Corporal Jigsore

Have to agree with what the others are saying. I'm DL but not AB. Guess its kind of an S&M thing to

Couldn't agree more. Try some role play or head game: Imagine, you were at some place were you weren't allowed to actually have sex and that was the reason your both had to wear diapers. Then your GF could come up with the idea to perform the act anyway in the way described above. This works well with me and my GF, as she also works in the health sector and we actually fantasize about a sex clinic were people have to wear diapers by the clinic's policy, including the female and male nurses. Take it away from there. It's all in the head!! I can be so much fun. Cheers, the Corporal

Hi, nice to hear that this thought rocks your pump (and probably something else, too). I'm sorry to tell you that these messy, precious occasions described in my original post happen so scarcely (due to time contraints, not out of a lack of interest on eithter side) that I find myseld having the same reaction as you when I think about it. Seriously, could anyone, dude or gal, contribute to my questions on how 'sexual' the fetish is to you personally? I understand there is quite different categories of DL. E.g. the AB type is said to not be sexuially aroused at all while in baby mode. I'm quite the opposite type: I hate pics with pacifiers and all that baby crap, what turns me on is pretty people with diapers in explicit poses. My partner -though never actually watching the pics with me- gets of on the same images, when I whisper them into her ear while doing you know what. We also enjoy playing with latex or PVC protection over our diapers BTW. Cheers, the Corporal

Hi, welcome! Are you sharing your fetish with a friend in real life? I'd be interested to learn -from a girl's perspective- about what turns you on about the whole AB or DL thing. When you think about a male playmate, how would you like him to behave? How sexual are your fantasies? Coz I believe most men here have strong sexual persuasions about the thing. OTOH, my GF will insist on being humped the oldfashioned way, after peeing her pants. Sorry if that's sounds intrusive, I hope this is the right place for open talk. Cheers, the Corporal

Hi, I'm a long time DL (not AB) and live in a solid relationship with a girl who shares the fetish. We are both in our 30s. I was touched by your post. Really. You surely lovey your BF dearly. And you are truly concerned about advancing your realtionship. That's good. No realtionship will withstand a sexual frustration of one person for ever, i.e. you not being able to achieve an organsm, for the reasons you described. I will get orgasms both with or without me wearing diaper. And I do enjoy plain sex, too. Its all in the brain. I get off by imagining I'm doing my play with someone else than my GF, while fantasising about it alound with (!) her. She'd tell me I'm being a naugty boy cheating on my GF, while making sure she wears hear dipaer just loose enough to eventually facilitate penetration. She'll usually have an orgasm before me, giving me the delicate choice of wether to cum inside of her or inside my diaper. You see, its not so much about the visuals and the aesthetics, but about the play with the unspeakable. And thinking and speaking your wiredest fantasies. I suggest you go sit on his face, wet your diaper in a huge gush of warm pee, make him feel the warmth in his face through the plast and watch his wiener grow to a treetrunk. Just before he is about to come (BTW does he relief himself usually or do you asist?) you make sure you slide that salami in youe wet pussy, by any means. You might want to talk to a female about those orgasms, I'm being told stories that most women do not achieve vaginal orgasm at all, unless there is extra stimulation of the klit. If that's true, you might want to find about what type you are. I don't know whats going in your BF's head, meybe it has helped you a little to learn what is going on in mine. You'll get it, for sure. Cheers, the Corporal

Hi, I'm also long time lurker, first time poster. Good that you share this info with us. I think all of us dudes with gf sooner or later HAD to come out with it. I'd like to share my experience. Upon telling, my gf reacted rather reserved coz she didn't understand the fascination of it. Don't get me wrong, she can get really horny, but she just didn't see the point. We eventually did involve diapers in our sex play, maybe three times. First 2 times I wore them. she liked the fact I was getting horny wearing them. But she preferred having sex the plain way. (Which was still fine.) Next time, after some persuasive work. we diapered each other and had a ball. (The relationship later broke up for some completely differnet reasons.) What I'm trying to tell you giys is that girls seem to get off on you getting off. They do not get off on the diaper idea itself, but on you getting of on it. Unless the diaper has become a fetish, as in substituting for sexual intercorse, you are fine with your gf, as long as she does not believe she (more precisely: being a woman) is being reduced to a catalyst, object, or facilitator. Today, I share (!) my passion with my ex-wife who also enjoys involving (!) diapers in our sex play. Dudes, its all in the head (the one on your neck). Love to continue this htread, jsut don't count on my posting daily. Sorry for my English, not a native speaker. Cheers, the Corporal