notababy

So you missed the title - and point of - this post, didn't you? ...*without wanting to be noticed*...

Is there a DFW munch?

Thanks for the replies. I'm absolutely not trying to leave a mess for anyone - and work to mitigate just this problem. I hadn't been bringing plastic pants, but will probably start. The twice it happened (same week) was enough to convince me to do SOMETHING, because as someone else said... I don't want to sleep on a mattress someone else destroyed.

1) There's a difference in nudity and sexuality. OBGYN's see lots of vaginas, but I doubt they have erections every time they do an exam. 2) You say you're not gay but that you're aroused by the thought of a homosexual sex act. There's a disconnect there. You may or may not be bisexual, but you're definitely aroused by homosexual activities, and especially if you're sub. You need to think about that and come to terms with it, whatever it means for you in your life. 3) Your desire to be sub could be dangerous, especially if it leads you to be sub in situations you shouldn't otherwise be in. Before you're sexually active with ANYONE, you need the self-confidence to understand who you are, what you want, what you don't want, what your limits are, and how you enforce them. Otherwise you could easily get trapped, emotionally, in an unhealthy relationship with someone selfish. 4) Don't do anything with anyone you're not comfortable with, even consensually. That includes romantic heterosexual sex with the ex.

I travel a lot for work. Different hotels, different cities, often a night or two each. Sometimes I remember to bring diapers - really makes sleeping in a strange bed much easier, and since I'm in my room alone there's no problem changing when I want, using if I want, etc. (vs. being at home around the family where it's a bedroom activity). The problem can be twofold, though: I typically wear good disposables (Molicare, Bambino, etc.) but have a big bladder and can flood sometimes, which leaks out the back or around the legs, wetting the bed. Or, if I'm not diapered (especially if I have been previous nights), I may wet the bed thinking I am (I don't do this at home, though)... completely soaking it. I *hate* leaving a room like this, but don't know what to do. It's either never diaper when I'm out (wah!), or always diaper when I'm out (not always practical, especially if I'm packing for carryon only. Thoughts? Experiences at hotels (especially if you're staying multiple nights and wet one night)? And how common must used diapers in the bathroom trash can be? I should probably start leaving tips for the maids when I've diapered...

The only time I can really drink is when I'm away for a conference, and I *hate* the feel of being drunk... so yeah, not the party animal. Was just nice because once I "break the tap" it all runs right though me.

I'm at a work conference this week. Packed the diaper bag to come with me. Night 1: Actually wet as I was initially falling asleep. Abena kept the moisture off all night... fell asleep as I was wetting or just after, I think. Night 2: Slept most of the night dry, but wet early in the morning. Remember waking up and wetting, but nothing past that until the alarm went off. Definitely dozed back off. Satisfied myself upon waking up - felt fantastic surrounded in gel. Tonight? I have no idea what I drank or how much. Seriously. Somewhere between borderline heavy buzzed and lightly drunk. Really not sure. Drank at the hotel, so no drive and no danger... had a room already. Intentionally didn't drunk until I was drunk because if I do I won't stop, and I don't like that - that's not me. VERY glad I have diapers tonight, especially given the last two nights. Will almost definitely be wet in the morning. Wonder how much it will hold... and how much I really have to give. Nothing new here in terms of the forums... just sharing that this is one of the first times in a long time that my diapers will be closer to necessary... not just convenient or pleasurable. Nights like this remind me why I'm not in sales full time (but filling in this week). Typing this has been DIFFICULT tonight... but not difficult enough that I'm having to resist drunk texting.

Knowing this was DD, I certainly expected the diaper bias (not a bad thing!). Was more curious to see any discussion... but I guess we all know what we're happiest in!

Definitely the right choice so far - I've wet three! Never been through this many in an evening... and I'm not even in bed yet. My body is definitely relaxing!

I'm on a business trip this week and while I brought my panties (I wear everyday), I didn't bring any sleepwear or diapers. Rushed packing and just forgot. I'm finally on my own tonight (no evening plans) and, frankly, it's been a stressful week. So, being alone in a distant town, the question became stop by somewhere and pick up something sexy and frilly to sleep in, or stop by and pick up some non-medical-grade diapers (Walgreens, CVS, etc.). I know, I know, many of you would say both... and both have a similar calming effect on me, but while I enjoy the feel of lingerie it's more a shared experience involving someone else's touch (in my case, my wife... I'm not the cheating kind). Diapers, however, are relaxing. Comforting. You know the spiel. So, I'm sitting here in a Walgreens Certainty Fitted Brief, Maximum Absorbency. I'm not out to test that claim, but I'm not dry - that was almost a reflex once I got it on and sat down with TV and the laptop. I've been trickling since. I'm not one who "enjoys" the wet feeling - in fact, I'd rather be a "good boy" and stay dry, but I don't actively avoid wetting. I'm looking forward to changing, cleaning, etc. and drifting off to sleep tonight in a dry, snuggly diaper. These aren't the thickest or snuggest, but they fit well and absorb relatively well if you don't flood... but more importantly they're not underwear! They're bulkier, softer and definitely a diaper... aah! I'm really looking forward to getting home, however, and back into a Arena X-Plus. So, given the choice of one if you were in my same scenario: new lingerie or diapers?

