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Hi again, I will report on my success and hopefully be an inspiration to others. I broke the news to my husband one evening that I wanted him to try diapers at night. It came out of the blue, and he didn't know how to react other than looking at me like a deer cought in headlights. I explained in a calm way that I was losing my sleep over his frequent running to the bathroom at night, and that this couldn't go on. Either he would go with my plan or we would have to move into seperate bedrooms. I know how much he loves sleeping with me in the family bed, so this was a strong argument in our case. We are a loving, tender couple that have always slept close together, and either of us will not get much sleep on the occasional night we sleep apart. Spooning is a key word. Me in front and him hugging from behind offering an arm for me to sleep on. While he was considering the options I took his hand and guided him into the bedroom and told him to undress and lay down on the bed. I sat down by his side and asked him if he would do me a great favour and try my idea. I told him he could change his mind after a trial run of one week, but that would mean seperate bedrooms. He looked at me with puppy eyes and a slight blush, but without a word comming out of his mouth. I moved into action with a smile on my face, started to rub his privates with some baby oil and eventually powder before I got the diaper out. He was just moaning at the sight of the thing, but reacted as told when I asked him to lift his butt. I slid the diaper underneath, pulled the front up between his legs and over his now erect penis, and closed the velcros nice and tight around his waist. He is still a slim guy with a 32'' waist so the fit was very snug. I produced the romper and by now any resistance was gone. He just stepped into them and allowed me to guide his arms in and zip up the back. I motioned for him to lay back on the bed. I went on top of him and we started to make out. I began stroking the front of his diaper and without long he was climixing and exploding his load into the diaper. "See, this isn't so bad", I wispered into his ear. He eyes was already closed and he was drifitng away to sleep. I moved into place as the front spoon and felt the plastic from his romper on my back side. We woke up in the morning, and he was soaking wet. He told me he had woke up needing to pee, but had just relaxed and used the diaper. What choice did he have, being confined in the romper..? This was three weeks ago, and we have never looked back. We enjoy a tranquil and loving sharing moment every evening when I put him into his diapers and romper, and we laugh and cuddle a lot. Quite often it leads to sex, so we have to start the diapering over again before we go to sleep. I feel we are closer than ever, sharing this intimacy, and he has grown to appreciate my mortherly attention. Go for it ladies. You won't regret it.

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If its snow in your area, buy him a nice snow suit and some longjohns and take him out playing. We guys are never too old for that :-) And I would definately get him a pair of footed pjs for x-mas. He'll come around once he gets them. Can you get him to wear a pair of overalls? That will look sweet and kid-like.

Reader comment #5 Thank you ladies for all the wonderful ideas. I have never even considered this as an option. Well, i will place my orders today. SIx diapers and three rompers. It will be a substantial investment, but worth every penny. And there is no way my little guy can weasel his way out of this. There will be a fight, but I am determined to win it. I usually do. I wonder how many other women are now moving in the same direction? I see the readcounter on the article showing figures in the thousends already. There could be several hundreds of husbands out there soon to have a big surprise. Isn't that sweet? In a few years from now i bet there will be hardly a guy left over forty allowed into the familiy bed without his diapers and romper on. To the men following this page: You might have a life changing moment comming up in just a few days. Listen to your wife. She knows best.

Reader comment #4 And it doesn't hurt if putting the guys in diapers at night can bring their macho egos down a peg or two. They strive so hard trying to be big and strong, Being the bread-winners and never showing any sign of weakness. My guy simply needs the stress relief he gets from being put in diapers at night. When I zip up his jammies he melts in my hands and we share a moment of bonding and tender love. Ladies, if you don't get your guy to talk about feelings, put him in diapers and a whole new world will open. Men are more sensitive than we give them credit for. But you have to rig the stage to get the music started. I love to cuddle my man while falling to sleep knowing he will wet his diapers during the night, also knowing that tomorrow he will awake wet but well rested and ready to face another day in his macho world, after I have changed him out of his wet diapers... Go for it ladies. You won't regret it.

Reader comment #3 Dear Happy Wife What a thrilling article. It has always been my firm belief that men should always be kept in diapers at night. It has many advanteges, especially as you point out when they reach mid-age and start running back and forth all night. We should never have trained them out of night diapers in the first place. Then this wouldn't have been a problem and something the female population would have to worry about. I mean, it could simply have been a gender related thing with men. They sleep in diapers. Women don't. On the other hand we need to use pads around the clock when having our special week of the month. Men don't. Sounds only fair to me... Keep up the good work. Wife to macho guy in night diapers ------- Dear Wife Thanks a lot. I couldn't agree more Happy Wife

