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nobody know? i'll be happy to delete this post. But if i recall, the story was on the bravenet forum....and am really looking for a chance to reread it

It was on another forum....but now i can't find it anywhere. candi's dilemia.....does anyone have any idea where it could be now?

I am hoping to find someone that would be interested in doing some art for some stories? any one have any interests?

and very good advice, the best yet! thank you

I wasn't saying you had to do either...i was questioning why you would even bother getting married if you knew you were going to get a divorce after five years....i don't see any point in doing so

thank you for the insight....it was curiosity that peaked the question. and i agree with you. I have learned with working with men and women in my firm that men complete a full task, while women tend to want multiple tasks, of which they will half way finish...it's true here at least at my firm.

i'm sorry...but what on earth is the point in getting married with the intention of getting divorced in five years? why even bother? so you get five years of tax breaks? is he military? is it just to abuse the system which was there to help those starting a family? why even do it?

maybe i should mention....personally...i don't wear, nor do i care to ever wear....i am attracted to a grown woman who is diapered....it's usually due to the force....i am not into wearing...so my entire fetish can be lived through by simply masturbating in front of a computer...i just desire to have the occasional real world desire of diapering her before sex once in a blue moon. just fyi

I think many of you are forgetting, and it's likely bc you don't know her or I personally...which makes sense...obviously. I want to spend my life with her, it's just sex...i can jerk off at the computer if I need that "fuck" and I do not have to act it out in other ways....grown men do this thing all the time...example...always wanting a threesome and being married to a woman who doesn't want that. She is a fantastic woman, and a great friend. she just doesn't want to do my fantasy....I have to deal with that on my own.. I have appreciated the advice...but you don't just break up with someone because they don't have the same fetish desires you have...if you did, you would never have an adult relationship with anyone. you have to be compatable in way more then just sex....which we still manage to have normal, healthy routine sex as well....just somtimes I have to imagine a fantasy during to help me get off...it's just something that I need to learn to control. I want to have my desires fulfilled, but I can't expect her to do something she doesn't want to do her whole life. and pamperspete...the divorce rate is so high in this country bc most americans are fucking morons. they give up when it isn't right (as in so many of you think I should just because we aren't sexually compatable in every way). grow some balls, when you say i do, it is supposed to be forever, you are commited to stand by, respect, and love that person above your own self the rest of your life. instead people let their selfish desires and lack of long term sight get in the way of their happiness. many rush into marriage, get married bc of a kid, and yes some bc of financial security (which usually ends in a divorce anyway). you really have to be commited. but i am happy i don't have your outlook pamperspete...to be that cynical must be difficult to fall asleep at night...thinking the whole world sucks. word of advice.....optimism gives a man more power then any amount of fame, money or fortune in the world....those that have that matched with positive enthusiasm can not fail.

and if she is that easy, give me a call my friends and i always say that to each other

I like how Jim on the Office did this with Dwight and Altoids

i know the abdl community is predominetly male....does anyone know about what the percentages are?

no def not! i wouldn't use that on her. it was more of a curiosity posting...nothing I would actually ever use...or don't for see ever wanting to use.

well pamperspete...you are quite the outrageous one. and shoelessjoe....you are even worse. I love her...sex is like number 198 on our list of importance in our lives...it's an act of love between the two of us... there is a difference between fucking and love making...i make love to her...i love her. but sometimes when I am just in that horny mood...it's hard to not want to be that very dominant person. and it makes me want to take control...which she doesn't like. I'm not going to freaking mess around on the girl just because she doesn't want to do it. how simple some of you think. Our child is our blessing in life...my dream has always been to become a father...and i am lucky that I will get to have it with such a wonderful woman. I just struggle because i have some desires that I sadly enough don't get to share with her. and I don't want to hurt her by having those desires...but they don't just disapear...they remain inert. I just want to make sure I can handle our relationship with love, trust, and compatability enough to be respectful to her and her wishes as we grow old together. But I also, want to be able to pursue my wants and needs as well. In a relationship you have to put the other person above you...and your relationship above each other. and it's hard at times...thus the purpose of creating this thread.

