scheme to try to defraud! if a person is legit professional Mommy or a daddy, there are ways to determine that, especially if they have a legit website and they actually are well known in the community. please do not fall victim to the quick and fast answer which is that they want the service so bad that they're not being careful and protecting their own interest! I would hate to see someone get hurt because of stuff like this, it happens way too often, and I personally have had friends that have gotten scammed because of this!
Thanks! and you're welcome!
Brian
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I agree with you as well brian there are a lot of people that got scam from something like this but there are some people that are smarter than the scammers and can spot a scam from a mile away and as i mention before scammer are getting smarter and everyone must be very careful and very cautions plus don't give them any information where you live.
I also want to point out two scams that two scammers try with me it a gifts card scam the first one was a mommy told me to get a gift card for her XBOX console however the card she requested was a steam card and not a xbox card i was beyond confuse so i search online if a steam card work on xbox and surprise surprise it was a big fat NO!!! this is one scam everyone need to watch out for, the second one is more tricky i have ask a mommy for some picture of herself however she send me a pic and a message saying that her camera was not working well on the pic it said "the camera needed a itune card to update it" well something like that anyway that one is also a scam like the steam card i did some digging online and fond out it a scam also, so that the only exemples i can give you guys so watch out.
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51 minutes ago, ~Brian~ said:
Good Morning All:
This morning I am writing with an important announcement and a warning!
In the past week I have been noticing that a lot of these users that are joining our community are purporting to be "mommy's and daddies" Or caregivers, or whatever it is that they say they are. 90% of the time, they are not who they say they are, and they try to scam you into believing that they are what they are purporting to be.
Usually what happens is there someone who will come on as a user. I don't mind people signing on as a member of the community, and I don't mind meeting new friends, or learning about new people, because that's how we'll get to know people and make friends. Making friends is the most important thing that you can do while you are on a particular online service, but you have to also realize that there are tons of people out there that try to take advantage of our community, because we are somehow looking for what they are trying to say that they can provide. I'm going to tell you that most of the time these people are wrong, because they think they can provide something that they cannot, or they say they are somebody that they are not.
How can you tell that? that that is easy! the sing that I'd look for is to see what type of a person they are. You can easily tell the people that are trying to make friends real fast, and they're not even making real friends, they're just making message requests within of joining on. You'll end up having someone who will join let's say at I am, And by 10:15 they've already sent 10 messages to a whole bunch of people, And then the next thing you know you end up with either status messages or private messages to individuals on the system. 90% of the time, these people are not legit Mommies or Daddies, and they're just looking for a way to get your attention, and they're trying to play to your emotions, because they know that you or are looking for a particular service.
i've been a member here for almost four years, and I've seen a close friend of mine get suckered in by someone who is claiming to be a Mommy or a daddy wannabe, and that individual ended up getting scammed. there's one thing that I can't stand about stuff like this, is that a friend of mine got scammed, so I'm warning everybody: when somebody sends you a message please be careful, please please please be careful!
How do they do this:?: The easiest way they do this is to become a member here, And within a matter of minutes, they send out messages to individuals saying that they are Mommy's or Daddy's, and they're looking for babies or individuals that they would like to baby or take care of. Apparently, There are individuals who are looking for services like this, so these people know that there is a way to get people to bite, because people would be would be interested in supposed services.
The next thing that they would do is they would take a look at all of our profiles. The diapers: section of our profile or they're looking for that we are an AB/DL, and if they see that in our profile, then they would probably send us a message that asks us a simple question: they want to know do you wear diapers? Most people who are incontinent 24/7, where diapers because of need or because they feel that it is appropriate to do so, but they use that information to try to sucker you into believing that they are who they say they are.
