Jennifer!

It's a well known self-bondage fact, or at least, it SHOULD be, that you should N-E-V-E-R put something around your neck while doing self-bondage, no matter how much it turns you on. It's extremely dangerous. That being said, looks like you just needed to try out a few more techniques, but don't put a collar on, for goodness sake. If you have the funds, buy one of those female bondage harnesses online and attach chains to that, it'll give about the same effect but you don't have to worry about being strangled.

Well, some nights we'll have Skype chats (We don't live together yet) and we'll have little...I guess you could call them roleplays, during which, she'll first state that she's tired. Then, I'll say something like "Is my wittle girl sweepy?" and she'll refer back "Yes Daddy". You know what, I'll post a chat log from one of them. Not real names, but I'm Cody and she's Sarah. [9/30/2009 10:28:32 PM] Cody: Baby Sawah?? [9/30/2009 10:28:39 PM] Sarah: hmm? [9/30/2009 10:28:46 PM] Cody: Are you sleepy? [9/30/2009 10:28:50 PM] Sarah: yes [9/30/2009 10:29:00 PM] Cody: Let's go to bed, then Missie [9/30/2009 10:29:10 PM] Sarah: okaaay [9/30/2009 10:29:23 PM] Cody picks Sarah up and carries her upstairs [9/30/2009 10:29:38 PM] Sarah yawns [9/30/2009 10:29:56 PM] Cody puts her down in her room [9/30/2009 10:30:10 PM] Cody: Now, put your PJs on while I go and get your bear [9/30/2009 10:30:25 PM] Sarah: okayy [9/30/2009 10:30:42 PM] Cody walks downstairs and grabs the bear off the couch [9/30/2009 10:31:51 PM] Cody walks back upstairs [9/30/2009 10:34:11 PM] Cody: Come on, Missie. Let's go brush your teeth [9/30/2009 10:34:22 PM] Cody takes her hands and leads her into the bathroom [9/30/2009 10:34:26 PM] Sarah: o *yawn* kay [9/30/2009 10:34:51 PM] Cody: Can you brush you teeth all by yourself? Are you a big girl? [9/30/2009 10:34:59 PM] Sarah: mmhmm! [9/30/2009 10:35:10 PM] Cody hands her the toothbrush [9/30/2009 10:35:26 PM] Sarah starts brushing her teeth [9/30/2009 10:36:25 PM] Cody: Good girl! [9/30/2009 10:36:48 PM] Cody picks her up [9/30/2009 10:36:52 PM] Cody: Let's go to bed now [9/30/2009 10:37:01 PM] Cody carries her to her bedroom [9/30/2009 10:37:29 PM] Sarah buries her head into Cody's shoulder [9/30/2009 10:38:28 PM] Cody lies her down in her bed [9/30/2009 10:38:39 PM] Sarah: bed [9/30/2009 10:38:47 PM] Sarah: I'm a big girl! [9/30/2009 10:38:50 PM] Cody lies her down on her bed [9/30/2009 10:39:00 PM] Cody pulls the sheets down [9/30/2009 10:39:27 PM] Cody pulls the sheets up around her and tucks her in [9/30/2009 10:40:13 PM] Sarah: Goo'night *yawn* daddyyy [9/30/2009 10:40:26 PM] Cody smiles [9/30/2009 10:40:29 PM] Cody: Goodnight Princess [9/30/2009 10:40:36 PM] Cody kisses her on the forehead [9/30/2009 10:41:17 PM] Cody: Sleep tight, and if you have any bad dreams you can come snuggle with Daddy, okay? [9/30/2009 10:41:24 PM] Sarah: okay [9/30/2009 10:41:48 PM] Cody hands her her bear [9/30/2009 10:41:57 PM] Sarah: Thankoo [9/30/2009 10:42:03 PM] Cody kisses her on the forehead again [9/30/2009 10:42:07 PM] Cody: I love you, princess [9/30/2009 10:42:24 PM] Sarah: I love you too, daddy [9/30/2009 10:42:31 PM] Cody hugs Sarah [9/30/2009 10:42:42 PM] Sarah hugs Cody [9/30/2009 10:42:53 PM] Cody turns the lights out [9/30/2009 10:43:10 PM] Cody: Door closed, open or open just a crack, princess? [9/30/2009 10:43:24 PM] Sarah: open pleeze [9/30/2009 10:43:38 PM] Cody leaves the door open [9/30/2009 10:43:47 PM] Cody: Now close your eyes... [9/30/2009 10:44:12 PM] Cody smiles at her before walking down the hall That's one from a while ago, but it's probably the best.

I think my girlfriend may be a little girl, but I don't know how to define it in a non-biased or suggestive way. If someone could give a very specific definition as what a "Little Girl" is, I'd appreciate it.

Now, before you label me as a creep, let me explain. A very good friend of mine, and I have talked together about each of our fetishes with one another. She's a DL, as am I, but hasn't ever really been able to get diapers. So, for her birthday I want to get her some, then take her off alone to let her know not to open the present in front of ANYONE. She's about 5'7'' and somewhere around 100lbs. I know she wants a diaper that'll hold up well, something that can take multiple wettings. I'm wondering what to buy for her, as I don't know what would be best. Thanks in advance!

