Unseendl

A bit of preface before the question. So I've been going through my own version of the Diaper Training Program, seen here, and amazingly enough, I found I have been diapered waaaay more often than not. This got to me recently thinking about possibly going 24/7. I admit, being diapered 24/7 can be and is inconvenient at times, but from what I have found, its really not as inconvenient as I was thinking it was going to be. My lifestyle seems to not get in the way being diapered 24/7 anyway which is impressive considering I'm comming towards the end of my college career, am young, and am active. I've been doing this since mid of last December and I can count on one hand the amount of time, in days, that I've not been in diapers and most of that time was towards the beginning of the project when I was at my parents house for a couple of weeks and was in low supply which brings me to my most recent revelation: I would have not problem telling friends, loved ones, and most importantly my family that I am urinary incontinent if I had actual doctor visits/opinions to back me up. This means two things. The first having more confidence in wetting without the worry portion of being 24/7 dependant (Put in another way, I wouldn't mind going 24/7. This curbs my original goal of wetting while only diapered though, considering I would be diapered all the time) And two, not having to "hide" diaper changes from so many people, especially ones that care for me and have concerns that I am diapered i.e. parents and loved ones. This would make being honest with them way more easier and I wouldn't care so much about the discretion portion of my program. So here is my question: When I do get to the point of actually being diaper dependant, if I were to go to the doctor to have it "looked at" as though it were a "problem" I know they would do tests; what kind of tests would they do and would they be able to tell if anything is actually wrong or if I am just faking it for something, which I am not. I have no intention to get anything tangible out of the doctors visits besides notes in my charts and the confidence to go to my family. I'm not looking to leech off of the supplies offered to those who need them because they don't have a choice. After reading posts from the actual incontinent, I understand that doctors don't always find any reason for urinary incontinence, which would be ok for me and great news regardless and despite the slight psychological problem of me wanting to be incontinent (I'm just glad to know there are others out there with incontinent desires ). So after burying the question, again if I were to go to the doctor to have it "looked at" as though it were a "problem" I know they would do tests; what kind of tests would they do and would they be able to tell if anything is actually wrong or if I am just faking it?

This probably wont help your situation too much, but my first couple years of college and being out og the house, I had a girlfriends who had her own place. I asked her if I could get diapers sent to her place (I had told her about the lifestyle at that point) and she was ok with it. I was fortunate enough to have that at the time. So if you have other friends who have a house and know, you could try that, but chances are at this stage in your life, you probably dont. My situation now might be much more realavent to you: I live in a house with 8 other people and getting things shipped to the place isn't an uncommon thing to have happen. Of the several times that I have ordered offline, there has only been one time that I wasn't home to get the package. One of my other roommates took the order and set it by the front door until I got home. He didn't ask at all what was in there. If he had, I really dont know what I would have said and I had been thinking about what to say for that situation if it ever came up. I can honestly say I really didn't have any good excuse for a package that size (I ordered 4 packs of Abenas so it was a case). To make a short story long, if you live with other people, they usually wont ask "What's in the package?" but if they do, you've got the built in exscuse now of "School stuff" Tip: If you've never ordered offline before, look for places that ship in discreet packages. Or if you're ballsy enough, there are still a few medical supply places that sell diapers. But because you're young, it will become an awkward situation between you and the clerk if you let it; Because chances are, and I HAVE had this asked to me by EVERY helper, they will ask you if they are for you or someone else. BE HONEST! Say they are for yourself and here's why: They work in the medical field. They understand what you are buying and understand the importance of discrection. I have yet to have any one of them ask me what is wrong (which is nothing). They will understand if you don't want to say anything, and they will let it go. But I say be honest because (judging by the sizes supplied at the medicals stores I go to) the typical sizes are large and extra large for older people have have gained weight over the overs. I'm not saying every older person is fat, but time does take tolls on the body which seem to account for the sizes, and the people who buy this kind of product locally seem to generally be older people. So if you buy medium sizes, chances are its not necessarily for someone else. Plus, by being honest with the local medical supplier that I go to, I'm recognized when I go in and taken care of very professonally. Sorry for a long post on an old question, I'm just coming towards the end of my college life and have a lot of advice in this particular catagory. As far as the room situation goes, keep this in mind: You will have good roommates and you will have bad roommates. Respect of privacy has never been an issue with any roommate though so if you have a roommate who feels it necessary to rummage through your things, it's time for a new roommate. If you must share the same room with your roommate, good luck; I've walked on eggshells in that situation before and its not fun nor worth it. My 2+ cents on diapers, roomates, and college. GOOD LUCK FOR REAL! Unseen

Damn, you beat me to it. This is however the second time I have seen a ABDL photo on this site within a month. http://verydemotivational.memebase.com/2011/01/12/demotivational-posters-you-had-faith/#comments A saboteur on our hands??