Once a message like this is sent and actually responded to, Then there may be a small time when they talk about things and get to know you, and then they usually drop a bombshell by telling you that they need to have you pay them some money, or they want you to go offline to some other type of communication medium off of daily diapers. this is a direct red flag in my opinion, because anybody who wants you to talk to them off of either the chat system or off of the forms usually wants information from you that is more than just talk, And then the next thing you know, a person will be asking you for information, and it will probably culminate in someone asking for your financial information!
this is where I give you the warning! under no circumstances should anybody give any information about your financial condition or your financial information to any one online! there are way too many ways that you can be scammed or taken advantage of, and this is not appropriate nor is it legit!
I am sure there are many professional mommies and Daddies out there, way that they do things, And if they're legitimate, they would probably be charging you upwards of $1000 a day, And most of them are quite expensive. For what you probably get from these professionals, it would be it would be well worth the money that you spend, but most of the time in my opinion it's the people that can afford to pay thousands of dollars a day to get the type of services that they want, so they try to go and ask somebody else to provide them in the service for less. you can also tell if somebody is not legitimate because of the fact that they make it sound too good to be true, and when you ask them specific questions they do not know the answers, or they seem to be less legit.
So everyone: please be careful! There are many individuals around here that are looking for Mommy's or Daddies. I'm sure there's everyone who wants to be babied or taken care of by a mother or father figure that is playing the role, and they want the full immersion, or whatever they're asking for, but 90% of the time this would cost a lot of money,, which is normal, because most times it would not be legit based on what these people do. if they're legitimate, they have rules and regulations, and they have their own information and their own standards, and there are certain things that real mommies and Daddies will do things that they do not do! You have to be you have to be sure that the person that you are contracting with is legit, And if you find the legit Mommy or Daddy, then you probably will be OK, but you have to be careful, because fly by night operations such as users that come on, we'll try to say that their mom is or Daddy's, when most times they are not.
I would also like to state that while I understand that there are people that want this type of service, that you still have to be careful: I would hate to have somebody get scammed by someone else, claiming to be something that they are not!
So as I said: most of the time, the people that I have noticed that don't sound legit or are pulling a scam, are those type of individuals who will immediately come on as a user on DD, And then within a matter of moments, they will start either following a bunch of individuals, or they'll start looking at profiles. they will then send status messages, or they will go further and private message a whole bunch of people. this is a dead giveaway that there's something not right right off the bat! if someone was legitimate, they wouldn't have to do this, because they would be able to back up whatever they say they are, and there would not be questions such as: do you wear diapers, are you a baby, et cetera!
The 2nd way there will get your attention is that they will go to your profile and look at all of your profile and then send you messages. Professional Mommy's know exactly what they're doing, And they've been doing it long enough so they don't have to ask questions like that. The things that I see is based on someone looking at our profile and then and then asking questions based based on what they see! if a person was legit professional Mommy, they wouldn't have to ask if we were diapers, they wouldn't have to ask if we were AB or DL, and they wouldn't have to ask if we're incontinent and that is a comma because it would already be in our profile, but even if all of that information was in our profile, which doesn't bother me, it's just the fact that people will take that information and will ask questions right away, which to me is a dead giveaway that the person is not who they say they claim to be.
WARNING: Please DO NOT FALL FOR THIS! There are many individuals who are looking for Mommy's or Daddy's or companions com, and they think that they will find their special somebody or their companion, and that is basically what people are looking for. If someone finds their companion online, it usually happens the way a dating relationship occurs, which means you meet the person or you get to know the person, and then time goes time goes by and you end up learning more and more about the individual, they learn about you when everything else. If you find your soul mate or friend or whatever online, because there's something like this, that's awesome! many people find their companion online, but with all of the stuff that happens, you have to be careful! there are way too many individuals who would try to take advantage of needy individuals who are looking for a Mommy or a daddy, and you have to be able to know the difference between something that is true or believable, or something that is fallacy or false.