So, lately I've really been learning a lot about a high school friend of mine (we still see eachother, she lives nearby) who appears to have lots of the same qualities I do. I learned that she's bisexual, that she wears guys clothes because she wants to be treated like a guy on occasion, and the greatest thing ever: SHE WANTS TO WEAR DIAPERS. I told her about my feminine side quite some time ago, and she was going to give me some of her clothes and come over to help me with makeup and shave my legs and such. Well, we were talking more about this and I was pretending to complain about periods. Well, I said to her, "GOD I HATE PERIODS PADS ARE SO UNCOMFORTABLE" and she replied with "I KNOW I WANT TO WEAR A DIAPER". So, I said "Did you know that's actually a thing? People who wear diapers solely because they want to?" and she said, "I've wanted to for a long time. I'm one of them. I'm a diaper lover." So, I told her that I was too and we talked about peeing and wearing and stuff for a while. Tonight, we were planning more of our, "she gives me clothes and comes over to help me with makeup" party plan thingy, and I agree to give her one of my diapers when she's there. Well, we talk more about wetting and stuff, and I mentioned that I only like to be forced to wet, while tied up. So, we talked about what I like while tied up for a bit and I asked her if she would tie me up when she comes over to help me be pretty. She agreed, so I decided to see what she would do, and here's what we agreed on. She's going to yell, scream, say obscenities directed at me (like, fuck you and dirty slut and stuff), all this while tying me up. Then, once I'm gagged and tied, she's going to slap me, kick me, whip me with a belt, cover me in maxipads (something I find fun) throw wet tampons at me (something else I find fun) yell at me more, write obscenities like SLUT, WHORE, COCK LOVER etc. on the pads that are stuck to me, then once she's done being abusive, she's going to cover my eyes in a pad and leave me there for a good 45 minutes or so. Keep in mind, I'm dressed as a girl during this entire thing. I might wear a diaper, I don't know yet. Either way, this is going to be super fun. My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago, so I don't have to deal with that either. I may start a relationship with this girl, I might not. However, I am ridiculously excited for this session.

TSA: Totally Stupid A**holes

Cheerleading uniforms, and especially girls IN cheerleading uniforms drive me crazy. I'm not sure how to describe this next one, it's sort of like humiliation, but with underwear being worn incorrectly. I like to take all of my panties that I own, and put one on normally, and then wrap a few around my wrists, some around my shoulders, some around my ankles, etc. Once I put 15 pairs of underwear on, then I put a swimsuit on, then I put underwear around my shoulders and neck (don't worry, I was very careful with the neck part) and a pair of panties on top. So it's like panty humiliation, sorta kinda. I love tampon and maxipad humiliation and stuff like gagging with pads and buttplugging with tampons, which all fall together. I'm really into sub/dom. I am flexible, I get turned on either way. I prefer sub when with guys*, and dom when with girls. Actually, I liked both with girls, but dom more. I hardly ever dom with guys*. And this is humiliation, and BDSM, diaper stuff, etc. With girls, I sometimes dom verbally, and that really turns me on. Great foreplay, my girlfriend is really into me domming her. We usually start out like while eating, and she makes a mess (I can tell this isn't always accidental, though) and I'll say stuff like, "Bad girl, you should know better!" It's really cute how she reacts, actually. Pony play is a turn on thought, though none of my girlfriends have ever been into it, so I've never experienced this. I want to, though. *I'm not bi, like I wouldn't want to have sex with any of the guys I sub for, but I do like the play. Clothes stay on, however.

This thread is like a rollercoaster. It gets bad, then awesome, then mediocre, then awesome, then bad again. I love rollercoasters, but this is one I don't think I'm too keen to ride. As for advice...make a game plan with you and your GF. Ask her to back you up on stuff, since she clearly understands now. Ask her to defend you in the case that her friends decide to point fingers or call names. That's about all I can give at this point; it's hard to help you prepare for an argument/discussion when we don't know what they'll say. I suppose...good luck!

Let's not turn this into a religion/ debate thread now. EDIT: PampersPete beat me to it, lol

Loved it!

I'm curious, what do my fellow sissies wear when they sleep? Sissy wear, diapers, and even throw in what you wear when you need to be decent, for whatever reason (for me, those reasons would be things, like, when I'm at my parents, when my girlfriend is sleeping over (I haven't told her yet, I plan on it soon, but that's a story for another time)) I'm actually different, sorta kinda. I have two girly outfits. One is my "teen girl" sleeping outfit, where I wear a pair of bikini-cut panties, a t-shirt (my favorite has Rainbow Brite on it, do you remember THAT? Quick side-note about that, I took it from my sister when I was about 14, and I've had it ever since), I tuck, and I wear a pad. Then my other is a nice disposable diaper, pj-bottoms (care bears, barbie, etc.) and a t-shirt (care bears, barbie....hehe, etc.) I occasionally wear a stuffed bra with either outfit, however it's more common with the first. I don't have any onesies, or footy pajamas yet. Oh, and for good measure I wear an undershirt, boxers and plain pajama bottoms when I'm with my parents or my girlfriend. But whenever I'm alone it's one of the first two outfits. So, what do you guys wear to bed?