My apologies, that would of helped. Attached is a picture with the demensions of the sizes. As far as the thickness goes, its pretty thin. Honestly, because of its size, it would not hold a lot of urine by itself. Which is why it would do much better as a stuffer, than a diaper by iself. Side note: Never used, but after i tried to try it on without luck, it went right into the washer and I haven't done anything with it since. Oh, and the manufacturer is Dura Tex

I few years ago, I bought my first cloth diaper and go figure it was far too small. I know I could use it as a reusable stuffer, but to launder a single stuffer would not make any sense in MY situation. It may work better for someone else though. I'm looking to trade for either a medium size cloth diaper, plastic pants, OBO. Send an email to me direct: unseendl@gmail.com Unseendl

What kind did you buy? Ive been thinking about buying a pair for myself. Also, VERY jealous

I've just started getting into this hobby myself. Since I have been getting into more and more of the mechanical end of things I wanted to go gas My dad had an electric SC10 years ago and I loved playing with it. I bought an NTC3 from a co-worker of mine and since I am the third owner of the vehicle, I have had to do some MAJOR repairs to the thing. as Diapers4me said: The is the unfortunate side to this hobby, is the money. But when they run, they are endless amounts of fun. Especially if you are mechanically, or competively inclined. P.S. Now you can be the proof that race car drivers DO wear diapers!

Well thank you all for the input so far. As Creepymouse said, I'm not sure if you realized that I am not looking for 24/7. But if you do, DD, then I also understand that it will take complete commitment for this process. That was something that has gone through my mind as well. As it has been said quite a few times, I do understand that this is going to be FAR MORE psychological than physical. One thing that I have started saying to myself while I am diapered is that: "I am in a diaper, it is ok to pee." I have mentioned this in my journal writings that are not posted, and if more interest is actually shown, am still willing to post. If by the "end" of this project, if I can call and end to it, happens to where I find myself more comfortable while wetting, than I would be ok with that. This project would make an expensive means to achieve such goal, but if that is where it lands, then that is where it lands and I accept that. To Baby Brian: Thank you for all of your suggestions. I will take into account, several of your clothing recommendations. I have Khaki shorts but not pants, and I will look into the sani-pant and other options there. I also understand that this may take a loooooong time to achieve, which is why I am keeping track of cost as I go, so if it really doesn't seem feasible in the long run, I can make the well-informed decision. On the topic of hypnosis and catheters, I have thought about both. I am a very open-minded kind of person and most likely would be receptible to hypnosis, but am not 100% sure if it will actually work. From what I hear, any doubt is usually an indication of whether or not one's mind will actually accept it, but I am willing to give hypnosis a try regardless. As far as catheters go, I understand that they can have the desired affect of incontinence, but I am not necessarily looking for a quick means for my goal. As far as becoming completely incontinent first and then separating the two, I'm not completely sure if that were the route I would want to take. I would rather get my body use to wetting easily first while simultaneously working on the psychological end of it. I am still open to comments or suggestions.

Like the description says, this is a lengthy outline for the goal that I am trying to achieve. I am actually very curious as to what the perceptions of the community is going to be. I know many of us really want to try to go 24/7 in diapers, but for me that is not something that I particularly want to do. My goal is outlined in the word document, that will hopefully attach to this post, but to sum it up: My goal is to have no control over wetting ONLY while in diapers. My reasoning for this is explained in the outline for the project. To some people, this may seem like a very selfish goal considering that some people don't have the choice of wearing diapers. But please consider the community you are in and consider that while it is unfair that you may not have the choice to wears diapers, a lot of other people do have control but desire to have little to no control. This project is my attempt at the middle ground. About this document: It is three and a half pages and might take a little while to read. But it explains the goal, the rules, myself, and my strategy behind the project. I ask that you keep an open mind and if you have questions please feel free to ask, but do not be offended if I choose not to answer the question based on some part of either my past or medical history that I do not wish to say. I will say however, that this document does contain quite a bit of personal information and certain topics but considering who I am presenting this to, I would hope that most of you would be understanding of these certain things. One last thing that I want to pose is a question: I am in fact keeping a day-to-day journal about this and I am already on day 4. If there is any interest in seeing what I have written or will write, PLEASE let me know because I would ok and would love to share the journals in the blog section here. RTP The goal.doc RTP The goal.doc

Your friend Danielle, is she a friend or a girlfriend? There are big differences with the topics that go into that conversation. Meaning, a friend doesn't have to know all of the details that say a girlfriend would. I will say though after telling several friends, it gets easier and easier. Frankly, the only one who recomended that I see a therapist was my sister, but that was because my girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me when she couldn't take the baby things and the diapers anymore and my sister had me in her best interest of me getting back together with my ex. That is why my sister recomended thereapy. But thats a story for another time, but as far as her reaction goes, it could be good or bad depending on the relationship that you two have. If she is a friend, she could have just said it because she had no thoughts on the matter during the time that you told her. But if she is a girlfriend, she might be comncerned for you and her with her best interests. It's a harsh truth, but I've been there. ~Unseen

I'm north of Seattle right now, but I've been looking into meeting up with some people from the community. and by north of Seattle I mean, Bellingham. I'd definatly be interested in starting off with conversation

I have a sister that I told around last year. She thought it was odd, but really the only reason why I told her was because I had broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years and she was curious as to why. And as you guys may have guessed, we broke up because of the diapers. She was more concerned for the breakup and how to reverse the problem; She thought of either therapy or drugs, but she wasn't against diapers, just the breakup. Eitherway, unless you are on really bad terms with your sister, remember that you are all family, and most familys will love each other no matter what. Hope this gives you currage Baby Unseendl

Agreed. After my last month of finally being able to afford abenas and molicare diapers, the landfill guilt started to hit me

I love cad. Penny arcade is also another good one for game comics