I really do not want to see any of my friends get suckered in like this! it is one thing to find a professional mommy, and find out how they do things are all about them, and you have a contractual relationship with an individual who is willing to provide certain services, within certain guidelines within their own rule sets, and based on what they are willing to do versus what they are not willing to do! if you have a Professional Mommy, there are standards that are set, and everybody knows exactly what is to be expected, and how things work usually before you even get to a contractual relationship. The good thing about a professional Mommy is that they will tell you exactly what they expect, and you can tell them what you expect, and that's a good thing, because if it's already in writing, people usually understand right off the bat what they will get for whatever money they pay. Professional Mommy's take pride in what they do, and they will usually immerse you fully into what you want them to do within reason, so you get the full idea of how it feels to be treated the way you want to be treated, And when they do it, it is real all the way down the line.
People that are playing Mommy or Daddy, in the sense that they want you to be their baby, and they are not legitimate You can usually tell right away. as I said, it's usually a message right off the bat, or Something that is too good to be true! 90 percent of the time what you see is not what you get, and unfortunately there are people out there that want to try to scam you and make you lose your money or give you an experience that you don't want to repeat! if you are dealing with a professional Mommy, usually they will tell you exactly what the heck is going on, they will tell you what they expect, they usually have a website, or they usually tell you information that will check it out Allow you to know whether it's true or false. even if they sound legit, you still have to be careful, but please do not just automatically assume that because someone becomes a Mommy on a system within 5 minutes of signing on that they are a Mommy or a daddy! that is where people end up getting scammed: they make a good play for you, and they'll play the game, making you believe that they are who they say there, then they will end up bringing you off the system, or asking you for money! This is a dead giveaway because if a person can't give you information about how they're going to do things, then it makes it hard for those who think that it's legit, and therefore most of the time it's not legit.
If anyone sees any of this type of activity, they should report it to daily diapers administration immediately! the administrators will determine whether something is legit, or whether it is not. They will also make a determination whether they believe that rules have been broken, and therefore they may end up BANNING individuals who play the game, try to, to try to trick us into believing that they are who they say they are.
If you have who you believe to be a legitimate Mommy ask, asking the proper questions and knowing what to ask and how to ask it will usually tell you in your mind whether something is legitimate or not. If for some reason you think something is not legitimate, stay the heck away from it, and if you think it is not legit, please report it to Mikey, or his administration team. We want to make sure that daily diapers remains a place where we feel safe comfortable and able to let our hair down, rather than to be a place where somebody can try to scam us, because they want to tug at our heartstrings, because they know what we're looking for, the love and companionship of somebody else, or somebody that will be will be willing to treat us the way we want to be treated!
NOTE: Also, I want to let people know that I have had people tell me that they are thankful for my help and advice. I have no problem giving my help, and I have no problem giving my advice, based on information that is given me. my advice is free, And I don't charge for it, nor would I end up trying to scam someone or try to tell them something is not what it is. I call it as I see it! I also want to let people know, that even though I have heard from many individuals that I am very helpful, I have had specific requests from some individuals, who are asking me what do you say to help them find a Mommy or a daddy or a caregiver!
I cannot do this! This is simply because I am not in a position to know the difference between someone who is legit and someone who is not! this is not to say that I'm unable to determine whether something is legit or not, but I would rather not try to help someone find appropriate companionship this way. If you meet someone online, then it might be a bit different, but I am not in the habit of helping people find professional Mommy Daddy or caregiver services, nor would I do this, because that is not my cup of tea, and I am not in the know when it comes to this! please understand, I do not want to have someone get scammed simply because of my advice, so I i'm letting everyone know right now, that I will not provide this type of advice, only that they be careful when they're looking for Mommy services or Daddy Services or caregiver services, because there are so many supposed services out there, and I am and I am not able to determine legitimate from non legitimate, unless I am fully aware of a particular profession professional that is a member here!
Thank you! we now return to our regularly scheduled program!
