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erevu

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  1. I don't think the issue was the shared interest in DL. Shared interests are the basis of relationships. I think it's that you got too serious too fast. Save diapers/sex until marriage, or at least until you're really comfortable with being with the person long term. Communication is key. Explore each other mentally before physically. Form a real bond first.

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  2. So by your logic, you're either an exhibitionist or you're ashamed? Look, people who don't want to put their kinks on display aren't automatically ashamed of them. Many just don't find it necessary to validate themselves via others by putting themselves on display. Some find it a waste of time at best and counterproductive at worst.

  3. 9 hours ago, Rachel Emily said:

    A pride event should, I think, educate people. In the case of ABDL people, however, I don't think it's necessarily the best way to accomplish that. The message we send out may not be what we intend.

    There are much better forums available to "educate people" than pride parades. Those tend to be much more about throwing your lifestyle in the face of others than education.

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  4. I would never go to an ABDL pride event because I don't seek validation from society. The only acceptance I want is from my wife, and marginally from my family. Other than that, I really don't care for approval or attention.

  5. I had the absolute worst time with relationships forever. I was lonely and hopeless and frustrated and all that, for years. All through my 20s. To make it worse, my health hasn't been optimal since I was treated for cancer in my teens, and I almost died of lung failure around 30. Between my health and my weirdness, I was sure I'd never find anyone.

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  6. I have been considering these things as a means of keeping myself pointed down into the crotch of the diaper. I would really be interested in your (or anyone's) input and suggestions in this matter. I really don't care about the chastity/bondage angle. I'm just interested in ensuring my diaper wetting is consistent and optimal to prevent leaks.

  7. 4 minutes ago, denmarker said:

    i have friends who used electrolysis but it still grows back.

    wait. i may be confused. not sure if she used laser or electrolysis.

    they are different, right?

    They are different, yes. However, the nature of hair follicles may make it appear that hair is regrowing when it's not the case. At any given time, only a fraction of folicles are producing hair. They grow it, it can fall out, then they lie dormant for a time before regrowing again. What your friends are likely seeing is new growth from formerly dormant folicles, not regrowth of treated folicles. I think it takes a year or two of regular treatment to treat them all.

  8. Mommy will check my diaper in many ways depending on the situation. Visual, front pat, back pat, rear waistband peek, bending me over so she can pull back a leg gather. I don't like having to stand up for a diaper check when I'm playing :P

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  9. 3 hours ago, Elfy said:

    This seems strange.

    1. That doesn't sound healthy if you can't have your own vote. It sounds weird that a family member would influence a vote to that degree.

    and

    2. Votes are secret... Couldn't you just vote the way you wanted and then tell this other person you voted the other way?

    It's strange but not unheard of. I know of someone who did that. She was not forced. She was codependent and liked being controlled, but I hear she was not told how to vote. She likely saw it as submission to her husband. He passed away from cancer years ago now. She has recovered somewhat since then. She votes how she likes.

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