Reader comment #2 Dear Happy Wife Thank you for the great article. I have never thought of this as a possible solution and had mentally prepared myself for poor quality of sleep for the remainder of our shared life. I did the mistake and showed him your article anticipating an immediate and positive respons. Well, I got the response alright. He went through the roof asking if I was totally crazy. I tried to argue, but with now sucsess. He wouldn't listen to the logics at all, and would definately not be treated as a small bedwetting boy. I didn't see any point in pushing it any further and just left the subject there and then. How can I get this process back on tracks? Sleepless in Alabama -------- Dear Sleepless I am not a therapist so I can hardly give you specific advise related to your situation. I can only speak from experience with my own husband and a few friends. I think though it is a good idea to leave the subject for now. The idea will still play with his mind, and he might have a different attitude next time you bring it up. In the meantime, get the supplies you need, so you'll be ready if you get a second chance. Then, find a quiet moment when there are no distractions or unsetteled matters in your relationship and try to make a soft approach. Tell him it is not about beeing a bedwetting boy. It is in fact the opposite. It is a grown man taking a mature decision to help himself and his wife, taking responsibility for his own health issues. It is what you should expect from every caring husband. His issue is probably the stigma connected to adults wearing diapers. It is no rational reason for that. It is just a piece of cloth, a different type of underwear that serves a specific purpose. It is like using a crutch to support unsteady walk or glasses to improve your eyesight. Don't give up. Try to indulge him with sex. It has always been a powerful tool in the hands of a skilled woman determined to get what she wants. Happy Wife

Reader comment #1 Dear Happy Wife I have with great interest ready your excellent article. I have decided to try this approach with my husband. We finally solved his heavy snoring through an operation after having tried all kinds of remidies, only to experience that his now enlarging prostate is ruining our sleep the same way his snoring used to do. Why spend all that money on surgery if we end up at square one caused by his frequent running to the bathroom? I will follow your advise and I am now in the process of getting my supplies organized from different sources. What I need is your advise on diapers and rompers. I have searched the internet but haven't found products that meet the specifications you mentioned. Can you provide any further info on where to get the best diapers? Oregon Wife ----- Dear Oregon Wife I buy his diapers from this German company: http://www.airoliver.de/save/index.php?cat=9977&lang=ENG&product=10072 The product you see on this page is the one he uses. Great aborbency and they are a high-rise design, so it is not crucial what direction he points his little soldier, and a night time erection will be no problem or bring any discomfort. We have hardly had any leeks with these diapers, only some damp spots which the rompers took care of. Shipping to the US should be no problem. I would recommend getting a stack of 6 diapers. Then you can do laundry every third day with three diapers every time which makes a full machine load. Rompers you can order from this company: http://www.plastic-pants.com/Novelty/RomperBuy.htm Order with flannel lining and without crotch snaps. Be sure to get with back zipper. The zipper is not lockable when you receive the product, but it can easily be made so if you are a little handy with a needle and tread. The simple option is just to remove the tab on the zipper. It will make it almost impossible to unzip by the wearer while you can just use a paper clip when you zip it up or down. Good luck Happy Wife

She would be the type to discuss this with the other girls. You know how they share most experiences, the more intimate the better. I can't be sure though, and we guys would never bring up such a topic when we meet on the occasional beer and soccer night. So it's impossible for me to know if any of the other guys share my predicement. It woudn't surprise me though, knowing this group of women. My frequent night time wetting came gradually. I started to notice a change of pattern in my mid 30's and from then one it has develped quite rapidly from one to three wettings per night. It is quite normal I understand. My doctor has checked for cancer, but everything is fine. He says its possible to have an operation to shave off a piece of the prostate gland creating a wider passage for the urine flow. I will wait and see how things develop. Having lost a bit of night time control hasn't had any effect on my day time peeing, so if it will remains like this I am quite happy, enjoying the best of two worlds.

No she didn't, but she thought it was a good idea and that I should write it and try to get it published. The story is partly true, and definately something that could have happened in our household. The actual history played out a little differently but with a conclution almost identical. The plastic romper is pure fiction, even though this poduct can be bought and I think it would be an excellent item to add in a scenario like the story describes. I am not a fully trained sleepwetter (might never be), and I normally would wake up to pee, but It happens sometimes that I just sleep through and wake up wet in the morning. Typicially after haing a few beers in the evening. I feel though I am past the point of no return and would not dare to go to sleep without some kind of protection, at least a protective sheet, because I am not sure I will be in full control. Nice dynamics really. The fear of wetting the bed can drive you into sleepwetting My wife has an idea to add some "readers comment" to the article, and i will post them later on. These will of course be fictional respones from other women with similar challenges when it comes to night time disturbances. Still, I am quite sure she has discussed this issue with the other wifes in our social group, so some of the thoughts might be authentic.