Brian
Thank you for putting this topic up Brian i almost fell from 6 scammers already from diapermates the one thing i am worry about is some of this scammers are getting pretty smarter than before i want to add if i could that they must not repeat "MUST NOT !!!!" tell them where you live because sometimes they might take more than your money when they come and see you, sorry if i am being to harsh there are way to tell if someone is about to scamming you, i notice a few right a way myself but there are some info online you can look up because some scams are pretty tricky to spot.
Anyway my point is be very careful and caution about scammers that my two cents i can add to this topic i hope i help the your topic a little brian ????
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17 minutes ago, rusty pins said:
I'd run (or waddle) from her and try to curb your urges until you find a better opportunity sometime in the future with someone who is upfront about everything right from the start. I am DL and not AB but have read a lot on some forums on different sites and usually a person will be up front about being a Dom Mommy for adult babies and will state everything and be open about it. Just sounds too risky.
You won't need to worry about that i haven't told her or what ever that person is where i live so i am safe plus i told a little white lie about how much i can afford for the service. I have meet or should i say chatted with a female dom in the past i believe her name was "astrodomina" i have ask her before how much a full day would cost me she said it will cost around $2000 plus i have to pay for her plane ticket and her hotel so it almost around $3000 i never manage to hire her because of the price however this dom was real and she can do wet and dirty diaper and make me explode as well i still follow her on twitter and i got some of her videos.
Oops i got carried away sorry about that guys anyway back on topic when i ask that fake pro mommy dom her rates well i knew something was a little off but still i though to myself that maybe she just starting her businesses and she does not know how much to charge but after what you guys said well i think i will forget about her or what ever she is and move on.
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16 minutes ago, Snugglebear_69 said:
That sounds very, very suspicious to me. Professional Dommes/Doms know what their prices are for specific services and time frames. When was the last time you saw a professional like a lawyer, plumber, accountant, etc., ask you how much you can afford?
There are also soooo many more factors that come into play in terms of cost other than time. Is the care at your location or hers? Who is providing props and materials? Hard limits. Desired type of care. Etc. Is she asking payment in advance? Have you been able to verify her with any current or former clients? Is she known in her local kink community.
To protect yourself I'd be doing some more digging and verifying as asking a client what they can afford throws up red flags to me.
Hmmmmm....?? i new something was off if i am not mistaken Professional Dommes/Doms charge around $1000 or $2000 for a full day am i correct ???
As for the props and materials well i supply the diapers, wipes, and the naughty toy (i have ask her about if she can make me orgasm in my diaper and she said yes) because i already have some stuff she can use on me and i already told her all my limits.
As for the advance yes she is ask me about the advance she asking for a $100 deposit for a reservation and the $50 deposit for the ABDL Agreement she was pushing me to pay the $100 deposit before the arrange time.
Well look like i fond a other red flag.
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Hey everyone i have a update about the professional Mommy Dom i told you guys about well a manage to ask her how much she charges for her services this is what she said "How many minutes will I stay with you" and "How much will I stay with you" so i ask her how much she charges for a full day and she told me "How much do you think you can afford for me for full day" so i ask her can i pay her $500 for a full day and the she said "Done deal baby" is it normal to make a payment agreement like this with a professional Mommy Dom has anyone had this kind of a deal with a mommy dom ????
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2 hours ago, rusty pins said:
That is a given and the first thing I would do before going any further! Ask her all the questions you have in mind. Definitely what she charges and for how long. Make sure you tell her exactly what you are looking for. If you are not into spankings or being tied to the bedposts while in soaking diapers, make that clear. Make sure she is willing to change a poopy diaper if that is what you want and if she charges extra for it. Set the guidelines first and make sure she is OK with that. I would even go as far as writing them all out, the do's and don't in a contract and have you and her both sign it. She may not like it, but after all, in legal terms she has a business, you are a customer paying her for services so a signed contract is for your protection.