My god. If Colonel Sanders did Peking Duck I'd never leave KFC.

Why did you cross a boarder? Did he do something wrong while he was staying with you?

This is from Will Farrell's outfit Funny or Die. It's not a real movie promo - it's a well made spoof - but it is definitely creepy. Kinda like Dr. Seuss meets Rugrats meets Natural Born Killers.

There's another thread on this somewhere, but for me it goes something like this: I started into this because wearing had a sexual component to it, but of desire for taboo, not desire for release. Release came (no pun intended), but when it did, the desire to wear went with it. The "buildup" was over. As solo play went, I might stay diapered, I might not. Eventually that changed into staying in them sleeping overnight. I've enjoyed wearing women's panties, and had girlfriends that didn't mind, but had never brought diapers into it until a few years ago. She was accepting, but not interactive, and not sexual. That was okay, because diapers had become less sexual when I put them on and more just a comfort item.. followed by a release the next morning. Masturbating in diapers became very enjoyable as an end. Fast forward to now. I told my wife while she was still my fiancee. We were talking about secrets, coping, etc. I didn't want to carry this secret into a marriage then have it blow up, so I told her. It was real, honest, and deep. And she was okay with it... even a little DL/AB (in that order) herself. Now we have a mutually respectful relationship. I get diapered when I want (and it's not inconvenient), but it's not an every night thing. Diapers haven't been a part of our sexual repertoire, but there's been occasional involvement here and there. And our sex life is deepening... what I want, what she wants, and figuring out the when, how, and why. It's still the case, though, that as much as I think about it and desire it, once I've had a release that desire is gone. So if I think about being diapered and we have sex, I think about it less. But, now, I realize that I'd like to break through THAT taboo, too, and be diapered for primarily non-sexual reasons again, and even with less "comfort" and emotional release... just making it more "normalized." I can't make that make any more sense... so that's where I'll stop.

Play around with sample packs. Depending on whether you want babyish prints or plain, crinkle or soft, there's a lot to try out there. And, not being into wetting, something like an Abena Super (not the Super-X or X-Plus) can be both comfortable and discreet. Let us know the first time you wear through a shift.

I sleep more soundly. Not deeper, I sleep deep already, just much more relaxed when I wake in the morning. Also much easier to fall asleep for some reason. Usually that's dry, but several times recently I've woken up in the middle of the night wetting, or needing to... and doing so and falling back asleep as soon as I'm done. I use Dry 24/7's, so they hold and I still feel dry, just bulky. Recently, though, I did that and wet when I woke up and it flooded. That wasn't fun. My plastic pants came in the mail today (along with cloth diapers, but I'm not sure how I want to start wearing those since I've never done so), so that'll fix that problem in the future.

@blu4: I'm working that way. Haven't done daytime wear yet, but have talked about it. Wife would support if I were to... just need to find the right day to start. We're in the same place about not wanting to be wet/messy - just to wear.

One tip - my wife prefers the Molicare Supers (not the Plus) because they're thinner. She's not quite the DL I am, but wears on occasion. I prefer the bulk, typically Dry 24/7 or Abenas. If you want to try a few different things, check out http://www.xpmedical.com/samples.html and you'll be able to grab samples of non-Bambino diapers, especially if you don't care about the babyish side, or want something that doesn't crinkle.

Nope, not alone. I wear for the security and softness. I've occasionally wet, but find it unappealing and just want to get out of the diaper at that point. I sleep better diapered - deeper and more secure.

A Dry 24/7 I just put on after a shower. Time to step out for some lunch, now. I haven't worn in public except for very recently, so it's still a thrill.

Let's get this straight... you had an accepting wife who participated and you left her for another woman whom you started a relationship with while you were married? I'm not judging - I'm just bewildered.

But better yet, why would you need/want to, outside of sharing this as part of an intimate relationship (emotional, physical, sexual or a combination)? In other words, how many of your friends, family and acquaintances have told you about THEIR fetishes, and if they didn't, how would you know? You never know what people do with gerbils, eggplant or al dente pasta... and probably don't want or need to.

Probably because people don't walk around pantless much. Shirtless or barefoot? Sure. Do you really need EVERYTHING printed out and explained for you to not do it?

There are other ways to harm someone besides physical, and there are polite ways to behave in society. If you find a socially acceptable place for your actions, so be it, but like it or not there are rules, and unfortunately people like you who can't appreciate that make need for law and, even sadder, law enforcement officials. If folks would take responsibility for their actions AND THE IMPACT OF THEM ON OTHERS and use a considered, reasonable approach, we wouldn't be in the law-burdened society we are today.

Spoken like a true sex offender.