Thank you :-) I have copied the article that my wife wrote and sent to the local newspaper. If you show it to your wife she might see the logic. It is pretty straight forward ..

Reclaim the night – Put him in diapers By Happy and healthy wife. More and more medical studies are showing the importance of sleep. Through sound sleep your body rebuilds its strenght and ability to resist infections and other illnesses. It is also common knowledge that cardiovascular problems can be caused by lack of sleep, or sleep that is not continues for at least six hours every night. Most people though would benefit having eight hours sleep every night. It can add years to your life. The latest study I saw on this issue claims that stress is more dangerous when it comes to effects on heart disaese than tobacco or alcohol. And the connection between lack of sleep and stress is pretty straight forward. Knowing this basic facts we still put up with our husbands lack of control. When approching mid-life it seems to be normal for a man to make frequent runs to the bathroom every night. Two or three seemed to be the habbit of my spouse, and I know others have similar experiences. As the man reaches the time for his hasty trip to the bathroom he starts to twist and turn which normally would wake up the wife he shares the bad with. It’s quite obvious that if this happenes three times every night it will destroy the quality of sleep for both of them, which again we have just proven can be harmful and a hazard to your health. And with age it will get worse, not better. Not being able to sleep through the night is actually a sign of lack of bladder control. It is a form of ucontrolled wetting even if he manage to reach the bathroom in time. Now, as you might know there are products available to help those who can’t fully control their bladder. They are called diapers and we all know their excellent performance when it comes to keeping babies nice and warm even if they are wet. And yes, you can get diapers in any size, also for your husband . A night diaper though have to be high quality in order to avoid leaks. I would go with a quite heavy type cloth diaper, preferable with a PVC or PU outer layer. They are put on and fasten like a disposable, but instead of tapes they are fitted with velcro tabs that attaches to a landing zone on the front of diaper. Normally this should work well and without leaks even after several wettings. The reason is that a cloth diaper will have absorbency also on the sides, not only in the front and back middle. This extra protection is vital when wetting in a laying position. I will though advise to add one more item to the outfit. For two reasons. The item is a lockable plastic romper lined with flannel. First, the romper will offer some extra protection if there should be an unlikely leak from the diaper, and the flannel will add some aborbency. Second, the locking of the romper will install a message in his brain that the diaper is not coming off before next morning, so he should prepare himself mentally for wetting his diaper during the night, preferably and eventually without even waking up. Now you might think, there is no way I getting my husband back in diapers. He will simply reject the whole idea. Well, do not be so sure. Remember you have all the arguments and logic on your side. Depending on what kind of relationsship you have you will have to develop your own strategy but the bottom line is still that this is a necessery messure towards better sleep and healthy living. You wouldn’t let him smoke sigarettes would you? Then why let him jeopardize both his and your health through other means. See? It is all plain logic and he can’t win long term just being stubborn. Make sure you have all the supplies you'll need, diapers, rompers, wipes etc before you adress the issue. It is important that you are ready when a window of opportunity opens and can move fast into action without him getting the chance to back out, like he easily could do if you had to start ordering things and waiting weeks to get all the stuff together. The issue here is that you are very well prepared with arguments, health studies, logic and supplies, while he will be surprised, shocked and stunned at the same time, not knowing how to react. The confusion this will cause will be your edge in order to get the first domino piece falling over. Once started the process will carry its own momentum if you just follow my advise. One way to do it is persuing him into doing a test run. The strange thing is that while most men would be reluctant to the whole idea, they are also adventurous. Play with his feelings. Ask him:

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I woke after a few hours feeling my bladder getting ready for the usual trip to the bathroom. Then it struck me that I was confined in diapers and a romper I couldn’t get off without my wife’s assistance. And that would not happen before next morning. I had no choice but to let go. It was difficult wetting laying down like this and at first I just managed to get a small trickle started. Then suddenly the valve opened and I emptied my bladder totally. What a strange feeling…. I feared the diaper wouldn’t hold the full wetting and started to feel for leaks, but couldn’t find any. A few minutes later I didn’t feel any wetness at all, just a warmth that spread around my groins. The quality of diapers must have improved since my diapering days as a youth I thought, before drifting back to sleep. I can faintly remember a second wetting that first night, but it was not as heavy as the first, and when I woke up in the morning with my wife eagerly checking me out. I felt well rested and my wifes big lovely smile made me feel good.

- My first attempt writing a story. Please excuse my english. It is not my native language. As most men I experienced the plumbing problems that follows after moving into the forties. Less pressure and more frequent stops to the boys room. It didn’t bother me much during the day, but started to be a hazzle at night time. I usually got up one or two times every night, somtimes three of four, especially after a few beers with the guys. It disturbed my sleep and I kept waking up my wife as well.