There are some people out there who just enjoy being a mommy and others who make money at it. If you go about it as it being their business that you are willing to pay for, it's not unreasonable for them to ask for $50 up front as a deposit. I would expect that some people may be all hot and heavy for a mommy session and getting their diapers changed in the heat of the moment and then at the last minute get cold feet and not show up. If you agree to buy a piece of furniture off of Facebook marketplace, let them know you will be there in 4 days to pick it up, it's only right for the seller to ask for a deposit. They may turn down 3 or 4 other offers because you had agreed to buy it and if you back out, they are entitled to keep the deposit. Just go at it as being OK with the possibility of losing $50 if it does turn out to be a scam, she cancels at the last minute or keeps making excuses for putting it off until you finally quit contacting her. Basically, "I'll take a gamble for $50 and if I lose, well, it's only $50 and worth at least a try".
As far as the sex, it's one thing to actively have sex, intercourse, oral sex, whatever. That would be an agreed upon service. I would think that if you cum in your diaper, that could be unpredictable depending on how excited an individual gets during a diaper change (being wiped clean, ointment rubbed on, etc.). Both parties could figure it will most likely happen, but maybe not intentional or planned like the mommy rubbing the penis vigorously until you cum.
As for uploading the picture, open it up in PAINT (I use the old window's 7 version which should be available in your windows accessory programs) and just shrink it down to a size that you can upload. Lots of times I have to resize it from 100 down to 25 to be able to send or upload it somewhere.
My advice? I say go for it if that is what you want, but be careful and protect yourself. Trade a lot of emails back and forth until you feel comfortable that this person will not beat you over the head, steal your money and leave you somewhere for dead. Establish parameters well in advance, think about a signed contract including spelling out the terms of cost and payment. You don't want your session to end only to find she is demanding twice as much as you had agreed upon because, "I also did this and that for you which wasn't agreed to". That would be akin to someone agreeing to cut the dead limbs from you tree for 25 cents per limb, but then counting every branch and twig as a limb costing you hundreds of dollars.
I do agree with you Rustypin I can take a chance besides I hear that escorts also do this they always ask for some deposit for sessions with their clients because sometimes they clients are a no show for around $50 dollars or $100 dollars.
Anyway back on topic I think I smell something very fishy about this mommy dom.
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1 hour ago, Snugglebear_69 said:
Orgasm would be considered sexual and can be part of what defines the line crossing over into prostitution services under the law. Exact parameters will vary by country, state, province, etc. so best to know for your location. Ontario, living here, would define BDSM services that include orgasm as the solicitation of prostitution under the law.
Well like I said “it doesn’t hurt to ask” if she says no then it’s no simple as that, besides I still need to ask her what kind of services she offers and her rates so i need to know more about her and everything she does.
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31 minutes ago, Snugglebear_69 said:
Depends on the Domme. BDSM doesn't inherently default to sex. There are quite a few Mommy Dommes who do not provide physical sexual services which would include orgasms. That's often why they have clients complete a form. Nothing in their ad that you referenced would lead me to think their services include sexual activities which depending where you live could cross the line into prostitution. It's one reason a lot of professional Dommes and Doms don't cross the line into sex.
I don’t want any sex at all but I can ask her if I can release my naughty load i don’t think it will hurt to ask her at least.
39 minutes ago, warpiper said:This sounds like a scam to me. I'd not send any money at all until you've negotiated the terms of your relationship whether it's for her business or what. Do not just give 50 bucks unless she is telling you what 50 bucks gets you.
I won’t pay her yet until I know more what she’s offer so don’t worry ?.
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I see ??? i could ask her more questions to see how she much charges and also if there are things that I can do and things I can’t do with her, what kind of services do mommy dom provide like in her ad she interested in Disposable Diapers, Cloth Diapers, Plastic Pants, Baby Bottles, Baby Food, Wetting, Messing, Changing Others, Spanking, BDSM, Watersports I wonder do mommy dom make their ABDL cum there diapers or is it a huge No No ????