On a slightly related note, one of the funniest things I find about this...kink, is that whenever I meet a new girl (mostly now for work, but for the past four years it's been for school) I usually think in my head, "I've probably sucked more cocks than she has."

I most certainly can't swallow, I barely ever actually take it in my mouth. Since I'm no longer aroused, obviously, I find it heartily disgusting and not sexually appealing at all, so, I just pull it out of my mouth right near the end and finish like normal masturbating.

I've done it many a times. I actually did it earlier today. I'm curious, does anyone roleplay anything? Usually I do it while wearing my girly clothes, then I pretend I'm a girl giving her boyfriend a BJ. I find it's easiest to put your hands below your bottom, and push off the ground, making your lower half higher than your upper while bending, or at least allowing you to reach.

It just makes me feel like...wearing girls' clothes is wrong, and I know it isn't. But there is that mentality of most people that it IS wrong. The one girl I've told about my girls' clothes-wearing side (not diapers, just clothes) who totally understood (which was awesome, but that's a different story) I've told, when talking to me, never to use the term "crossdresser". So what does everyone else think? Possibly about the term sissy as well?

I do. Cheerleading uniforms are my #1 favorite thing to wear. Oh, and I just found this specific anime cosplay girls school uniform, and it's absolutely adorable. I want it, but I'm short on money.

bondage pink little girl dresses one-piece swimsuits playing truth-or-dare where anything goes (I did this when I was little, and in college, and I miss it so) dom/sub little girls panties little girls nightgowns restraints seeing up girls' skirts (especially when they have panties with designs on them) clothed sexplay penis gags strap-ons (when it's in me) being stuck in wet diapers Victoria's Secret lingerie

I most like to wear girly underwear, as well as denim skirts, silk skirts, cotton skirts; mainly skirts that show my panties. I also really like leggings, tees, bras and those REALLY short shorts that girls wear. I've also bought one or two cheerleading outfits that are modeled after our college cheerleaders. I wear ball gowns too, but those are too expensive to just buy all willy nilly. I don't really use wigs ever, but I do style my hair (it's long enough). Makeup is one of my favorite things. Mainly I love glitter, lipgloss and nail/toe polish. I'm not sure if this falls under the same category, but I also shave my legs and love using really girly shampoo and soap. Generally people assume I'm a biker or swimmer, I get asked it a lot when I meet new people. I like riding my bike though, so I say I am. Smelly and looking as girly as girly is possible for a guy is something I love.

This is a little late of reply, but I did this all the time, and still do. I'll be at fancy restaurants and such, and see some girl my age come in wearing this beautiful gown and wishing to myself (man, I wish I could wear that) I also, as a teen remember wanting to be on the cheerleading squad, just as a hope that they would make me wear the girls' uniform. For whatever reason, cheerleading outfits are among my favorite things to wear.

Since I'm not an AB, I don't know how much place I have here, but... I think ABDL is a fetish that should be voluntary. Fetishes are things you really enjoy doing, and should stay that way. I know it's only a story, but.... If an AB wanted that, I'd accept it, but forcing someone to regress seems wrong to me. It should be for enjoyment, not psycological torture. I personally would hate that.

I demand you elaborate on this where everyone can read . I though about wearing my sisters tampons, and I did once or twice, but wasn't ever really turned on by it.

I think the first time for me was when I was really little, and a neighbor of mine convinced me to try on her ballet outfit...I remember liking it, but didn't think of anything at the time. My first experience wearing underwear was when my older sister left some of her panties on the bathroom floor, and I tried them on and loved it. My sister never grew bigger than me, so I always remember sneaking into her room and stealing her skirts, bras, panties and leggings. I'm more of a crossdressing diaper wearer though, I don't like baby clothes as much as clothes of women my age. I always love peeing in a girly GoodNite while wearing a combination of skirts, leggings, bras and babydoll tees though. And once (even though this is sort of off topic....kind of) I got my older brother (who is also a diaper lover) to tie me up in a diaper, skirt and bra (of my sisters, back when I was 16 or so) gag me with some duct tape and then leave me there for about two hours..and come back to me soaked..that is still probably my fondest memory of diapers and girls clothes (with a little bondage added in) Which now that I think about it....my favorite halloween ever. I was 14 and a girl in my grade and me both dressed up as the opposite gender. I loved going shopping with her, to pick out my outfit. I also wore some of my sister's panties under the outfit, and never told the girl. She joked about looking up my skirt that night, but thankfully we had bought me some tiny girl shorts and put those under....I was too good of friends with this girl for her to know I was really a crossdresser....and never told her, she just thought we were having fun. Having her do my hair, nails and makeup was also incredibly fun.. I currently sit here typing in a girls's GoodNite, a pink babydoll tee and a jeanskirt. P.S. sorry that I typed my entire life story, I just got carried away.