luvsdiapered

Granted, I haven't been married,hopefully one day I will get that privilege, but in your situation, It seems a bit tricky, On one hand I sense that you love your wife and would do anything for her. I can see to an extent where she is coming from,as society has brainwashed us into thinking diapers are for babies and adults that have no control over their bodily functions, and granted that is the primary reason they were created for, however for those of us that just wuv are diapers, be it from the DL mindset or the AB mindset, we get a bad rap, and in your case, with a wife that hates anything to do with a diaper, may be from a bad experience with diapers, hating the idea of changing a diaper, as its bad enough for a gal to have to wear a pad during her cycle, or it could be she feels that your desire to meet other diaper lovers,adult babies out there be it online or otherwise as a sign of weakness, most gals want this ripped strong man that can pop a knot on a persons head and make whatever was bothering her go away, It would help to give a better answer if we had a history of her thoughts about you and diapers,, as simply saying she hates it with a passion is kind of vague, but what I said above is a generic list of some of the reasons a lot of gals that are into this scene have against other gals and guys whom are ab/dl's , That being said, If she knew during your dating life that you wore diapers and were interested in this lifestyle, then she could of easily said,until you meet a.b.c.d, I won't marry you, in this case she did, and if my assumptions are correct she likely had the mentality that she could change you as a person, when in reality the only way a spouse or gf/bf will change you is if they are changing your diaper. I wish I could give you a cut dry answer, I would go with your heart, if you feel that to alleviate alot of the stress you have in this incident means wearing a diaper against her wishes and getting on sites such as this, I say within moderation, do so, However I have to question how much she truly loves you, if she is threatning divorce if you go online or attempt to meet others in this arena. Now me personally if I was married in your situation,, I would sit down and make a compromise with my wife , providing my body hasn't adjusted to needing diapers 24/7, and would agree to curb the amount of days or hours that I wore a diaper with her knowledge, as long as she obliged me in indulging me to a day or two etc of DL or adult baby time with her again in moderation. I doubt your wife would go for that compromise, however that is how I would approach it personally if I were in your shoes and had a wife making that ultimatum to me.

Well what can I say, I am Philip and have decided to make the transition into the wonderful world of DD forums,