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7 minutes ago, Snugglebear_69 said:
Often professional Mommies that you pay for will ask you to complete forms to ensure you get tge experience you are paying to have. Mommies who are looking for a partner vs a client usually are not asking people to fill out forms.
Really huh I didn’t know that ??? well now you mention it she did ask for $50 dollars for the form is that normal????
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32 minutes ago, Apache Raccoon said:
Yay
I'm curios, why do you want to know if we've met this person?
Well i saw her ad on diapermates and i was curious about her plus she the closes mommy i could find, so i have been talking to her for a bit and she made a nursery for her ABDL she looking for i wan to upload the pic she send me but the size of the pic is to big to up load, anyway she sound legit then she ask me to fill out a ABDL Form what i want to know is has any of you ever fill out a ABDL form to meet a ABDL Mommy ????
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13 minutes ago, Apache Raccoon said:
No but I'm not from Canada or America.
Well that alright.
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Hey everyone I have a unique question for you all there this mommy on diapermates this is her profile https://diapermates.com/profile/MommyKathy Has anyone met her before in person????
ps i hope i posted this in the right place.
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1 hour ago, vvp39 said:
If the scammers ever learn to spell correctly and use proper English in their blurbs we'll have to be more careful to avoid them....
That is so true ??I notice that she did made a few mistakes when she was chatting with me, well I do sometimes do it as well ? but i try to take the time to correct my mistakes when chatting with someone and we’ll it take me a little bit more time to finish my first sentence and the other that chat me finished his or her fifth sentences ????. I am not a very fast writer so I try my best to write fast enough.
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10 hours ago, FretaBWet said:
@adam4landryI don’t think it’s accurate calling her a scammer. She’s not trying to get your personal information. She’s just hitting you up for payment for talking to you. It doesn’t really matter whether you’re a gamer on a gaming site or ABDL on a dating site or any other activity. That’s the reason her last statement was you’ll always be alone. She was angry you wouldn’t pay her to keep you company online. What she really is is a prostitute without the sex. People like her that reel you in and then ask for money or gifts are nothing but digital prostitutes. There may be some real women on this dating site but they will be interested in YOU and want to talk. The moment they ask for something is the moment you know they don’t care about you, just your money and what you can do for them.
Hugs,
Freta
Digital prostitute ?i never hear of something like that before, now as for personal well the only thing she ask was about me my parents and where i live that all, also the way i though that she was a scammer is what she ask like i said on my first post.
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25 minutes ago, Alyeskabird said:
The gift card thing is a common scam, thats fur sure. Anyone tells you to send them money via a steam card or shit like that, its allmost allways a scam. On the other hand, there are also a lot of people that do what is termed 'financial domination' aka, you pay them and they act like a dom/mommy to you. Its basicly using a diferent name for basicly being a paid dom/mommy. It is posable the person just wanted you to pay to be your mommy or something simular.
Still from what the OP is saying, it sounds more like she was using being female and a gamer as a hook to scam money out of him. She got pissy about him refusing to try and get him to be angry with her, so that if he reported her, she could claim that he was just mad that she was not doing what he wanted or simular bs.
As a side note, I have to agree with Rusty Pins, the type he was talking about def need a feet first intruduction to a wood chipper. Sorry, I feel a bit strongly about that, as I have known a few older folks have basicly lost there lives do to stuff like that.
Well I have heard about “financial domination” some people like to have that kind of relationship but I am not into that kind thing.
And as for her to try and make me angry ? well I believe it or not i am not a violent person so the only thing I did was stop chatting with her it the only thing I could do.
As for what Rusty Pins said well like i said i am not a violent person but in this case I will make a exception also I know a lot of people fall for scam but in cases like this you have to be very careful and cautious that my advice.
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5 minutes ago, spark said:
I don't even answer the phone when I see it. I just block and report
Well that works too.
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