great replies! havne't even gotten to read them all yet. no, i will not be cheating...that's about the least mature thing i could ever imagine to do. I respect her to much, as well myself, and anyone else that would be involved to ever cheat on her. I have asked her if there was a fantasy of hers that we could indulge. she doesn't really have any. the bigger issue, is that she feels degraded with the diaper thing...and it hurts her emotionally. I love her enough to not make a big enough deal about it. but it's hard, and i have weak moments where I want to suggest it, or say something about it...but all that does is upset her. I can stick with online imagination as the root for my fantasy i supposed. to me, sex is an aspect of marriage and a relationship. to me, it is an act like holding hands...and finding someone sexually compatable with you, is near impossible, especially someone that you could have a normal relationship with. I plan to let things go, and let my mind have it's fun with an online community. I don't think she would care that I am on a forum like this for example. I just think she doesn't want to be a part of it. she constantly says it makes her feel like a bad gf whenever i bring it up....which obviously she isn't....but because she doesn't just do it, she feels like she is a bad gf or something. as though not giving in is something all gfs are required to do. Which isn't the case. it hurts her emotionally to do it, i need to respect that, but it's very hard at times...especially when i know i can find girls that will indulge me in this in our area (friends that know about it). i am afraid real life play would hurt her even worse...and will not stoop to that. I plan to read the rest of the replies here soon, kind of busy haha, thanks guys!

I was referring to urinary...something that is completely temporary, and can be reversed back

speaking from expierence, i don't even notice it....my fetish doesn't really relate very well, especially when it comes to children. it's an adult woman thing only that it works for me....so diaper changes are still just gross haha

over in southeast missouri....not that far from ya

mine doesn't. very few people (other then my gf) even know it exists...and a few exs, and a few girls that have helped me

then what about the one's that are wet? or the one's on pay sites that are used frequently?

my six month pregnant gf and i have been together for over two years now. we have a great relationship etc. I am a complete dominant person sexually. she isn't as sexual as i am. for me, my dl stems from wanting to 'punish' or force a woman into diapers for a short period of time, and she may or may not have to use them. and pacifiers some what excite me sometimes. for me, the diaper thing is no different then handcuffs, or other sexually supporting items that are for dominant people. she doesn't like my fantasy, it upsets her actually. and we plan to be married next year, that means no more sexual trying with anyone else. She wishes i wouldn't even mention it, she has tried it before, didn't like it...and wants me to not mention it. So I have been respsectful to her for a long time, we also have normal sex...it isn't my only turn on, but it's my biggest one. I have over time, gotten girls to make attempts with this for me, I have very little trouble getting women, and I still haven't gotten to fully explore my fantasy. I need help on being respectful to her but still getting the sexual thrills i strive for...any advice? she knows about it, just doesn't want to be a part of it...

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that cause temporary incontinence? like for a day or two? as a side effect that is...any that can be purchased over the counter

What percentage of diaper models do you think are actually into this whole thing? there are so many different women that have agreed at some point to have photos taken of them in diapers...what percentage of those women are actually into it? and how did so many get talked into it? money?

After finishing the dishes, Rachel starts to walk back into the living room to watch some tv, not much else to do all winter. Here mom and sister immediately notice the wet diaper, but neither say a word. No point in embarrasing her. So they watch tv, after about an hour, Rachel's diaper is starting to get a tiny bit itchy. She burts out of nowhere in the middle of a commercial,"ARE YOU GOING TO FREAKING CHANGE ME?" "woah!" replied Amy. what's with the outburst? I was told that you need to wait to be changed." and with that Rachel started crying, and ran up to her room....with Amy following. "Rachel, what do you want me to do?" "Just change me and leave me the hell alone!" "Look i know this is hard, but things will be ok, and they will get better." While talking, Amy grabbed one of the diapers from the closet and starts to change her daughter's diaper again...the same way she did in the doctor's office, making Rachel roll over onto her back. "Look, i understand this is tough, and it'll be harder before it will be easier, but just do your best, know that Michelle and I are here to help you." Rachel didn't say a word, and managed to fall asleep after her mother left the room